Hi guys,

I have been dating this girl since january and its been a month that we can say that we are somehow of a couple. I'm saying somehow because I have recently told her that I loved her and that I consider her has my girlfriend. She did'nt disagree neither did she agree, but when I told her that I loved her she jumped at me to make out as crazy. We haven't had sex yet. It difficult because we both live in our parents house, and she is not ready to introduce me to her parents. Last time in my car when we were making out I put my hand in her pants and tried to reach her pussy but she removed it. She have had alreay mentionned me that she would only sleep with someone she is in love with and that she is scared of deeply falling in love with me because in that case if it doesn't work it would hurt her more. Now, we work together but we don't see each other much between our work shifts. What we usually do is stay after work to talk a little and leave. I wonder if I should keep our after work shift to a minimum because if I see her too often that attraction could fade away. I have this feeling because I feel that she is not enough attached, bond, or hold on to me. At the same time I have that feeling that if she sees me more often, I will become part of her life because she will be accustomed to seeing me. There is also another part of me that is telling whatever all that, if after work I have nothing to do and I want to see her why should I withhold myself from seeing her.


What is you guys point of view on that?

this is a duplicate post man, plus this is a field report section not questions.