Hello associate PUAketeers,

Got in the game 5 months ago after I broke up with my girlfriend. A way like most dudes get in the game. It is funny a lot of guys get in the game after a break up. It’s like a big powerboost for guys to get chicks then. Its like you are Bowser in Mario kart and just swallowed a big fat yellow star. KABLEM. Go mode.

After the break up I read the game, read a lot of inner game books, checked out videos online etc. I am going to the gym 4 days a week for 4 months now and I am work my ass off. After I began with the PUA stuff I got laid 4 times, something that did not happened before. I was in a good gaming vibe but I noticed the last 2 weeks I lost it a bit. So I decided to wright this blog. One it is helpful to increase my gaming level en second I think it is good to right your shit down (and third is increasing my English writing muhahaha).

Did a few daygame sessions with my best buddy who also got in the game 5 months ago but mostly nightgame for me. Sadly I don’t have much time to do daygame. I wish I had. I think daygame is the best way to meet chicks. It is pretty special for a girl. It is so powerfull when you connect with her. And ofcourse you show the most balls when you approach in mid day. But like I sayd mostly nightgame for me.

I live near Amsterdam and go there atleast once a week. I know its not much but I have to finish my internship and next to that I work 2 days. So I am busy working 6 (sometimes 7) days a week. I love my life though. I can recommend a few strong innergame books if you guys want. Having a strong inner game is the most important aspect of the game and life. It really helps.

Saturday 27-10

Went to a Halloween party with two of my buddies. I did one or two approaches but it was just fluff talk. One Russian chick, she was a 6 or something, approached me, so a big IOI. But she didn’t get me turned on. She was not very hot. Talked to her for 10 minutes and I was tempted to just kiss close. Why? Well that’s a funny story. My best buddy and I are playing this game (next to our every night mission GET CHICKS): we made groups of girls and flip a coin to chose what kind of girl you have to kiss close. So at the moment the first who kiss close is a brown haired 30+ girl with big boobs wins 40 euros. The Russian chick was 30, got brown hair en a nice rack. So it was a match. But my buddy wasn’t there so I just let it go. Saturday I felt I lost my mojo a bit. That’s why I begun writing this blog. I think the main reason is I fucked this hot black chick 3 weeks ago so my sex drive has dropped a bit (maybe I will tell you about it later (she was so fucking hot, and my first black chick so it was a pretty cool experience!). Mind game is so important. Fuck. I took a day off from work coming Saturday. So it is game time Friday and Saturday! Getting my Mojo back ASAP!

Peace,

VincentVega from a magnificent Amsterdam

Friday 2-11 Blowin off some steam yeah buddy

So I Decided it was game time this Friday and Saturday. I went with 2 buddies to Amsterdam.

We went to a little coffeshop to blow off steam. I didn’t drink much the last 4 months because of my fitness schedule.

So sometimes I smoke some weed or hasj. So we smoked some and after that we went to a club. I was baked so I didn’t approach ANY thing lol.

Pretty stupid I know. But I am busy with working so I kind off needed that. Noting to report really.


Saturday 3-11 And I am Feelinnnnn’ Good

So Saterday I had to men up a bit. I went out with my best buddy who is also in the PUA scene.

We went to a small bar and I agreed on drinking some vodka this night. I didn’t drink for a long time. So it was pretty nice. Getting more lose with it really. I took a vodka and we just danced and chilled. No approaches.

We went to a different bar after 30 min. It was still early and we were just chilling. I saw some Chinese chicks on the street and sayd something like: I love chinaaaa and went for the group hug. They were laughing and me and my friend were just lifting our vibe up. Then we saw a group of 3 chicks on the street, with one HB8. I talked to her for 5 min about Stockholm. I went there 3 months ago and the girls were all from Sweden so that was awesome. I had some good vibing with here and asked her if she wanted to go to this techno club with us. She wanted to but her friends were walking away talking in Swedish and shit. HB8 was asking her friend like: lets go with them blabla. But they just walked and they cockblocked me like a matha fakkaaaa argh. So I just sayd goodbye. When I am typing this I am thinkg now that I just should have went for her number though.

So my buddy and I went to this chill bar without the Swedish girls. Took some vodka and danced a bit. Talked a bit here and there. Nothing much interesting but had a great fucking time. So we were in good spirit and went to this techno place.

Really awesome music there. I really like techhouse music. We went in and there was a HB9 and HB8. I small talked with HB9 about this techno party. Asked her if she had any cool stories. She sayd not really. She asked me and I told her some funny fact about mascara. Mas = more and cara = lashes. She laughed. Then she told me she had a BF.. So I sayd goodbye and went for some dancin.

After that I went in a set with 5 girls. I liked one blonde girl in it. She was like HB8 I thought. My friend opened her friend so I just came in and sayd: what is my friend doing (with a big smile)? It was a fun talk. I mostly have fun talks lol. I asked: do u watch sponge bob? She sayd: yes totally and we talked about it. Really funny convo but she had really weird teeth. She asked If I wanted to smoke, so I smoked a cigarette with her. I sometimes smoke in the weekend. I have to stop that. I didn’t escalate or something. Was not really in to her.

When we walked to the dance floor after the smoke I took one more vodka and bounced up a HB7.5 I guess. She was 30.(I WAS LIKE YES IM GOING TO WIN THIS BET I HAD WITH MY BUDDIE). She was really in to me. Really easy to say. She was touching me right away. So she asked my age. And I was like:… ehmm now I have to think about what im going to say: 30?! (I smiled wile saying that) She was like: really? I sayd yeah totally… (I am 23 but I was in this situation before). A lot of older girls don’t like a young dudes so I just lied. She was like: you look young blabla. I waved it away with I get that a lot. We were dancing close. My friend came by and I was like: hey man this is my new girlfriend. HB7.5 was loving this. We talked for like 20 mins about spongebob (yes I have a thing for cartoons) and some normal things like where I lived blabla. There was a big egg at the stage. Yes an egg lol. There was some art stuff going on in the club and I asked her: did u see the egg already? Really this was really fucking stupid to say because she was like: NO! Im going there for a sec brb. She went there with her girlfriend and I didn’t see here anymore. FUCK! Really fucked up that. I should have taken here with me to the egg and go for the kiss. But I had a great time though!


