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 Post subject: The Jotage Journal
PostPosted: Tue Mar 12, 2013 4:38 pm 
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So hey guys!

I've been around the forums since the past week, got here through a friend I met online. After subscribing to Chief's guide, in the message it recommended me to create this Journal, I was thinking about it already and think it's a much better idea than posting everything in its each individual thread, much better for progress keeping and advice collecting :D
So let's get started already!

WHO AM I?
Well, I am 22, studying to become an airline pilot, been through college, done with all the subjects and now I'm back home, flying here, I will only get my degree once I'm done, it will probably be this year.
I am the PC Games nerdy guy. What do I mean by that? Well, I think I don't look bad at all, I'm no freakin George Clooney look-alike, but I know I can make it happen with enough hard work! Everyone's got their escape valves, mine's gaming!


WHAT ABOUT PUA GOT MY ATTENTION?
Well I want to be much more sociable, and become more outgoing!
I wanna become a better human being, I'm always taking time to evaluate what I can do to improve myself, for my own good and the good of those around me.
I want to enlarge my social and friend circle
And yeah, I wanna have success with women!

THE GOOD STUFF ABOUT ME
I am super centered
I take good care of myself, eat healthy, exercise,work out, dont overdoo drinking, I'm not on drugs, I don't settle down until I get where I want to be and I try my best at everything I do.
I always keep a positive thinking toward ALL OF MY GOALS IN LIFE.
Also, I'm always set to go, keep a close shave, and my hair is always sharp.
I simply don't give up
I'm a teamplayer.
My experience in aviation taught me to be confident in what I've learned so far as someone who's going to begin his flight instructor training soon, so I wanna take that confidence and use it around people too!
I am very confortable and much different and easy to talk to with people I've known for a while.

THE BAD STUFF!
I AM VERY, VERY, VERY SHY when it comes to being around girls, I've had maybe one or two real good talks where I could have closed well, but I didn't
I cannot approach efectively
I cannot keep a good conversation going
Building attraction, escalating, all that stuff is hard for me.
Whenever I am in a group, I'll usually be quiet, and don't talk much unless it's relevant
So yeah, basically, I need a new beggining, start from scratch

MY GAME DATA
Well, I've had my first kiss when I was 17, and a one night stand thanks to some guys I shared an apartment with that brought a girl over and well, somehow, she took a liking to me despite my hard icing and lack of interest on her (who can get women logic?) but hey, not gonna complain right?

MY GOOD GAME QUALITIES
I LIKE LISTENING TO WOMEN TALK!!
I like to be a listener/observer kinda person
I have no problem at all keeping eye contact, it's natural to me, respectful to whoever you're talking too.
I pay a lot of attention to what women say, though I have a some problems interpreting their body language and reading her signs.

Well I'm writting this in kind of a hurry because I gotta get ready to leave quite soon.
Steps I'm planning to take:
Find a wingman and do the NEWBIE MISSION (I rather go with a wingman that has a bit more experience than me, makes me feel relaxed and have some support to go on), get practice on some openers

Hope you liked reading this! Gonna check on answers when I get back
Thanks so far for the great support!


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 Post subject: Re: The Jotage Journal
PostPosted: Thu Mar 14, 2013 12:01 am 
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So yeah, it's time to start it up!

Got plans for the weekend, this coming friday I'm going with some friends to a concert at a night club. It's a pretty well known venue here and so I think there will be plenty of oportunities, looking forward to it!

DIFICULTIES THAT MAY ARISE
Probably my friends (so far all male that I know, not organising the whole thing) won't be in a pick-up mood or intention, wonder how that will affect my will and development, but I think there's no problem if I do it smoothly without attracting much attention, after all, that's the goal.

GOALS
This is going to be night time so:
Smile
Practice Eye Contact
Suck up AA
Try and make openers and generate conversation
Go for low cost kino and try to escalate
Overall just get used to approaching and opening girls and dealing with AA

For Saturday I have a bro's bday. Should last through the afternoon/night, there are some girls that I don't know that will be coming I think. But I'm very much concerned about trying anything, it is a smaller place, more eyes will be on me and that kinda bothers me a bit. But I'll do my best.

DIFFICULTIES THAT MAY ARISE
Smaller place
Some people I'm already familiar with
Worried about being confortable enough to make any moves other than talk and exchange contact info.

GOALS
Be social
Show lots of positive attitude
Be much more participating when around a group of people
Generate conversations
Make people laugh

Any ideas/pointers/suggestions, feel free to post them up. How can I deal with the difficulties I listed, and are there others you think that come up in situations like these?

Also, I think I'm very happy with the goals I've set for myself, do you think they're at the correct "level" for now? Is there anything else I should add?

All help is most welcome guys!


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 Post subject: Re: The Jotage Journal
PostPosted: Sun Mar 17, 2013 11:43 pm 
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Wasn't able to succeed this weekend, but learned quite a few things:

FRIDAY
It was packed, couldn't really move around
It was really, i mean REALLY loud, couldn't really make conversation with anyone
There was a lot of people which were older than us, absolutely no good.

SATURDAY
As I suspected, just an easy going birthday party, nothing special or any oportunities

THINGS TO IMPROVE
Pick more suitable places
Be mindful more mindful of the kind of event it will be holding
Should really try going into Day game.

I am disapointed, but never disencouraged


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