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tl;dr: I kiss and number closed in my first night. Would love to have your opinions on things to improve.

Long story, but to give enough details :). Keeps getting interesting with the time :).

Just arrived from my first night on this thing. And just to give some context, I didn't read "The Game" completely (I'm still at 44%, according to my kindle) and however, found that most of the things the book describes, I already did, however, unconsciously.

Didn't went out with the intention to sarge, it just happened. Went to a bar to have some beers with a male friend I didn't see a long time ago (more than 5 years). I arrived first and choose a table and sat. The table at my left side was empty. 5 minutes later, two girls arrived (I've found later that they were 28 and 29 years old... I'm 26). The 28 was hb8 and the 29 was hb7. They sat at the table in my left hand side. For now on, I'll call the target, the hb8, as M, and the other one, the hb7, as L.

When they were sitting, I gave a slight look to M. Nothing more than 1 second, but enough that she could see that I noticed her. I ordered a bottle of heineken, as my friend was about to arrive in 3 more minutes. By that time, I got my beer and just ignored the girls. They ordered it too.

My friend arrived and we started talking about life, since it was a long time hiatus. As far as I could hear, girls war talking about job and nothing interesting as well. Nothing important happened in 30 minutes.

M left her place to go to the toilet, and passed in front of me (it was the way to the toilet). I looked at her, moved to the left and opened up some space, so she could pass. In the meantime, when I was looking at her, I gave a small smile (small enough so I didn't even show me teeth).

20 minutes later... she went to the toilet again. I didn't move. She asked me to excuse her, and I gave her the enough space, again with that smile and now, looking more deep into her eyes. By that time, I realized I was involved with her.

When se came back, we exchanged eye contact, enough that few seconds later she started to play with her hair. Huuum, seems to be an small IOI. As I said, I wasn't there to sarge and pickup anyone, so I wasn't any confident with this IOI... wanted more :).

Then... third time she went to the toilet (now I'm thinking... does she pisses that much or was she just trying to grab my attention?). She said: "And again I'm disturbing you..." I replied: "That's not a problem at all. Disturbs me as much as you need.", and again I said that with that fucking smile that dissimulated ones gives, with only the side of their mouths. Not sure it was a good move, but at least, the ice was broken.

When she arrived back, a group of 15 people were doing lot of noise on the other table and I looked at them with a reproving look and almost palmfacing me. The the girls did the same. L, the hb7, realized I was not liking that, and asked me: "what the fuck are these guys doing?". I replied: "I don't know, but they really sucks. You see that girl wearing blue pants? She wants all of the guys to her. See the yellow shirt guy? He is gay and attracted by that one". I gave a 30 seconds insight at the other group (i'm quite good observing others behavior). L was impressed: "Haha, the yellow shirt guy, you seem to be right". Then I decided to try an opener. Since I was reading people, I decided to try reading them: "You know, you two. I may have already some opinions on you... L, you have a sarcastic smile. I don't like that, but you seem to be smart. Sometimes too much smart. M, you have a great smile, but you look like an innocent girl. Not that it is bad, it is just you." Not sure if I went too far here. WDYT?

By that time, I decided I was going to try something with them. My friend don't even know this PUA stuff, so I thought he would be a shame on this, and indeed, he was a very creepy and wrong wing... he decided to flirt directly to the target, M, asking silly questions: "Where do you work? What's your name?". Later I realized, it was very good he did that. "Now the girls think that I'm the salvation of this fucking table", I've thought.

M, the target, was getting bored, and I was entertaining her friend, reading people to her and talking personalities and psychology. At this moment I realized I could try the cube game or some hand reading, but I had already entertained L, so, I decided to save this for another moment, if necessary.

My friend realized he wasn't doing any good there and decided to leave (we were there for 2 hours by now). I've promptly said: "sorry that you are going... it was really good to see you again after that long" (did that in order that the girls don't think I go out with him that often) and said I was going to pay his beers and one day in the future he would pay mine. Did that to show a DHV. Not paying the girls beer, but paying to my friend.

sidenote: I know I'm being cruel with him here, since I used him as a bait. Hope you don't blame me.

He went home, I stayed with both girls. And I realized I only talked to L, and almost not even a word with M, my target. Time to give her some attention. L told me: "Your friend is creepy". I've said: "I know, but I didn't like him asking you, M, that. Well, he'll learn someday. But you, L, at least you were OK and entertained, right?". Tried showing some DHV again. L agreed.

M, the target went to the toilet again (4th time, yeah she may have problems), and I said: "You are very spacious moving me from my place again. But okay, last time I'll let you do this.". Tried a small neg here.

By that time, L revealed to me: "I saw how you look to my friend... and she might be into you, however, neither me or she likes that ring on you. Man needs attitude. There is full of guys out there that takes you to bed, stay 2 hours above us and do no harm. Sometimes we even want to have a manicure." I replied: "Course I know. You don't need to fuck 2 hours. Just 15 minutes and give the girl that fucking incredible moment she never had before. That's what girls need. Girls don't want duration, girls want a well done sex, doesn't matter how long it takes".

L, the target's friend agreed: "Huumm, you seem to understand." I replied continuing my theory: "There is full of guys who takes viagra out there, just to give that impression of lasting longer in bed. No need for that shit.". L asked me: "Yeahhh, are you old? No... you don't that shit.". And I replied: "No, I really don't!".

L, the friend, asked me: "What is your name?" (Think I did right until now for not asking names and let them ask mine). IOI, I guess.

L told me: "Guys should read 50 shades of gray... so they can learn how we like it". Fortunately, my fiancee read it, and gave me a summary of the history, so I knew some hot points of the book, so I've said: "Yeah, I read it a little. All of that dominating history of the guy, and girls pretending to be weak however, then turn the game and rule things". Just threw up some words to make her know that I know what I was talking about (even though, I didn't :) ).

L said: "Dude, you are really interesting and smart. You should always go out by yourself. You don't need to bring any friends with you."

M was coming back from the toilet. Time to L to go now. (good thing that girls usually like to go to toilets in group and I think I managed to make this not happen).

I told M, the target: "your friend is really one of a kind, but since the beginning, you were disturbing me." She didn't realized I was flirting to her and se even considered I was into her friend, not her (maybe I gave L too much attention): "she is coming back, and she may be jealous of you". I replied: "Jealous? What did I do? I'm into you... not her. She is my friend, I like her attitude.". She hold me by the hands (IOI?) and said laughing: "Hahaha. You're really good. But you're using this ring." (L, the friend, arrived). I replied: "This one? Rings are just a decoration. As your friend told me. Men must have attitude. They must know what they want. Right, L?". She nod her head, agreeing with me. Then I told: "I know what I want.".

L, the friend, told: "You guys could switch numbers, right?". I've said: "Not yet... maybe later". M, the target grabbed her phone and asked: "Gimme your number?". And I've said: "Nope... I want yours". She said: "Will you call me?". I said: "Not sure yet... I'll let you know when I call you (with a sarcastic smile and biting my lips)." She gave me her number.

Told her I'd talk to her through SPAM (I was being serious... but I could see their faces getting serious). And I've said laughing out loud: "Course not. I'm not a jerk." and I could see the relief on their faces.

Now I've got the target phone. Too good for the first night. Maybe time to try something else. Let's ask for our check and get us on our way home. We all went to the subway station, and on our way there, L left us alone. We were talking to each other, and entering the station, we kissed.

Conclusion: For me it was a flawless victory :). But for sure, more experienced eyes will see lots of mistakes I've made. Can you guys point them to me, so I can improve? (that's the reason for such a detailed field report).

Cheers guys


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