Hey all,

A little bit of background: I'm currently a high school student about to enter college in the States. I've had very few girlfriends throughout high school and not that many hook-ups either. Worst yet, I've had a two cases of oneitis. But, with that being said, I'm ready to work towards becoming more social and better with woman.

Tonight, I went out to a club where a graduation after-party was being thrown. My goals for the night were:
[/b]Say hi to at least 5 people
[/b]Initiate some sort of kino with at least 4 girls

Long term goals:
Approach any woman I am interested in without the slightest hesitation
Be able to converse easily with strangers whether they be male or female
Create attractiveness and a seductive vibe

I'll recount most of the night verbatim so that others can critique and comment on what I did.

So I came into the club, started off saying hi to a variety of people, big smile on my face most of the time. I was there to have a good time and wanted to show everyone else that positive vibe. Started off dancing with this Girl1 who I vaguely know. Put my hands on her hips, while facing her but then she said she had to look for her friend. 0-1.

Next off, introduced myself to Girl2 and Girl3. Didn't end up speaking to them all that much, just kinda danced with them but not really. I got a sense that I wasn't welcome because they were dancing with themselves, so I took the hint and left.

At the bar, began a conversation with Girl4 nd had good kino. Perhaps I leaned in a little too much, but had my hand on her shoulder or lower back. Eventually, she said she had to go to the bathroom. 0-3.

[/b]Pros:
-Accomplished my goals: I was able to successfully say hi to 5 people and I kinoed at least 4 girls.
-Kept a positive vibe throughout most of the night

[/b]Cons:
-Got reject at least 4 times haha
-Didn't escalate beyond somewhat harmless kino. Perhaps due to either a lack of confidence or just inability to read the situation.
-Didn't create a seductive vibe with the ones I talked to.
-Didn't initiate conversation well with Girl3 who I was most interested in.

[/b]Questions:
If you aren't meeting someone new for the first time, how do you escalate?
How do you create attraction? Felt like every girl I met or danced with had no eye contact, etc.

[/b]Thoughts:
While I am happy to have accomplished my goals, getting blown out essentially four times hurt. But, I guess the only way to get over rejection is to experience it so that you become synthesized to it. Hopefully, I can learn from my mistakes and move on and become a better PUA.

Please comment on what you think I did wrong, did well, etc. And if you need more information on the specific instances, let me know.

Thank you,
Ksizzle