Learning points and thinking

I am going to stop with the talking about funny things like Spongebob. It isn’t very manly although its funny.

I have to be more like a mother fuckingggg bad ass. A funny one though. But I am more the funny guy at the moment.

Anyone have tips how to be more like the bad ass guy?

I had a great time and had some cool conversations. Next time a kiss close would be nice though.

I am living at my parents still. I like it there, its just because its easy. My goal is to move out ASAP.


Peace,

VincentVega

Friday 9-11

Went to a restaurant and the new James Bond with my family. My mom her birthday. No gaming just chilling.
James Bond was awesome. Go and see it!

Saturday 10-11

Me and two buddies went to Amsterdam. We went to one club . I just grabbed some drinks (water), danced and had a good time.
Did one approach, HB8. I opened with: My friends and I having a bet where you guys from blabla. Had some fluff talk for 5 minutes and after that I told her I may see her later.

After that I didn’t approach anyone. Not even the chick I already approached. I don’t know what it is lately. I don’t have this power drive anymore to just go and approach. It is fucking pathetic.
That’s why I think it’s a good time to make some goals.

Goals for now:

1: Getting a place of my own. I have contacted a broker for a place in my city.
2: Approach at least 5 girls per night when I go out.
3: Learn to play keyboard. Practice for 30 minutes every week (Yes I want to learn this lol, I think playing piano/keyboard can be awesome if I learn it).
4: Getting jacked (Work in progress).
5: When I am ready I want to adjust pick up in my daily life. But I don’t feel ready for that now plus I am a lot at work most of the week. Somebody got any ideas how to work to adjusting pick up in daily life?

Monday 12-11

I went kickboxing at a new gym. I am going in a cut phase with fitness and kickboxing should help a lot.

I have a food schedule now, 2 / 3 times kickboxing a week and 2 days of full body fitness.

Friday 16-11

Had a busy week at work and had a great work out week at the gym. Went out kickboxing 2 times and lifted the weights 3 times this week. My ‘’new’’ kick box trainer is actually a bouncer at a club I often go to in Amsterdam. This will come back BIG TIME on my field report for Saturday 18-11. But more on that later.

Worked 5 days (Internship) and I had to woke up at 6 the next day to have my last working day of the week. I still wanted to chill and grab a drink that night so I went to Amsterdam with my buddy to have dinner at a really nice Asian restaurant. We had a reservation and luckily our table was next to two chicks. Probably like HB7.5 both.

My buddy and I talked about our week and had some fluff talk about some funny stories in the past. After that we ordered some drinks en had to pick a dinner. I thought It would be OK to open indirect in this situation because we were in a restaurant so I asked the girls next to us for their opinion about the food in here and if they had any tips for us. We talked about the food for a few minutes and after that we thanked them and we mined our own business again. The first step was made *smirk*.

So we had our dinner and after we finished my buddy asked one of the girls If she is from Amsterdam because she looks so familiar. It turns out she is a teacher at our school (a young teacher, she was 28 ). So we fluff talked a bit for 15 minutes or so. The girl next to me was throwing some little IOI’s, playing with here hair, wiggling here foot etc. At some point they paid their bill and wanted to leave. So we asked where they were going. They didn’t know yet so we just let them go. I still regret we didn’t go for the instant date. I have to be more in game mode. I was just thinking: lets have a nice dinner with my buddy and I was not planning on gaming some little hunnies. I still have to hit the switch of ‘’being in game mode all the time’’.

After we had dinner we went to a club. I actually wanted to go home already because I had to get up so fucking early. But I was like YOLO (yes YOLO, don’t hate me for using this). So we went in this club and to my surprise I found out my kick box trainer worked here. Talked to him for a bit and went inside. This is great for social value.

It was still pretty early so it was not full with people inside. Nobody was dancing and everybody was sitting. So we just grabbed a drink and started dancing. We were the only one dancing but fuck it. YOLO right? (OMG did he used this word again?)

So after a while people were heading for the dance floor as well and my friend got approached by two girls. They asked if he could take a picture. So I just grabbed the two girls to go on the photo with them. We talked for a bit but I didn’t really liked them. They were like HB6/7. So we continued doing our smashing robot dance moves.

I saw this blonde chick. Small little blonde girl. Really my type so I approached here and her friend: ‘’hey girls I want to ask you something. Do you like my shoes’’? We had some fluff talk and really get her laughing and shit. So my friend was talking to the other girl but stopped and he went dancing alone. Bad sign. So I asked her after 5 min if she had a boyfriend. And yes.. she had a boyfriend. So said goodbye to them and we went home.

On our way home I saw two girls at a scooter. I said Hey girls stop for a sec. I walked to them and found out that they were pretty fat. So we left them right off the bat. We called it a night and went back home.


Saturday 17-11 *A night of EVERYTHING please*

I had a deal with 3 buddies we would go get wasted tonight. I am really serious with my food and non alcohol rule lately. But I really like to get wasted sometimes so we had this night all planned out. We went to Amsterdam really early. It was like 8 PM and we started our little pub crawl at a coffeshop near the red light district. We smoked one joint and headed to a small pub. Watched some soccer there ( I love soccer, ask me anything about the premier league/or Dutch league) and drunk some vodka. There were literally NO girls in there so after the match we went to a new bar. Same story there. We did some shots and we were already getting wasted. So we went to the centre, where the clubs are. While walking someone dare me to go into a Chinese massage salon and ask if they did happy ending so I did. Was pretty funny. I was like: Hi, can I get a happy ending in here? And the women was like: uhh NO hahaha. Chinese people are always happy, so funny.

