Ah yes, another field report. It seems like so long ago I was going out, and hating town/taka because all we would do would be dance with the same group of friends and stand around looking at all the HB's and being like 'god damn it, i wish they would talk to us'......but now....its like 'shit, those HB's need to earn the right to talk to us'

Last night started out pretty slow in Taka, went to Mesh, that was pretty average. Gruel and I stood by the bar talkin to the hot bartender who Gruel had been chatting up the week previously. We then went to R'totos where we hung out some more. Gruel decided he would try open a massive 8-set sitting down with his card trick and this went swimmingly. After this I opened a few random sets while i was getting drinks, doing the casual look over the shoulder ask opinion thing while i was waiting. This worked swimmingly. I actually cant remember how many sets i opened.

One set that does stand out in my mind is a tasty 2 set. A HB9 blonde and another HB-maybe-7. They were standing in the outside part of R'Totos and me and Gruel had been walking back and forth between mesh and there. I had seen them dancing inside and me and Gruel were commenting on how amazing the blonde looked in her little white dress very nice! *borat voice*. anyways, after entering R'Totos lookin like mean players seein as the bouncer knew us by now they were standing directly on the right.

We had noticed while walking up that they didnt look too amused, standing there together looking around, looking bored. Ahhhhhh, the classic 'so hot noone will talk to you' problem. sadly i never have this anyways, after walking in, i nudge Gruel and just walk straigt up to the set and open with the Drug Dealer *which btw has never failed me yet! im so amazed, but maybe its cus i do actually look like one:P* straight away her 'fuck im bored' stance changed to a massive grin! went something like this

Me: Hey listen, quick question, my mates waiting *points to Gruel few metres away* do i look like a drug dealer??
HB9: *up-down look...little too long to be considered 'normal' * what?? *massive smile* of course not! why do u ask?
Me: ah, its just this guy came up and was all like *puts hand on arm (kino-escalate)* yo man, u got some e??.
HB9: hahahahahahahaha,na thats crazy. oh well maybe....with those aviators.
Me: *perfect:P* *puts aviators on* how bout now? hey you girls want some drugs!
HB9: nawwww,i still dont think you look like one.
Me: ah, ur too kind. gotta get bak to my mate. catch u round.have a great night.
HB9: you too!

so yeah, thats pretty much what happened. another memorable set was at mesh .i had learnt while watching countless youtube videos recently that to walk into a club, you must have the most pearly white amazing smile on saying 'listen,im having fun...you should have fun with me' and also, to open the first set you see on the left......well i didnt have a left. i had a right:P so as soon as the massive swing door *held by Gruel thankfully* opened, i spotted a 3-set literally right by the door *for those who know mesh* walked straight up smiling. Opened with the Drug dealer opener *again* and went splendidly, they all seemed really keen and fun and happy to talk to me....

this is where my problem comes in.....i think im great at opening now...without sounding like an ass. but now,my problem is where to go from there. i can open no problem,but when it comes to DHV, or like...anyhting more than that,im lost! any help would b appreciated

(PS once again. From auckland,nz. so thats why the place names and stuff wont make sense )

Peace,
Mustang

Dam bro, thats an awesome opener. After you open you need to just do a "that reminds me...its just like....." and go into a story. Doesnt matter if it really reminds u or if it has ANYTHING to do with the opener. Never will a HB go "ok, now u said that was just like xxxxx....how was that like xxxx????" lol.

Just snip and switch if u start to lose them. Have lots of material ready and remember neg neg neg based on not just their hotness, but their social value in the room. Dont worry if they react a bit bad when u neg them, heck i got punched in the stomach last night by a HB durring neging her but i still got her # and tons of kino from her later in the night! Dont be afraid to neg!

Good job bro, im going to try that opener tonight.

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Kinoescalator
5 for 5 MPUA

"Life is short, when its done u cant start over"

another thing i just remembered is that when i was at the bar getting a drink for myself. this cute as HB8 in a black short dress was there waiting for her friend to get her a drink. went somethin like this.

Me: hey.while were waiting for our drinks.can i ask ur female opinion on somethin
HB: yeah sure thing!
Me: do i look like a drug dealer to you?
HB: *up and down look* hmmmm... *nudges friend whos buyin drinks* does he look like a drug dealer?
HB friend: na i dont think so! u look good!
HB: if i say no will u buy me a drink??
Me: if i play a game with you and win u buy me one.
HB: *leans in* ok! wat game

Proceed to play 5 questions game. beat her on 4th question:P

Me: I'll have a coke
HB: aw.iv got no money on me! *opens wallet to prove lack of money/card
Me: well i guess ill get it from you next time i see you.
HB: youll have to

and at that point i got my drink and then was like sweet cya. yes yes i know,i couldve number closed.but i didnt think of it till i was on my way bak to Gruel hahahaha. my bad.it wouldve been awesome. but yeah.sorry i just rememberd that so i had to put it in. should i have been like. give me my number so we can meet up and get that drink you owe me? or wat should i have said??

it is a good opener, it hasnt let me down yet! though i really cant claim to have come up with it. respect and props to whoever did come up with it! hope it worked out well for u dude!

It's so easily done - the number of opportunities I've missed due to not pushing things further or walking off to do something else or worse still nerves getting the better of me causing me to bottle it. my advice would be to ask yourself, was it down to nerves (which made you walk off)? - if it is this is easy to work on because you'll spot the signs next time and will be calmer. Did you not know what to say? - if so (as I'm sure you know) just build on what you've said and maybe learn a few more routines/conversation topics. I personally don't give #s until I've built comfort or am "vibing" with a HB (it's my thing) - so maybe you shouldn't push for a #close straight away. Asking for a # in the way you mentioned is fine; maybe next you could say "maybe I can buy you a drink next time" or "we could get together and place some more bets" etc - make a bit of a joke out of it. On the plus side if you see her out again-she'll remember you and you know what to do. Keep up the good work.