Okay this story starts on the 18th of August. I went out with some friends and got myself pretty wasted. While drunk, I made a promise to one of my girl friends that I'll go with them to see the fireworks on the 20th. I didn't really want to go, but I didn't really have anything better to do either so in the end I didn't mind.
So on the 20th of August I went out with them. We drank a little, and watched the fireworks. My friend however had to go, so her other friend, whom I met that night, and me decided that we would stay for a "little longer". This was at 10 p.m. at the little longer turned out to be 5. a.m.
She is a cute girl and we had lots of common topics because she's studying informatics and she's a computer geek and I used to be one badly too. The true ice-breaker was this short convo, I think.
Me: Do you have some music on your phone? It would be nice to listen to something while we're here.
Her: Yeah I do, hope you like it, I've got techno and metal.
Me: I could have guessed. You're an informatician and all my info friends listen to techno or metal.
Her: Or both.
Me: I'll just pretend I didn't hear that.
Her: Why?
Me: Can you recognize the operator in my previous sentence? Let me make it simple... They listen to techno or metal.
Her: So that OR includes both anyway... you're right... I must be getting tired.
Me: Or drunk
Her: (winks) or both.
So after that the convo continued without any kind of pressure. We talked about many things. Interestingly our main topics were video games and sex. It's not too common that I talk about both of these things with women. Either of them usually
I talked with her about a girl who has been sending me mixed signals for a while and that I don't exactly know what will I do. I also confessed that this situation is messed up only because neither of us knows what we want. Her reaction was to tell me what I already knew, that I should decide what I want. I'm not going to go into deep details with that other girl, let's just say it's a bit complicated and hard for me to decide but an ingenius plan had already started to form at this point in my head.
The ingenius plan was in fact that I would either fuck this new girl, or get her to help me fuck someone on the party we'd arranged for yesterday. That would immediately signal me what I want from the other girl. Okay so you could say: "Hey, what a fucking jerk you are. You're just using a friend of your friend for sex for your indecisiveness". That would be true...if I hadn't told her exactly what I wanted.
So guys... Let me make this clear. I basically told this girl that I wanted to fuck her because I wanted to know what I really wanted from another girl. Well not exactly with these words, but I made it perfectly clear. When she started to get what I was talking about she stopped me for a moment and said: "Oh, and let me guess... I will be the lucky chosen one for this" I basically agreed this and told her that we would arrange later when would we see each other and then we went back to the others.
Well of course...when I talked about sex with her I gathered several useful information. So I knew that if I presented this correctly she would be into it, but still this is proof. This and several other similar cases are proof that you never have to lie to get into a woman's pants.
I'll hook up with her tomorrow btw. If anything remarkable happens I'll most probably add it here. Cheers
CHAT