We arrived at a club/bar. Always a lot of tourists there. The first hour we just drinked some more and we were singing and dancing. Going on stage. Talking to some girls. I am trying to remember this haha. We were with 4 people and 2 friends joined us so we were there with a solid bunch of guys. I always like it when you are with a bunch of people, you always see someone you know and its good for social value.

So at one point we went outside for a smoke (yes a smoke I am so sorry) and I saw two HB8s sitting with a buddy of mine. I sat down next to the one I liked. Let’s call her London ( she was from London, how creative). So I talked to London for a bit. She was pretty cool. Found out some things we had in common so I put my arm around here and said to my friends: this is my new girlfriend. I said to her: lets go inside and dance. We went inside and danced for a bit. Asked about what kind of sports she does. Hoping she would return the question. I can now tell I kickbox and I guess that’s turning girls on big time! So she did return the question and told her about my sport a bit. I just went for the kiss. I am at a point I just know when its on. We kissed a few times and danced intimate.

I ordered some more vodka and drunk with her. I am getting pretty drunk at this point. So one of my buddies is hooking up with her friend. So we decided to go to the club where my ‘’new kickbox friend’’ works.It is like a 5 min walk.

We went there and talked for a minute with him. Went inside and for the minute we were there. OH wait. I am remembering something what happened in the bar before this one. LOL this is cool.

Lets get back in time 30 min. So I was with London back in the other bar 30 min ago. And some dude went up to London and asked her if she wanted to dance. So I said right smoothly: dude, she is with me. He shook my hand and said something like sorry. This was a pretty cool move as I say myself. Value FTW. Ok so lets go back to the part where we entered the last club.

So we went in and the minute we where the some dude grabbed my chick at her shoulder while she was holding my hand. So I was like: dude wtf are you doing get the fuck off. So at the same point he was pushing me a bit and in a split second my buddy grabbed him and was rolling on the floor with him. I pushed some other guy away who was heading for my friend at the floor. And then my ``kickbox friend`` grabbed the other dudes and threw them out of the club. Rule number one in life: get to know the bouncer lol. We were pretty lucky we met the bouncer like 5 days ago. So all of this made my ‘’connection’’ with London very strong. The minute everything went to normal she was all over me. After 30 min the club was closing and we called It a night.

I went to London her hotel with my buddy and London her girlfriend. London her girlfriend and my friend hooked up earlier but I noticed they were not clicking very well anymore. So all of a sudden she was like: I don’t know, we have a small bed. You guys cant sleep at our place.

London talked for a but with her friend and they decided we could sleep with them but only if we can get passed the reception. So the guy ( a Chinese guy) at the reception was like: Hi guys have a nice night. Lol I love that guy.

So we entered their room. And seriously. It was like one bed. And we where with 4 people… It was the smallest room ever. LOL. So to be short: London said something like: I cant have sex with you with my girlfriend next to me. So we just slept. We left the next morning and said goodbye. And that was it. Crazy fucking night!!! To bad I couldn’t make the FC. I was thinking to move London and me to their shower or something. But the shower was also really fucking small. Probably I should just go for it anyway. But anyway we had a sick night bitches !

Cheers VincentVega

23-11 Friday Amster-damn ; Witness the Poledancing fitness

Friday night out in Amsterdam, without liqueur this time. Had a day off again this Saturday. I went to Leuven in Belgium 24-11 (FR after this one).
My friend had some cool stories about Leuven and its only a 2 hour drive from Amsterdam. But first we hit the bar(s) in Amsterdam.

Me and my friend went to our regular bar/club last Friday. There are always a lot of tourists there. I think its kind of cool to meet people from other countries. So we had a some tasty drinks (water yayyyy). My other friend was out on a date and was going to meet us later. It was still pretty early and not many people were inside. We just talked about our week and smoked a cigarette. OK. From now on I am going to STOP SMOKING cigarettes.

After an hour our friend came to meet us and the party could start. There we not a lot of hot chicks in the building, sadly. My friend noticed a girl he saw the other week and told me she smell like toilet refresher. Just like last week. She was pretty hot though. So I opened here: Hey, you were here last week didn’t you? I can tell because you smell just like last week (I told her this like a compliment). She asked her friend if they were here last weekend. I was thinking, wtf how can you not remember where you were last weekend. I can remember I was here last weekend, and I was wasted last weekend. I asked for her name and I couldn’t hear it. She said something that sounded like ‘’awesome’’. So I just called her awesome and told her that was the coolest name I EVER heard. She didn’t really hooked so I cut it off pretty fast.

We were (soberly) dancing like crazy (instead of one of my buddies who was slamming cocktails to forget his stressy work week). Having a good time. At one point my sober friend remembered he had to get his car to the center of town. His car was now near the train station. So he was going to get his car and my drunk friend and I were down for some clubbing together again.

We were in the middle of the dance floor, it was pretty packed at this point. And we were dancing next to a group of 5 girls. Two out of five looked all right. So we were grooving to the beat next them and the two ‘’all right girls’’ caught my attention. And one of them was asking for it, lets give her the name miss Pole dancing (I come back to the fact I call her miss Pole dancing later).

So miss Pole dancing was dancing (lol best sentence ever). And she gave me ‘’the look’’. Now the look is something like this: If a girl looks over her shoulder into your eyes more then once she likes you. So she gave me the look and I was like: lets open miss Pole dancing. She had a very, very nice body. Face was OK. So lets say HB7.5, 21 years old (almost 22). She had this bag shaped like a heart. So I thought of opening her with: Hey that’s a nice bag, are you cupid? That was the opening I had in my mind but it went like this: Hey where are you from? Miss PD: Amsterdam. So I was like, ohhh and continued in Dutch ( I wont write in Dutch in here, don’t be afraid ). I told her I liked her bag. I asked why she had a bag like a heart: is she in love with someone I asked. She told me she isn’t and returned the question. I told her I was single too. I told her she must be a loveing person with that kind of bag. She laughed and agreed. We fluff talked a bit. I asked her what she did in such a touristy bar. Then I grabbed her hand and said: lets go to the benches in the back where we can talk without the loud music. She agreed. So I left my friend for a sec. He told me he had to go hit the bathroom anyways.

