As the title indicates, tonight was my first night out since reading The Game. I am not too confident in sarging and I might look for a wing later (South Bay, CA). Anyway, here is how my night went.

Tonight
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Tonight started all too late; I got to my downtown at 12:20AM and had just over an hour to burn. I wearing a grey t-shirt, black cargo pants, bright blue converses and a bright red hoodie. I sat down at a cocktail bar and ordered a Vodka/Sprite. I didn't talk much and focused on not staring at the attractive girls. Then, I had a second round and at some point received a compliment on my hair from a drunk guy.

When my second round was up, it had gotten pretty late (1:15AM). I decided to take my chances and head to a club. I have been dancing in clubs/parties for quite some time now and received many-a-compliment and occasionally gone home with a girl once/twice (but even a blind pig can occasionally find truffles -- hence why I took to reading The Game).

I dropped off my jacket and stepped onto the dance floor. A rush took over me and I felt an glow about me as I danced for the next 10 minutes. It felt like everyone's eyes were on me and every move I made was seen with respect. After that, I stuck around on the dance floor and continued to dance but my aura was now replaced with beads of sweat (I like to dance hard) but I was dancing pretty well.

5 minutes later, a trio of girls came nearby me and 2 of them made short bursts of eye contact. However, I did not act on anything and sure enough 10 minutes later, 1 of them had disappeared and 2 guys swept in for the kill.

5 minutes later, the last song was played and the bar emptied out. I grabbed my jacket and headed down the street, went back home, and here we are.

Things I want to try next time
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I really dislike the notion that there is no such thing as 'dance game' and I aim to take a few more stabs at this since I already have such a good foundation in the 'dance' half. As a result, I would like to try:
- Adding some more peacocking items; glow stick bracelets and necklaces
- Try leaving the dance floor after the initial 10 min aura wears down. Maybe some girls will approach me afterwards?

Things I would like an opinion on
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- Should I have pushed my way into the trio of the girls? Or started grinding on one I liked (I dislike this because it involves no skill)? Or relocate myself and see if they follow (my fear is they will think I don't like them but I have the same thought when I stick around and don't grind/approach)
- Should I find a cute girl and ask her to dance? I usually have trouble spotting one and would love to hear some pointers on what to do while stalling.

Thanks a bunch you guys!

- neon20

you seem to believe that you're pretty good at dancing. thats good because you must show a lot of confidence on the dancefloor. as for the trio of girls... what I do on the dancefloor when I see some girl/girls I like is to make sure that I'm facing their front (I never approach a girl from behind). I move closer to them until they look up at me. At that point I'm looking for any IOIs or anything to get them to want me to join them. E.g I'll do a stupid dance move, they laugh then I move into their set dancing and laughing with them. Then introduce myself and I'm off.

I was really worried about dancefloor game but I've realised its 1 of the easiest areas. All you have to do is show you're confident in your dancing ability and make it look like you're having a good time. Girls want a guy thats having a good time to join them because they want some of that fun!

also, when it comes to asking a girl thats sitting down to dance read their body language first. a hunched over girl texting on her phone is going to be harder to persuade to dance than 1 thats cracking jokes with her friends over some drinks!