Hey everyone,

I'm having a bit of an issue with a girl who I used to know back in Spain. I'm not sure how to go about handling it.

She's very cute but extremely defensive, maybe even a little hardened. I think she's been messed around with a bit in the past. Anyway I reconnected with her when a few old friends got together. After that I took her to see a film. It was a bit of an impromptu "date."

She seems keen in person but over text not. I called her out on it and she says that she's famous for not answering her phone or replying to texts very often. I checked her Facebook and there are plenty of mentions of it e.g her girlfriends having a go at her for not answering or replying to texts.

I know it's not a good idea to text too often but I'm struggling to think of ways to make her text me back immediately. I'm sure I could think of little tricks like creating cliff hangers that she has to reply to but over time that will get very old and she'll catch on.

Is there any way to get a girl to text back regularly or any text or phone game in general. Any literature written on this will be great too.

I understand that some of you will be thinking "she's not interested." and I would think that too if she wasn't so interested in person.

How do you get a girl to text back or call when she just doesn't seem to react phone calls or texts from anyone??

Nobody knows what to do in this scenario??