So, I just started University about a week ago, and I've already found a girl that literally rocked my world within 15 minutes of talking to her--and I don't say that loosely.
I met her after my second class of the day. We both went up to the professor to asked the same exact question and later laughed out how "freshman-like" we were being. The convo was light; I introduced my self, asked her how her first day was going, and she took off. We both had similar interests, the same major, and happen to have two classes together, so I knew I'd have an opportunity to make a more potent impression, eventually getting the sacred number.
Now this girl is kind of different. She's not the girl you'd see running around in the frat house, or killing it on the keg; She's more of your cute, artsy, academic. But, for some reason I couldn't get her out of my head.
Two days later, I showed up a bit early for the class that I first met "her". Luckily enough, I saw her sitting by herself in front of the lecture hall waiting for the doors to open. Now was my chance to game her up. We talked a bit, I showed her my nice guy side, and that was it....nothing crazy.She began asking me why I chose our university and I told her: Well, I just felt like this was the place, I mean, I chose this over (Prestigeous School) [and so on....]
When we got into the lecture hall she looked at me with a quizzical look and asked: "So, you're a geek aren't you?" I was shocked...before she said that, I was beginning to view her as more as a friend as I became so comfortable with her that just talking about school was beginning to calm whatever flame ignited from our first meeting, but then...she said THAT. I'm the kind of guy that loves a challenge, and as soon as she said that...it was game on. I gave her a half smile with a seductive gaze and said "depends how you define geek"...."Okay, well then you're a geek," she said with a sinister smile. "Well hold on now, I may work hard, but believe me, I play even harder"...I gave her a wink. She looked intensely at me, I could honestly feel some type of tension...It felt good.
Before class began, I negged, and negged hard. Her friend came over to sit, and I began to play along with her. "You're friend is nuts, how can you even deal with her?" She was blushing like crazy...I honestly thought I had it in the bag.
When class ended, I had to make a decision...go for the number close now, or let my impression sit for a day. She was walking pretty fast when class ended, but I managed to catch up. I asked her where she was headed. "Oh my god, I had no idea you were there....creep!" she said....I'm headed to [other lecture hall] I laughed it off and told her I was headed the same direction. 'You know what?" I said, " I just met you a couple days ago and I already can't stand you, I'm like...done" Huge neg...but I think I pulled it off with my cocky funny charm...I was feeling good. "Oh, yeah?" She said..."A little...." I said, "but what's your number?" "Wait, I thought you were done with me?, she said Well, I might want a little more tomorrow, you never know....She immediately gave me her number with no hesitation...it was crazy.
I was litterally on top of the world...a couple hours latter, I shot her a text with some call back humor....no neg...just something funny that she mentioned before class. She responded positivley and asked me for my last name. Here was my AFC mistake...I told her that that may be too much information to give...terrible attempt at cocky funny. she never responded. I then just told her: "okay, you're not too weird it's [my last name] what's yours?" A day later...I saw her in class, interacted with her a bit, not too much. Hours later, I texted her this: "I mean, I have a lot of [her name]'s on my phone....so the last name is a must have" (her name is really unique so this worked) she laughed (through text haha) and gave me her last name, she then said sorry and told me that she was a terrible texter. I told her it was okay and I said that she looked cute in class today. She said: "ha, thanks dude" (she says dude a lot...kind of odd, may be a bad sign haha) and I said..."well, you're still a little wierd....dude" (fail) She said "I'm okay with it " After that I asked her what she was up to and that was it.
The following day, I asked her if she had any plans. It was a friday night, and everyone was going to go out after the football game. She said she was going to a different party so I didn't bother asking to come with. All I told her was this: "Oh I heard of that one...I may check it out, not really a fan of foam parties though, I think I'm hitting the frat on (street name), but since I think like you, we should still hang out this weekend." She didn't respond....
Yesterday, no one was really on campus because of the holiday so I sent her this: "It's a ghost town here, you still on campus?" No response
Did I completely ruin this? I feel like I negged so much that my cocky funny attitude just ended up coming off as cocky. I think I got to wound up on the idea that she was a challenge and that every time she threw a punch I had to throw one at her even harder. What do you guys think? Any way to salvage this situation? It sucks because I really thought she was good for me...I'm looking forward to seeing some of your thoughts
thanks
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