So ye, me and 3 other friends went to a club last night in London.
So we went inside the club, it was shitty, and came outside cause they needed a cigarette. That's when we saw a russian hb9 and 2 of my friends started hitting on her, and at the start I didn't want to join them, they were acting like afc's saying stuff like your gorgeous and stuff like that, pretty much only complementing her.

None of them spoke russian, so one of them asked me how to say "You are pretty" in russian, he told her and then she asked if he was russian, that's when he introduced me to her, she gave me a hug and kiss on the cheek right away, started to talk a bit with me, like where I'm from and what do I do.. after like 5 minutes of small talk, I wanted to take her some place to be alone with her, in the club there was like a sitting area where I wanted to go, but instead she grabbed my hand and took me to the dance floor and started dancing, I don't really know or like dancing so I told her to teach me a bit, we started dancing and I even used my scarf to pull her like closer to me, but she just kept teasing me and I was feeling uncomfortable so I just stepped aside and was staying there looking at her like an idiot.

That's when her friend comes and hb6 maybe 7 and asks me: "are you russian?" I tell her no, "I'm from Portugal, but I speak Russian Romanian English Spanish and Portuguese" she was impressed and complimented me on that, then she told me she wanted to learn some romanian, so she asked me "how to say, what are you doing?" I answer her, then she asks me "how to say, kiss me?" and this is where I feel like I failed big time, I actually answered her instead of doing something like "you sure you wanna know?" and then kiss her, something like that.. after that we spoke a bit more then she got up and started dancing with her friend, so I just left cause I knew I wasn't going to get anything.

This was my first time going out on a club since I learned about this community, I think I was just a bit too nervous and not comfortable, also lacking confidence.. also with the first girl, I think I just should have locked in outside where we were next to my friends, and do some stuff like guessing a number from 1 to 5 or so, maybe even do the cube or the 5 questions lying game, I knew she was into me, but I just managed to blow it all off.


Would really appreciate some comments on this, any advice or opinion is welcome and I'll be thankful for them.