i had been with my highschool sweetheart for 4 years until january this year 2 months after my daughter was born we broke up.
my expectations in a woman have skyrocketed i know what im looking for but i have always had problems keeping a conversation with a girl and getting into pick up artistry has changed my life for the better and will only get better.

so last night i had a fairly good night out of meeting women, i talked to alot of women and i mean ALOT of woman and was rejected by at least 10-15 of them (just pick yourself up and keep smiling as you do) using general opinion openers, i used the cologne opener the most, i had a diferent cologne on either of my wrists and a diferent one again on my neck.

so i walk to the bar and theres a girl there getting a drink, so i ask her if shes having a good night, and then order my drink as i wait for my drink i ask her "hey i couldnt decide on what cologne to wear tonight what one do you think is better?", show wrists, snif snif, choose..... then i tell her i didnt choose either of those and what she thinks of the one i used, and i had already field tested the better cologne earlier that night so i knew she was most likely coing to choose the one on my neck...

so i go through this with a few different women, and afterward i say "thank il will keep that in mind" some will ask if its your way of picking up and i tell them that i genuinely wanted the female opinion, i kept the conversation rolling by asking where shes from, yada yada yada and use the parrot techniqe to keep the convo rolling (dont over use this it will get annoying) i make her laugh and neg her about her nose wiggling and beat her down a little, if shes with a friend i will include her in the opener of course.

so this was my first real night in a club trying to play the game, and my 4th night out since reading the game and a few seduction books, youtube videos, the forums etc.

im standing at the bar and this seriously hot girl is walking my way to the bar, i thought she was about an 8 until she stood next to me and ordered a drink, she was the hottest girl in the club, HB11 she was tall with blonde hair and a nice set of cans, perfect teeth, she stood next to me and i said over my shoulder ya know "all casual and cool"

when i say HB11 i mean a girl who is some next level shit, hotter than any model i have seen in my life.

ME: hey how are you
HB: im excelent how about you
ME: im not bad myself, what accent is that?
HB: im from california been here a while now
ME: oh thats awesome im planning on going to the states soon im origionally from new zealand.
HB: OMG i love new zealand so beautiful.
ME: yeah its not a bad place at all, hey i just noticed your nose wiggles when you smile its really cute..
HB: are you for real?? omg thats embarassing hahaha
ME: nah dont worry about it, its really cute
HB: aww thank you

at that stage i was wondering what to say, when her brunette friend who was being hit on by another male just blew him off and wanted to leave the bar.....
i had good keno going through the whole ordeal bringing alot of possitive energy into our conversation and slowly escalating to putting my hand around her waist while talking in her ear (it was motherfucking loud) while she put hers on my shoulder.

ME: my names shane by the way
HB: im casey
ME: verry nice to meet you
HB: yeah you too
ME: is this your friend? omg your so rude for not introducing me with a *cheeky laugh* with a smart ass look on my face.
HB: *leans over and introduces me to her friend who was so dirty about the guy she was talking to.
HBs friend: hey :X
at that point i was about to ask the HB11 to sit down with me somewhere quieter and chat some more, when her friend wanted to leave the bar and dance, i thought ahh shit....
she told her friend to wait two ticks, and told me she was going to go dance with her friend but she will be back up soon for another drink, at that point she bumped me and i spilled my drink.
i made some silly comments about it and had a laugh with her.

as i looked down i noticed my shoe lace was hanging out of my shoe, so i asked her to tuck it in for me.
she did i told her shes a darling, and thank you so much, but you still owe me a drink we laughed some more, and she said she will be back soon.

I CANT BELIEVE I DIDNT TAKE HER NUMBER!!! i was so caught up in all they hype of talking to this beautiful creature i threw my game plan out the window and my natural game came into play. i know for a fact she would have given me her number but what can i say.... needless to say i was quite drunk and left the spot and never saw her again.

it was well played, if i had a wing man on the night my life would of been so much easier and if her friend didnt have her bitch shield up after talking to that bloke things may have been different, im just glad she was distracted long enough for us to get to know eachother.

throughout the night i got numerous kiss closes by girls including by a girl with a bf, two girls kissed me at the same time , and a few numbers.

i have only been in the game for like 3 weeks and it has changed my life in many ways, i could only imagine it will get better.

would you say after my efforts i am still an AFC because i sure dont feel like one anymore.

Did you leave because you were nernvous, or because you were bored? You could have prevented this by talking to the other guys at the bar just saying things like "Hey guys, you know any good clubs around here, This one is starting to get lame" Just so that it looks like your social and not a loser sitting by himself waiting for a girl whos probably not going to come back...Great job though, maybe you should focus more on natural game since apparently you have a gift!

mey mate, i didnt leave because i was nervous i just needed to socialize instead of standing there waiting for a girl i may not see again like a chump lol, i was hoping to find a group to chill with for a while near the bar and then grabbing her attention when she came back, but it didnt happen, most of the people in there were absolutely stuck up, even the guys. most girls there had been hit on 100 times during the night, so my game needed to change. they automatically thought every guy was hitting on them and with the music so loud it was extreemly hard to work with. mainstream clubs really arent my scene, i know this now and im staying away from now on,
as far as natural game goes, i never really thought i had it, i still need that kickstart to get me in the door but i supose its all practice.