So I approached a HB 8 last night with, " Hey I had to come over and let you know your looking cute tonight,"
She accepted compliment and asked my name.
Told her that her shoes emphasized her sophisticated style.
Then got into rapport about where we were from, teased her about her accent ( She was from London I'm from Preston- north south divide lol)
There was a random guy that appeared I said, "Oh please introduce me to your boyfriend, its the polite thing to do"
HB 8- " hahahah na he's my gay best friend"
Shook his hand and intro'd myself.
ME- " Ah so as he's not your boyfriend there's no reason why I can't chat you up."
She laughed and playfully hit me in the stomach.
ME- " come on lets get drinks"
I went and got a soda water to her surprise HB 8 said, " Soda water as if you drinking that in here" (As the normal thing is for everyone to walk round absolutely smashed"
ME- " well i prefer to drink minimal alcohol because I actually remember whether I meet cool people or not on a night, instead of drinking enough to pluck up courage to meet new people."
HB 8- " ahh thats so cool actually you know"
Ran a routine about chewing gum that i have devised! using Humor as a DHV.
After this I said lets go and dance and instantaneously grabbed her hand and led her on there.
We danced and i was totally out of my head, doing some crazy dance moves.
She was laughing, she was an awesome dancer in fairness
I placed my hand down her back and pulled her in and said, " wow you need to teach me them moves"
we danced abit more I didn't escalate on the dancefloor. I suggested we go and take a seat to "have a chat".
So right now I have opened, DHV'd, used humor, gained rapport, used kino- up to a point where i feel enough comfort and compliance has been established. And now isolated off the dancefloor.
Sat down put my arm around her whilst maintaining eye contact and said, " you know your a really cool girl."
HB 8- " Can I tell you something I'm not being big headed but I have a boyfriend."
ME- " oh so do I its fine they wont mind"
HB 8 started laughing and said, " well ive been with him for 4 months now, but i wish i was single sometimes."
ME- " well the way I see it there's two types of girls. There's the cool ones who like to meet up, go out for dinners and coffee, have great sex and enjoy life- then there's the one's that just want that special person and try and change them. If you are the latter one then you should stay away from me , however if your the first type put your number in there."
So she typed her number in my phone.
sent her a random text saying.
ME- "hey crazy dancer you broke my heart
was great meeting you. you seemed pretty friendly and open minded- to go with your good looks aswell. Anyways i'l see you round uni sometime."
HB 8 replied saying. " aw thank you very much. it was great meetin you! might cross paths paths in foster/livesy one day
I replied saying, " okay cutey i'l see you around"
HB 8 replied saying " take care sweety"
Okay guys any constructive advice on that interaction I had would be great. anything on how i could follow up the text game would aswell be awesome.
Regards,
Droogle.
CHAT