DAY 1

Well I was invited(more like requested) to have a sleepover with my friend(lets call him John) John because he was going away and this might be the last time we might meet each other for a long time.

So we went to his house and had a party with his relatives. Things were going normal until the end of the party.

I met this girl I got interested in. We shall call her Mary.

So I met her and I started a conversation(note, I didn't say everything I wrote word for word)

Me: Hey, you realize that when there's a prayer going on in this type of gathering that they always use Amen even though they are not ending it.

People: Amen

Me: Hear that, thats the second time already.

Mary: Yeah, I know right?

*I forgot this portion of the conversation*

Me: Thats the 8th time now.

Mary: Wow, you counted it?

Me: Nope, just guessing. I bet they are gonna say Amen again

People: Amen *prayer ended*

Me: Finally.

Mary: Glad its over.

*People brought cake and started singing Happy Birthday( it was John's)

Me: So, are you gonna eat the cake?

Mary: Nah, Im getting fat.

Me: Really, you don't look too fat.

Mary: No really Im fat.

Me: *pinches her waist* I feel no fat there. (She reacted positively to that,she was smiling), so whats your name?

Mary: Im Mary.

Me: I'm Kegs N Barrels( I used my real name).

Mary: I know, I saw you last time at that Phone Booth. You know, you getting frustrated no one's picking up?

Me : You mean that was you beside that Phone Booth last time?

Mary: Yea.

*I disengaged her for a bit, then she came up to me*

Mary: Is that cheesecake?

Me: Yea

Mary: Can you get me some?

Me: I thought you said you were getting fat.

Mary: I love Food.

Me: Really?

*she got the cake and yeah I kinda forgot what happened next*

I can't give you the rest of the conversation.

But I do know I made her laugh alot that night. And also, thanks to John's sister, Mary was also staying over that night.

After the party/gathering, we(about 6 people) decided to go to McDonalds.

After we got our food and sat down on our table I decided to chat her up again.

Me: So,besides food, what else do you like?

Mary: Food. I mean, I just love food.

Me: I bet you love Food Channels then. Maybe we can start a Youtube channel about grilling.

Mary: Yeah.

Me: You love food so much. So, can you cook? (trying to qualify her)

Mary: Not really. I can cook simple stuff but nothing too elaborate.

Me: Meh. At least you can cook something. So you must really love guys who love food as well(subtly pointing to myself)

Mary: YEAH! I love guys who love food.

*conversation kept going on and I got her number*

We finished eating and went back to John's house.


Our plan was to watch Brazil vs Croatia that night so everybody was awake in the living room.

We went about with our own business until I joined her and John's sister just video chatting random people on Omegle.

After a while, John's sister left me and Mary alone and we just continued Omegling.

I suggested we searched for Pewdiepie, which she did.

And maybe 20 chats later, we saw Pewdiepie(not the real one, but we thought it was). Everyone got exited and all that.

After everything calmed down, I told her that she must be bringing luck today and I hugged her(again she reacted positively)

Basically

She didn't really mind me touching her, I put my hands around her shoulder and all that, she as cool with it.


Did I do anything wrong?

Anything I should have done at that time?

it's hard to understand your question without knowing what your goal was. seems like you number closed a woman who seem interested and did some light hearted kino. perhaps you could have a gone for a kiss close and saw where that went if you wanted more. the actual conversation is usually irrelevant unless it's deliberately getting to a goal like arranging for a second date, sex or getting logistics, ie if she has kids, husband in school, age, living condiditons, etc.

overall, seems like you had a positive experience though. see what day two brings. have a goal of what you want from her and see what she wants from you (it doesn't have to be direct questions either ).

Actually,my goal is to get her to be my girlfriend. I was being Cocky Funny,which is my best technique and the one I felt most comfortable with and it worked out really well. I tried some NLP stuff when I subtly pointed to myself when I said she must really like a guy who love food. Maybe I should have done The Cube to achieve a Barnum effect on her and probably get more than just a number and a hug.

I didn't think of a kiss at all because everyone is in the living room and to suddenly isolate her to another place feels somewhat shady.

She's a friend of a friend.
And for now all I know is that:

She's 18, 2 years younger than me.
And she likes food. ALOT!
Currently single, I think she just broke up because her BF's mother didn't like her.
And most likely still a virgin.

Okay,its about time I post Day 2

DAY 2

So,we slept without watching the World Cup because we were 1 day early unfortunately. And we woke up. Nothing much happened that morning but she was rather cold to me. But I didn't give it much thought and ignored her.

Nothing happened throughout the day.

At night, I had a casual conversation with her.

And thats pretty much it for Day 2.



DAY 3

John sent her home in the afternoon of the next day. I didn't meet her at all until we coincidentally met at another party John brought me to that night.

And by the way,the party was family friendly and there was no alcohol involved.

This time,and we made small talk yet again.

To sum it up.

Nothing happened in Day 2 and 3.



Now its Day 7 I guess.

And we texted each other the past few day.

Today,I texted her again and this time I told her, when both of us are free, we should grab a bite to eat and she said yes.


So basically,

What should I do to get her to be my girlfriend.

Any tips whatsoever?

Out of everybody I've ever seen, Corey Wayne probably best fits your situation. YouTube him. If you're too lazy, I'll give you the basic message:

Don't place expectations on somebody, because you'll only end up disappointed. Just hang out, have fun, hook up. Don't focus on relationships or becoming exclusive - let the woman initiate that kind of thing (because trust me, she'll mention it as soon as shes ready, with a question along the lines of "So, where's this going?" or some kind of hint. If you're not sure what she means, just playfully ask her "What? What do you mean?" but until then, do as I said before)

Just get in touch once a week and set a definite date for 3-4 days into the future. Do NOT contact her every day leading up to it either. It's a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear, so let the mystery and anticipation of "Why hasnt he called? Where will we go on our date?" do the magic for you.

Hope I helped.

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