So we sat down, talked a bit more, I immediately put my arm around her waste. Smelled her hair and told her she smelled nice. Asked what kind of perfume it was. It was Chanel (how unique). Told her I recognized it. She was like: that’s bad for me huh. I responded: haha, no not in that way. I joked that probably my mother wears it and I smiled. We talked about the usual stuff, work and where she lived. Told her she seems like a very happy person, smiling the whole time etc. Told her I like happy people and that I am a very happy person as well.

Now like the other week I asked: what kind of sports do you do? She told me she is practicing pole dancing and ballet (HELL YEAH). That explains her fit body and her amazing ass.
I was like, get the fuck out of here, that’s super hot haha. She luckily returns the question so I could brag about the fact I fitness a lot and I practice kickboxing (didn’t tell her I practice it just for 2 weeks muhaha). We found out we were both born at the same date. I told her it must be faith we met. I told her the first thing I noticed was her bag. She said that’s very rare, mostly all men say they notice her ass. I laughed and told her: oh really?! I told her she had to stand and do a spin. She did. It was pretty obvious it was on. She touched her hair. Touched my leg etc. So we talked for like 10 min and I went in for the kiss. Kissed a few times. Told her her lips are very soft and that she is a good kisser.

I read some article a few weeks back about ‘’kissing like a movie star’’. It was about how girls like to be kissed. So the conclusion was: kiss like the movie star, put one hand at hear neck/face. You get the idea right? Like they kiss in romantic movies. So I did that and after a while pulled her hair a bit. She grabbed my back with her hands, putting her nails into my back. Me like that haha. I think she is def crazy in the bed fo sjo! I must nail this one.

I had to go to Belgium the other day. And she had to work pretty early so I told her we had to have a cool date this week. She agreed so I am going to see her this Friday.
So after the talk she insert her phone number in my phone. My friend came back from getting his car with my other mate who went for a very long piss. My friends wanted to another club so told her I would see her Friday and said goodbye.

In the new club I didn’t approach. My motivation was zero. I guess because I kiss/number closed miss PD. Well lets just say that is the reason.
So that was my Friday night! It was nice night! I definitely think I can FC miss PD. She was / is really into me (she hooks pretty hard according the fext texts we had).
But more on miss PD next week!

Cheers VincentVega

24-11 A Night in Leuven (BELGIUM): Beer and Döner

As stated in my last FR, I was on a trip to Leuven last Saturday with my homy. It is a typical student city with lots of bars. Students + bars = chicks so we decided we should go and check it out! We had our own little road trip to Leuven. We left early afternoon by car and arrived at our hotel around 4 o clock. The hotel was perfect. We had 2 king-size beds and a bathtub. The only thing we needed were some fine ladies!

First we watched soccer at an Irish pub. Manchester United – QPR. Drank a beer ( hey, it was something like a holyday so I decided I had earned a few beers tonight). There we 2 HB’s in there but with a group of 5 dudes. I didn’t approach. Look liked they had BF’s. We just watched the game. After that, we ate some food at a Chinese restaurant and headed for the hotel to freshen up. I took a bath and sprayed on (to much) perfume. We were ready to go!

We went to the first bar. There was some girl football team in there who organized this party. The music was so bad. First the ‘’DJ’’ played some dubstep and all of a sudden I’m a barby girl pounded out of the speakers (you get the picture?). I had my second beer but I was like: fuck this music is bad. Screw it I am going to get drunk tonight. We fluff talked with some girls. But really. There were like NO hot babes. So after a few beers and some groovin’’ we went to another bar.

So this ritual (fluff talk to –HB6 girls) went on for a few bars. Not really much to report. Nothing special. I met one smoking hot girl. I was pretty far (with drinking beers) already when I opened here. She was so hot. So I basically said like: Hi how are you. You are HOT. And she was also Dutch so we had a connection (whoehoe). The first thing she literally said was: the Belgium girls/people are ugly aren’t they?! I was like, ehm,wtf, well most of them unfortunately are not that hot tonight. So do YOU have a boyfriend, I asked. And she was like: ehm yes (I was like noooooo fuck). So that sucked. Opened a few sets, lots of girls with boyfriends or just not worth to open because they were not very hot.

So it was getting late (and not getting LAID) and I was a bit tipsy. And I saw this group of girls who seemed OK at first. I opened them, don’t know what I said. Nothing special, would be Hi guys what’s up?! So turns out they are from the USA. So I talked to this girl, and after having a good look at here she is not very hot. She was a bit fat. Let’s say HB4. But like I said, I just wanted to get laid at this point. So I just KC here and danced a bit. And I know, girls from the US are pretty open en fast-forward when it comes to sex. So after 10 min I was like: lets go to my hotel and drink some… uhm water and pretend it is vodka. It is 5 minutes away. So she told me she had to ask her friends.. and came back telling me she have to stay with here friends, argh (well I am glad that this happened because I am sure I didn’t want to wake up next to her). But at that time it sucked though.

So that was pretty much it. I had big hopes to FC that night but sadly it turned out bad. The last thing we did was eat some kebab and went to bed.
It was a great trip though. Had lots of fun.

I am looking forward to go on the date I have this Friday with miss Poledance. She just texted me what we are going to do and if I want to drink something first at her place.
She asked what I like for to drink so she can buy it. So is this girl code for: lets have sex at our first date?! I HOPE SO haha.

Cheers VincentVegaOC

Friday 30-11 ; You can leave your hat on (8)

Last night I had my date lined up with miss PoleDancing (from 23-11 Field Report).
She texted me with the question what we are going to do for out date so I texted her:

First I am going to pick you up, have a drink at your place, then we are going to the city center and do ‘’something’’ there and after that I will drop you off. And I am not going to say what we are going to do at the city center. That’s a surprise.

So what I did her was I showed dominance and also created a bit of mystery.

