I met this girl and we have had sex and went to the movies all the time. At first she told me shes looking for friends with benefits(OH HELL YA:P), so everything was working out fine. After a while she started hinting that she wants to be my gf. Saying stuff like " im looking for something more". After a while she gave me a altumatum. Either go out with me or we cant hang out. I told her I don't want to be in a relationship, I enjoy just hanging out with you. She said okay and communication stop for about a week. After a week she texted me again and asked me to hang hangout. I told her no but we can on the weekend. So that weekend we had alot of fun. I got her all horny and stuff. She was rubbing my junk and all in public. But we couldn't have sex because her friend was taking her home. After that night, the next morning she texted me the same Sh*T. Either go out with me or we stop hanging out. Again I told her I'm not looking for a relationship. Communication has stopped for 2 weeks already. I really want to hang out with her shes a hb8, I want to ask her to go to the movies tonight. How should I ask? Or should I ask at all? Is she over me? Did she find someone else? I dont get it the last night we were together was so fun.

Any suggestions?

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so you have both brought your expectations to the table

her e = relationship

your e = fwb

both expectations don't line up, so now there either has to be compromise or you just have to move on and if she changes her mind cool if not, other girls


how often have you been seeing this girl?, contact and hanging out more then 2 times a week?

I used to sleep over at her place. And we would have sex and all when we were friends with benefits. At first we hung out about 3 times a week . Then after she wanted to be my gf it went down to like once a week. Now she doesnt text me at all. I tried one time, but she just blew me off and just said bye. Is she just mad at me or do you think she found someone else?

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dont even worry she will contact u after some weeks, give it time. If not find another girl.

Alright I'll wait for a text for another week, after that Ill forget bout her. Thanks Guys

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