Ok, sat night a few of my family were heading out to this bar, so i figured i would go. Sounded like fun hanging out with the family. I decide to wear a funny shirt shirt, a cool necklase, and some beads. Didnt really plan on working anyone but why not.

I get there and sit on this bench area. I see a few of one of my family members friends, and greet them. I have seen them before, but they were like 13 at the time, and now they are all like 23. Most of them were really cute.

One of my family members has allready h/u (Hooked up) with most of them, he is worse than me =). About 2 mins after i get there im getting imeadiate kino and serious IOI's from one of them, a HB7.5. I dont show interest till she goes and comes back to me a few times. Then i show some interest and tease her a bit for fun. I move on to a different girl, a HB8 that, in my book, is a HB9.5. Exactly the look i like. Get into a great conversation with her, and it goes well. Move to comfort, get isolation by bringing her up to the bar for a shot. Trust test her. All is good, but im not really getting IOI's, but not getting IOD's either....seems like she is in the middle. Then I go to toronto shot, she does it but just slightly in a shy way. I go for a K close, get it for a second then she pushs me away and says "do u remember who i am? Im <family members name> best friend!". I give her some beads, get her # and then we both return to the group. Damit. I like this girl, as in i like her as a person, she is smart and nice, and i think she is very very cute.

Back to the HB7.5. She keeps increasing her IOI's, and they get so intence that its obevous to the group whats going on. Im just siting in one place and she keeps coming back and grinding up on me. Im really thinking about the HB8 that I like, but the HB7.5 is giving me SO much kino its hard to resist. I bring her to the bar (same spot actually) and toronto shot. Bartender is lauging since he saw me just do this with the other girl. After this, I K close her in the corner of the bar so its kinda private. Kino continues throughout the night, and I get her #.

I knew so may girls, attractive ones, at the bar it gave me increadable social status. I was getting IOI's all night from other girls at the bar. Lesson learned, Social status and pre-selection is VERY VERY VERY important.

What really got me though is the although the HB7.5 knew i was into the HB8, and she kept teasing me "oh, u like HB8," "your going to go home with HB8"....blah blah blah. The HB8 seemed unaffected by the kino with HB7.5 and my high social status and all the ioi's i was getting from girls at the bar.

Since I # closed both of them and k closed them both, it was a good night. Not really interested in HB7.5. But i wouldnt mind getting to know HB8 a bit better. Ok guys, theory work. I need to get some comfort going with the HB8, help me out here.

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"Life is short, when its done u cant start over"

Hey, nice post,

I'm bad at comfort,

But I've been collecting a bunch of my life's stories, they're on flash cards.

Phone calls: I've tried Mehow's Phone game, doesn't work for me, I DLV myself by calling too much. But I saw Style's Phone game, I might try it. basically, don't call for a week or as long as you can go without calling. And when you do, just invite her to come along to something you already had planned to do anyway. (note; you need to have nearly swept her off her feet and know she F ing remembered your meeting). Call her, don't say her name, say something that brings her back to that moment again, NLP technique (anchoring) I.e. "I'm callig to serve you the divorce papers, and omg, what the hell are we gonna do about the cats?"

or if you can, do mystery's time bridge (schedule a meeting before you get the number) so no phone scheduling needed. I can't seem to do this right, maybe cuz I need more stuff going on in my life and I should know about them way in advance? watever...

Here's my DHV / Comfort Stories for comfort phase C1-2-3.

try to Vibe a lil before these so you don't come off as a crazed extrovert.

let her words be spinning off points into these stories and lead in with stuff like:

Oh that reminds me...
speaking of which...
That guy reminds me of this time...
You look like you would have been a dork in high school...
Who was your first crush?
Who's one person you'll wish you had spent more time with?

My stories:

1. My leaving my mark in China.
2. Hellman st. Whore house
3. Vulnerability story(EMT days, sigh*, Dog dying story, tear*)
4. Beating up a bully in HS.
5. My first crush story
6. Prom story
7. my luggage fettish (MM)
8. Grounding Routine-What I wanted to be as a kid and how I ended up where i am today...

and routines (to fill up the boring gaps or make things interesante)

Question game
cube
strawberry fields
cold reads
palmistry
thumb wrestling to keep BTA high

Lotta chase cycling and mirco looping-watever that means
increased Kino

I'm not sure but I think we need to keep the Negs on a down low, and not too much Cocky funny.

Anyone who can confirm these would be helpful.

thanks and hope this helps.