She texted me back:

Oke sounds great! What do you like to drink? And do you want to have a little snack at my place too?

So the set up was sweet. I would meet her at her place. She is ‘’giving’’ me a lot of value here. She asks me what to buy etc. I responded with:

I like water so I hope you have a tap at your place;)
Anything sweet! Surprise me.

Oké, so we only had a few texts about what her address was etc. I didn’t send a lot of texts, I sort of only replied. I noticed she is very submissive. So that’s perfect.

My guess on the date was that I could have sex with her before we even would go on our ‘’real date’’. My plan was escalate from the beginning and try to bang her within the first hour we meet in her house. So lets find out what happened guys:

I park my car and I called her on the phone:

ME: Hi VincentVega here! I have got a problem. My car has shutdown. So I can not come anymore.
She: Oh, that’s too bad *silence*
ME: haha you really believed that? I am just kidding. I am there in a few minutes. I only have to buy my parking ticket. See you in a bit!
She: haha oke see you soon.

So I do this all the time. It creates a playful tension before the date even starts. And it’s cool to hear the reaction from your date.

I go to her door and she really looks nice. Hair loose, tight clothing. I kiss her on the cheeks and we walk trough her door. I ask her if she really believed I wouldn’t show up. She was like: yeah haha, that would be sad!

We go sit on her couch and we have some fluff talk. She gets me some water. We talk about school and normal stuff in the first 10 min. After 10 min I ask her if she had serious relationships. She told me she just broke up 3 weeks ago. Lucky me!

Then we talk about some funny stuff. At some point we are talking about what we would do when we would be dictators of Holland. We talk about what the pros and cons are from dictatorship. Then we talk about the fact that: people who commit suicide by jumping in front of a train they still lock their bicycle! The confo is really light and funny. At some point I rate her couch. Its pretty comfy so I said: I give your couch an 8. It would get a 9 if it would be attached to you bed. That would be awesome whaha. She responds with: my bed. My bed is like a 10. Serious (I am going to find out soon). This sort of funny crazy talk goes on for a bit.

Then she brings up the ‘’sweet I ordered’’. So she comes back with a chocolate cake. Can you believe this?! Lol. She baked a fucking chocolate cake whaha awesome! We ate some cake. At this point I am there for like 45 min. I think by my self. I didn’t escalate at all. I just touched her arm and legs a few times. It’s time to escalate!

She sits next to me and I am pretty comfy about the fact that I could bang her right now. So I just go for it. I put my arm around her waist. I kiss her. I grab her hair and pull a bit. She tells me she likes that. We kiss. I rub her pussy and her boobs at some point. She is moaning. So from that point it was a big green light! So I picked her up and placed her on her bed. I say: Oké lets find out if your bed is really a 10.

Then we have some wild sex for an hour. Just kept my dominance high. Smacked her booty. Grabber her neck. Pulled her hair etc. It was wild!
We never made it to the center. I went back home after chilling and talking for like 30 min after the sex. Mission completed!

Tonight I have a birthday party of a friend of mine. After the party I will go party in Amsterdam so a FR on that next Monday!
This is my first FC since blogging here. Awesomeness is awesome!

Cheers VincentVega

1-12 Birthday party and Sleepy club night in Amsterdam

Saturday a friend of me was throwing this party at his place.
There were literally one girl and she is the girlfriend of a friend of me so nothing to talk about here.

After watching some soccer at the birthday party a little group of us called a taxi and went to Amsterdam.
In the taxi I felt fucking tired. I did not sleep much because of my date with miss PoleDancing last Friday and I had to wake up at 6 for work. So I almost fell asleep at the taxi lol.

We arrived at Amsterdam and went to a club. A lot of guys and I felt so tired so I didn’t do ANYTHING. No approaches. It’s a bit pussy to say but I think the main reason is I got laid last Friday + I was dead tired. It is weak I know. But it just happened.

Next week I am giving my birthday party. So lots of beer and approaching and good vibes! Stay tuned!


What’s going on

I am still searching for a place. I did some attempts but nothing came out of that.
I see having my own place as a key point that will do lots of good things to my ‘’PUA life’’.
2 of my buddies are interested to join me. So hopefully we can fix a place in Amsterdam soon!

I am almost done with school and having a lots of thoughts about what I have to do after I finished.
I’v got a few options.

I can stay at my work and go work on new things related to my finished study and earn (more) money then I do now.

I can go travel and arrange with my work that if I come back I have a job there.
I can travel and go for my master and study more (in Amsterdam).
And all combo’s with all above. I am really thinking about this a lot. It’s a hard decision.

I can go for a ‘’sure’’ thing and stay at my work. This because of the financial crisis.
I can say fuck it and throw away my contract and go travel/study and see what happens.

Reading more books. I have got lots of books I still want to read. I have to make some time for it.

8-12 BirthdayBASH ; 24 YO!

I didn’t do anything last Friday do to the fact it was freezing as hell, I had to get up early for the next day for work and I was going to celebrate my birthday the next day (I am a pussy I know).

I first worked and around 17:00 hour (so early!) we went to Amsterdam. We went to a bar where one of my friend works. We watched soccer, drink beer and do shots like a typical birthday party. I was celebrating my birthday so the zero alcohol thing was suspended today (as you will further notice).

There were three MILF’s in the bar. Fluff talked with them. Where they were from etc. I tell them they do not look like they enjoy soccer and ask them why they are watching.
They agree and don’t know either why they are watching (lol?). A min later they tell me they are going to their hotel so I ask what they are going to do next.
I ask them if they want to join us to our next club we are going to. They denied. They are going to sleep.

So I am getting pretty drunk already at this point. And it is not even 22:00 hours. We pay our bill (fucking 200 euro’s so you get the idea why I am getting drunk already).

We go to a new bar/club. It is still early but there were a lot of girls inside already yihaaa. We begin dancing like crazy. I am putting a beer at my head and try to balance it. It falls and I am covered with beer.

