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my ideal woman would be adventurous someone who enjoys sport loves to travel and meet new ppl preferably a small brunette enjoys bands and listening to.live music must be a non smoker tatoos and piercings are also a big turn off for me
Soo....
Define Adventurous. In your terms and how you view that quality. Doesn't matter how accurate it is to webster and blah blah blah.
Meeting new people... eh.
Okay. So, here's the thing I just realized. A fucking light of enlightenment I've recently seen and entirely what's wrong with what you just said up there. You're mentioning really superficial qualities that only cover the surface of a person. Adventurous is the only characteristic you've mentioned that has anything to do with personality. Sports, travel, bands, live music, are just hobbies and activities. A person's interest doesn't define them.
Then you mention looks. Good you've got your standards and know somewhat what you're looking for.
I've been making a lot of platonic female friends recently. I'm not saying I'm an expert or even good at finding women, however I've noticed that these women seem to find it attractive when I say I want a girl who like "the waitress" from "It's always sunny in Philadelphia." The convo is never forced or intentionally placed. Chicks sometimes talk about what sort of Celebrities they find attractive and my friends ask me who I like and that's who I say. I say I like her cause she's Cute, funny, sarcastic, has a unique sense of humor, and I mention other personality traits. And it's all true, that's why I like that chick. They usually talk about the show and other shit.
Eventually a few days later or a few minutes it comes back in conversation and they sometimes try to be like that girl in order to win me over or will introduce me to a friend they have that's like her. Which is fucking awesome cause then I get a girl who's got the sorta personality that'll make me melt.
CHAT