Well now i feel like shit. i went to a small house party tonight. All went well opened a set before i got there just to warm up. i saw this ex target of mine who was a HB8.5. i talked to her and busted her balls. She seemed to play along with it and be cool about it. On the way back i walked with her and one of her mates back to the bus stop. I negged her once and i could see her eyes were watering. I had over negged her. I tried to rectify the situation by telling her to smile and i gave her a hug but i still felt like shit! was the reason she got so stressed about it was because she is still interested in me?

lol man its too hard to understand what happend, what did you actually say ? It probaly wasnt a neg or you projected it horribly, give us some deets

She likes you alot, and you hurt her! Ring her and ask her out, smooth things out!

well she wanted me to wait for her to get a taxi. I just said to her 'yeah i will but im going have to charge you!". After i said that her eyes just started watering and i could tell she was about to cry.

i tried to see if that was the situation but she hardly gave me any IOI's that night. I gamed other girls that night and i didnt pay much attention to her but if i knew she was still interested, i would have gamed her but as i said i really thought she was not interested.

drop the gaming with her, shes hurt, just take her hand and say lets go, and get out of that place take her somewhere and chat.

I know how that is! I have a ex that's a size of a whale! No literally! It's funny because I posted her pix on myspace and put on the label, "Where's jenny craig? Did you eat her too?" It was so funny I couldn't stop laughing.

Anyways, back to the story. I negged her and used C&F too much which came across I didn't give a shit and was arrogent. THis was when I told her I just wanted to be friends and FREEZED-OUT her. I didn't care anymore about her and I didn't want a relationship with her. So why should I bother with her unless I want my dick to snap off! ha ha ha!

She would call me once in a while but I wouldn't answer or I'll answer and she'll want to go somewhere but I'll tell her nah, it's cool. She hasn't called that much recently but I like her attempts.

HER: So you can have sex now?
ME: Well the virus isn't completely gone but it's going down.
HER: Blah blah blah! [Whatever]
ME: I knew you wanted to fuck but I wasn't gonna go down with that.
HER: You think I wanted to have sex that night?
ME: Uh..yeah!
HER: [Laughs]

Here's the think why would she ask if I could have sex again. She's seeing this guy that hasn't came out of his house except for work, and school but won't visit her. She said he's afraid of public. She's a idiot! The guy is blowing her off and I was NEGGING her about that New YEar's Eve when we were watching Saw 3.

So, yes I do understand. I'm a prick sometimes but mean well.

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Yeah maybe you did over-neg her, depending on the situation, she could have had a relatively bad evening without you knowing. But noticed her reactions very well, after all had you not noticed another neg would have set her off completely.
That situation could become your advantage incase you come across it again, because thats a prime opportunity to turn it around, comfort build and and increase her trust in you. But its a difficult situation in the first place and if it was me, i would have just done what you did and left it at there. I'm sure she is still interested in you.

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Sounds like a combination of her drinking too much gin and something else troubling her. There's no way she should have reacted like that to a simple neg without something else going on. I wouldn't beat yourself up over this one.

well she wasn't drinking that night so it defiantly wasn't the drink talking. I have though come to the conclusion that shes a very insecure girl. I think im going to leave this HB! thanks for the advice guys!