So I open a lot of girls (like 4 sets). But it’s not that I really stay in the set. Just say a couple of things and go on. I was just having a good time.

I opened a girl and from the first second I see she is in to me. I thought it was an 8 so lets say it was a 7. Drunk people. You cant trust them.

So I grab her hand and take her to the back. We seriously talked for 2 min and all of a sudden I was like. Lets make out. So I just went for it. And she complied. So we kissed for a minute. I asked for her number and she typed it in. She said she wanted to dance so we go back.

I went back to my friends and danced some more. On stage etc. etc. Then I saw this girl. Blonde ( ME LIKE). So Hot! I saw her do the middle finger to one of my friends. So I went to her and open: hey was he messing with you? Why are you mad at my friend haha? So she laughed and we fluff talked. I guessed where she was from. I guessed like 10 countries but her wasn’t in it haha. So she just told me where she was from: DOWN under Australia. I asked if she had a boyfriend. She did. I told her that’s fucked up and I left.

Now I see this hot babe, dark hair. Really pretty. So I ask her where she is from. She tells me she is Dutch. I had some eye contact with her before so I grab her hand after some fluff talk in 5 min.
She sort of complies but is worried about her girlfriend. She squeezes my hand. Big IOI. So I take her with me to the back. Talk to her some more. She studies law school. Everything is going ok. Didn’t do much kino I remember now. So all of a sudden she is like: I have to go back to my girlfriend. So she stands up and looks back and is waiting for 1 sec. So I retardetly keep sitting down and look at her. She turns away and I didn’t see her again anymore.

So 10 min later I saw this HOT blonde girl from the side. I went up to her and opened. Hey you are fucking hot! But guess what, I opened miss Australia again lol. So I told her: Omg I thought you were someone ‘’new’’. We really laughed for 5 min. It was a very funny situation really. I asked if she had a twin sister. She told me she didn’t. Saw her a few times more that night and we talked about some random stuff. I think she liked me a lot but she made very clear she had a boyfriend. So I am not the type of guy who fucks over someone his or her relationship and I didn’t had the idea she was the kind of girl that cheated (maybe I would have fucked with her relationship due to the fact I was drunk. But my point is I am against that shit haha). So I didn’t kino much or tried anything crazy.

So at this point. I am wasted. To much vodka and beer. I notice I can not stand straight at my feet. I opened a few more sets but really cant remember much.
We went to a club nearby, the one where the Kickbox trainer works. Fluff talked with him about last training. He must have noticed I was wasted haha.

So we went in the club and I saw this blonde girl. I was like: Hey whats up. What do you think it’s the Australian girl again!!!! Haha no I am just kidding. That would be funny though.
So I was like: what’s up and she said something what was up. And at this point I barely can stand at my feet. She said something but I can’t remember what. The only thing I can remember is that I said something along the lines like: Sorry I am to drunk to seduce you. So we leave and go back to the first club to get my coat.

I went to Wok to Walk to buy some Chinese food. I feel like vomiting so my friend and I go sit outside. We lost a lot of friends so he tries to call them to go back home.
I almost fall a sleep and its fucking cold. So after waiting for 30 min we meet our friends and we take a taxi to my friends car.

My friends are really dragging me to the car. It’s a long time ago I was so wasted. But from time to time its ok. It was my birthday so fuck it .
We drop a friend at his home and I feel like puking. So I go out of the car and start puking like a crazy mad man. Great end of the night..

So that was it! My birthday bashhhh. It was pretty awesome. On a gaming view in the beginning of the night I was doing ok. But shortly after that I have noticed to much alcohol is fucked up for your game! (duhhh)

I am getting the feeling my (night) game is getting pretty solid. I guess, I can pull a girl every time I go out (kiss close). I have to expand from here.
Still looking for a place in Amsterdam. I am now talking with a broker and it may get fixed so fingers crossed. It will be so good for my game! I can take girls with me back home. That would be so much easier.

Oh and I read a full book in two days so thats awesome! ( a bio about a soccer player so not really PUA worthy but I wanted to read it)

Cheers VincentVega

I have thought about what I should do after I have finished my bachelor in a few months.
I am going to work till the summer and then I will go to Ibiza for a week and celebrate life.

After Ibiza I will work for a few months more and when I earned some more money I am going to have a trip to Australia and Asia with a friend of mine for 4 months. I heard some crazy stories about Australia and Asia!

I am going to stop the house searching thing for now since I am going to travel.

I may do a Master at Uni when I come back in a combination with work. I have to figure this out.
Or maybe, if my boss gives me a shit load of money and opportunity, and he is willing to give me the free time I need for my trip to Australia and Asia, I will stay at the company where I work now.

We will see about that.

It is fucking cold in Holland and I am not feeling very well. Not sick or something but just a bit weak.
I would go to Amsterdam tonight and work tomorrow but I think I will skip tonight so I am fresh to do some crazy PUA shit tomorrow night!

Cheers VincentVega

Saturday 15-12 ; The finding of a hidden treasure

Went out in Amsterdam with my usual wingman! It was awesome!
We went to two places that were new to us. First we went to a bar.
Had a few drinks and just chatted. Opened one set but were not very receptive.
So nothing to talk about.

So we went to the second ‘’new’’ place.
And it was fucking amazing. Usually in Amsterdam it’s like 30% chicks 70% dudes.
But not this place! It was 50% 50%, what is highly unusual for Amsterdam.
Going back to this place for sure!

The only bad thing was that they play R&B. Not my first choice in music but its OK.
They can even play dubstep, I don’t care if there are lots of HB’s!

So first hour we are chilling, dancing. I am drinking a beer and some vodka.
I walk to the bar and a HB7 stops me. She asks for some gum. Her friends HB5 and HB6 wanted to have some gum too.

I give HB7 my drinks and grab some gum out of my pocket. I say to her: I first need prove if you need gum. Blow me some air. She laughs but didn’t blow me some air. I say its fine and give the girls some gum anyway. I eject. I tell HB7 I see her later.

