FR#6
Location: HB7's place
Date: 11/7

Time bridge with HB7 Blonde from report 5 on Tues 11/6. I showed up at her place and we were suppose to be watching "Hitch" which I brought to her place after work. The Country Music Awards were on and she wanted to watch them. She sat on the other end of the couch being cold. I managed to get a few kisses here and there. At one point I kind of tried a freeze out by sitting on the floor acting like I was uncomfortable. It got be back on the couch and laying on her but nothing that great. We were acting like an old married couple to be honest.

She kept answering her phone through most of the interaction and I really wasn't able to get anywhere like I wanted. I thought with the good kisses I got on the last date I'd be doing well. I really didn't initiate kino like I should have and didn't know how to keep her attention. So I sat there like an AFC quietly watching the Awards.

- More Dates and more reports to follow. it's been a busy week.

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Damn, sounds painful. I think part of the problem was she had the frame because it was her show she was watching. If she was watching something that was your choice, it would have been more like her in your space than you in hers.

I see what you are saying. Of course I'm in her place but by also allowing her to chose what we were doing I lost control for the night. I'll make more of a concious effort during future dates to take more control of what we are doing, so she's on my time .

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Something I'm aiming for in the year ahead is to have my place presentable enough that I can bring HBs back to it on a regular basis. (I'll need to wait until the poisoned roommate situation is fixed, but that's another story.)

If a girl thinks you don't have your shit together and you're spending all your time at hers rather than her at yours, that's going to lower her estimation of your S&R value. Birds are attracted to mates who can build a good enough nest to keep the eggs safe.

Excellent Point! I finally have my place in descent shape with some fake plants and stuff. I am slowly working on it and its looking better. The next thing that I want to do is use ambient backlighting like in that LoveDrop makeover video of that guys apartment on youtube.

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Well like mentioned, you gave up your power by watching her crap. I would of been like acting as if your the show not that award show. and should of made it clear that you could walk out at anytime. Also i think she was assuming that when you gave over you were looking for some a$$, im guessing you didnt come in a casual care free fun manner as if it was your own home. very bad thing to sit around like an afc, and do nothing like if shes your pet holding on to your leash. Also let her sit down first, if she sits on the couch grab a chair from somewhere else, that way she gets confused and completely throws her state off. because you don't do what every other guy does and throw himself alongside her on the couch. a pua never does what every other guy does...

I would have grabbed her phone threw it over the couch and used the evolution phase shift!
Then you are da man in control !

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