My mate and I were talking to a dude who organized the party. We talk about the fact there are a lot of girls! He tells us there are always a lot of girls at this kind of party’s. We were like: OK we are your new best customers.

We go sit upstairs for a sec. In front of us there is a HB7.5 and HB6.
I ask them if they are Spanish (in Dutch).

She tells me no. They are Dutch. Small talk a bit. Convo is going good.
Talk about Spanish language a bit and stuff. About school blabla.

They tell me they are going to dance. When HB7.5 walks away she turns and look at me and waves.
Nice! I will see her later.

Next to us there is a group of girls. I go lay (yes lay) next to them and ask if they are Spanish (lol yes again). We have some small talk. One girl is very receptive but the other two girls are in a fucking bad mood. Talk to the receptive HB6 a bit. She have a very nice face but is a but chubby so I eject.
I tell them see ya later (in Spanish hasta la vistaaaa) and go back to my mate.

We go dance downstairs. I see a group of all HB8+ dancing. I go up to them and tell the HB8Brunette that she looks like a girl I know. She tells me she get that a lot. I tell her the girl I know that looks like her may get that a lot too because you look like her (lol do you follow my logic?).

We have some nice talk. I ask her if she is Spanish (LOL for the 3th time this evening yeah yeah) but she really looked Spanish). She tells me she is half Spanish (Bingo). She tells me she is in love with her ex. (Why do you tell me lol). She also tells me she is 30 and have a little girl. Big turn off for me. She is hot though. But I guess this is not going to happen cause she mentioned she is in love with her ex twice. Mental shizzle.

Then I go up to the blonde girl tell her she looks like Hannah McKay from Dexter. Fluff talk a bit (5min). She asks what I do for a living. I tell her I am homeless and I am applying for waste collector. She tells me OK goodbye then and comes back in 10 sec laughing. She asks me: ok what are you really doing? I tell her what I am really doing. I notice this chick is really like all about status. I hate that kind of people. But fuck it she is hot haha.

I go upstairs for a smoke (fucking alcohol and smoking argh). I see my friend sitting there with a HB7.5.
She asks me if I come sit next to her. She tells me she have a BF and that she wants to be BRO’s with us. She is like: I am bi and I want to hunt on chicks with you guys. I am thinking WTF lol. OK sure!
We small talk. And this girl is really funny and cool. She was with the HB group I talked about before.
We smoke a cigarette and go back and dance. I see the guy who organize the party talking to the blonde HB8.

I say hi to them both. The guy want’s to introduce me to the blonde HB lol.
I go along with it. We are laughing. I shoud not have done this. It shows I am afraid of the guy cause he was talking to HB8Blonde.

A bit later I see HBspanish again. She is dancing.
I walk up to here(?her friend) and ask her: hey are you guys Spanish.
They laugh and I eject. Had to do more with this ffs.

I go back to the HB8 blonde girl. I tell her she still looks like Hannah McKay but also look a like Spongebob (little neg).

So I am writing this now. And I notice I KINO`d so fucking little in all the convo`s.
I focused on eye contact a lot tonight. But a but to much I guess. No Kino argh.
So at some point HB7.5bigirl gives us her Facebook and we talk about following up our bro hunt one other day. That would be awesome lol.

So we say good bye to the HB group. And I am getting my coat and all of a sudden HB8Blondegirl shows up. She asks me why I am leaving. I say she have to come closer. We talk a bit. She tells me we should Facebook. OK so at this point I grab her and go for the kiss. She turns her head away. I don’t give a fuck though. She tells me three kisses on the cheek is ok. I do that (fucking loop but fuck it). She asks for my Facebook again. I tell her no, I don’t know her.

Then she says OK bye then. Then my AFCness comes around and I say ok fuck it. I give her my phone and tell her to put her name and number in. She gives me her number and I tell her I would talk to her later.

Today I added my new Bro HBbiGirl. I hope me and my mate can hang out with her. She seems like really fun. And a HB as a friend is fucking WELCOME.

I didn’t add HB8blonde. I don’t know. She was OK but she refused the kiss. So this is a hard one to crack. I am going to wait for some time with adding or texting her. Don’t know what to do with her yet.

My mate called me yesterday. His aunt works at a broker company. They can fix us a real nice house for 90 euro pp. The house is going to be broken down next year so that’s why its so cheap. It’s a nice house with a garden and stuff. Really awesome. I really hope this is going to happen. A big house for 90 euro a month. With 1 or 2 buddies. Then my PUA life is going to have a big boost for sure!

All in all it was a good night. No KC though. That’s new for me the last months lol.

I am keeping track on my FC`s in my life. I have got this list.
This year I FC`s 6 girls. 5 due the PUA stuff all in 5 months after I broke up with my ex.

In my whole life I FC`s 8 girls. So I made fucking huge progress with girls.
The last 5 moths I had 1 girl every month. And I am only talking about FC`s.

It is good to ``celebrate`` your wins. I am so glad I am doing this PUA stuff now. I can`t wait for the future.

I bought a Bluetooth speaker for 30 euro’s. When I go to have a shower I put my playlist on while showering. It’s fucking amazing. Singing in the shower. I do it everyday now. But really, I did it last Saturday and it really boosted me up. Makes you happy like crazy. Singing in the shower is AWESOME lol.

I am def. going back to this R&B place. A lot of HB’s. It’s great. I am going to focus on KINO the next time like crazy.

Thanks for reading and cheers from a cool place called Amsterdam,

VincentVega

Little update ; I texted miss Poledance if she want to hang out again soon (so I can fuck her again). I didn’t say that last part;) , but that are my only intensions with her.

She texted me back she likes me but there is no click so she doesn’t wanna ‘’date’’ anymore.
I texted back its OK and happy holydays!

I am figuring out what happened. I kind of wanted to fuck her a few times more.

She told me on our ‘’date’’ she had broken up with her boyfriend three weeks ago. I guess she just wanted to forget him and have sex with someone?

I added HB8Blonde from last Saturday and texted: What's up Blondie?
Not very original. She didnt respond yet. I guess it’s going to flake.

I have some good news about the house. My friend is on top of the list to get the cheap house. So with a small bit of luck I have a fucking house in januari 2013. That would be SO AMAZING WHOEHOEP. Then my PUA LIFE really can lift off!

Cheers VincentVega

hi, I'm from Leuven and want to go sarging anywhere in beglium but Leuven is cool with the students... When and where could we meet? Cheers!Art

Hey dude!

I don't live near Leuven.
I go party/sarge in Amsterdam 99% of the time.

You can come to Amsterdam to sarge for sure I guess!
Just send me a PM and we can check it out.

Cheers VincentVega

Saturday 22-12 – Hidden treasure seems to be empty

Last Friday did nothing. Because I had to work the next day as usual.

Went to Amsterdam with my two homies last Saturday. First we went to a restaurant and ate some amazing beef. It was really really good. So we had nice dinner/drink there.
There was a mature women with her husband there who was giving me IOI’s. So I found that funny. Nothing to report though. Just had dinner and after that we went to the city center.

It was shitty weather so I was soaking wet. The last few weeks I am in a really good vibe. Smiling and happy 90% of the time so I am glad I am getting better with steering my mind .
I was, and still am in a good vibe but last Saturday I was not feeling ‘’it’’.
And with ‘’it’’ I mean the PUA thing.

I can give pussy arguments why I wasn’t in a PUA mode but the truth is I can’t really say why. I guess I still have to improve my mindset. I also believe from time to time you have those shitty PUA nights with almost zero approaches. Let’s just blame it on the weather .

So that said, I don’t have much to report. We have been to the place with the high chick ratio from last week and there was literally NOBODY. We were almost the only one there. So the hidden treasure is empty.

At some point three chicks came in. I did approach and opened with: WOW there are people in here blablabla. I thought they were Dutch. I talked to them for like 1 minute (in Dutch). They were laughing. So far so good but all of a sudden they were like: can you speak ENGLISCH? Haha. So that was really funny. Talked to them for few minutes more but they were not really hot so I decided to let them go.

It was already pretty late. So we just drink something and went to the more tourist spots. We arrived late. It was 1 AM. I saw some friends I knew from high school. Talked to them. Zero HB approaches.

All of a sudden the lights went on and it was going to close (at 2 AM already.. fuckers ;p ).
So we decided to call it a night and went home.

I got a Facebook message from a girl I had sex with 5 months ago. I fucked her the day after I broke up with my ex. I was a bit upset and went out that night. I was drunk and just wanted to forget my ex. I run into her (HB7). From Australia. I stayed with a buddy of mine in Amsterdam that night. So to make the story short I fucked her back at his place. Was pretty awesome. I was not into PUA that time.
It was my second one night stand. At that time it was very rare for me haha.

So all of sudden I got this message of her.

I was like: oke wtf lol. So we got into a conversation. And it went like this:


HBAustralia: Thought of you today because I used one of the iPhone covers you gave to my friend and I! How are you? Is it snowing in Holland yet? X

(NOTE: I had a webshop with iPhone covers that time. I stopped the online shop because it was to much work with to little payment. So I guess I gave some iPhone covers to them).

ME: OK cool how does it fit? I am great. Having a big house with a friend of mine in a few months prob!
ME: No its not snowing. My mate and I are planning for a big trip to Australia!
ME: So how are you?
HBAustralia: So you moving out by yourself now? The iPhone cover is great, I gave one to my friend as well she loved it haha, so when are you planning to come to Australia? I will have my own place in may, I'm just playing water polo now. Are you working? X
ME: I guess we are coming in september next year.
ME:Nice! I am doing my thesis. Almost done with school :p
HBAustralia : Thesis?! Really in what?
Thesis is the right word for it right :p?
HBAustralia:I'm excited that your coming to Australia?
HBAustralia: You need to make sure you come to Melbourbe, you and your friend can stay with me
ME: Commercial economics. Thesis about online services of the company where I work for.
ME: Yes that would be fucking awesome
HBAustralia: So you are taking holidays from your job for how long?
ME: I dont know specific. I guess i am going to travel for 3 or 4 months
ME: Australia and asia
HBAustralia: Yeah I would love to show you around Melbourne? My parents have a beach house and we have a boat so we can take you there to, for water skiing and wake boarding
ME: Oke sounds like a deal
ME: So you dont teach anymore?
ME: I thought you were a teacher :p
HBAustralia: Yes I am a teacher but I haven't found a job yet so I am just playing water polo until I find a job, when you come next year I will be teaching again in think? Is your friend the guy I met in Amsterdam?
ME: My mate is the black dude
ME: Lol
ME: So no not the one you met
ME: I dont know if u met
ME: The black guy
HBAustralia: Haha so I didn't meet him the second time?
ME: Hmm i dont know anymore lol. Maybe haha
ME: If u met a black dude it was him haha
HBAustralia: Haha ok well I'm sure if he is your friend he is a nice guy and I have lots of single friends he can meet!
ME: Haha yes he is a very chill guy. He will like that haha im sure
HBAustralia: haha of course he will!
HBAustralia: I'm glad you are coming to Australia!
ME: Yes. It is going to be legendaryyyy. Cant wait. I am at work now so i am going to do some "work related things" haha. Talk to you soon x
HBAustralia: Haha ok talk soon keep me updated on what you are doing on Australia and if you need any help just MSG me xx
HBAustralia: Can't wait for you to come to Melbourne! X

So when I go to Australia I can stay at her place for a bit. Awesomeness is AWESOME!
It was a bad PUA night last weekend, I see it as an incident.

I am planning on a fresh start with new prior goals. So I am going to make a list soon.

With NYE I am going to a big party in Amsterdam. So I am counting on a drunken PUA night with lots of approaches/KC’s and all crazy sort of stuff. For now thanks for reading AND:

HAPPY X-MAS + HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

VincentVega