Ellen,
A girl i met on a dating site about 2 months ago that was moving up to my town. We got along really well through txt and although i wasnt a full afc, There where alot of afc things that i should've filtered out..

It was the 13th of February when i first actually met her, It was also her birthday. She was alot more attractive than her profile pictures. I took her out to a pub that she said she wanted to have a pie from (there pretty famous in this area). I thought this would be a little more thoughtful. I paid for the dinner which was only cheap, on the pro visor that she shouted me dinner next time (she had no money from the move and i thought it would be nice for her birthday). Also i got her a massage voucher for a birthday/welcome present (god it sounds so afc writing it now).

So the dinner went ok, there was nothing there though and i wasnt particularly interested in her, but after she blew me off a few times i wanted what i couldnt have so the game started. 3 weeks of arranging a date her cancelling, arranging another date me cancelling, ignoring her for awhile. Taking ages to reply to txt ect.. We decided on dinner last night, again she said she had a hockey game and wanted to do lunch instead. I said lunch was no good for me. She told them no, then she sent me txts friday night, "I'm really being pressured to play hockey, I'll bring dessert around to your house after" i didnt reply, "Ok so yes or no" i didnt reply "I've said yes to play but i promise im going to cook you a big feed whenever you want". I didnt reply till the next morning and just said "lol, no worries dont stress" Then she told me she lost the game crashed her car ect and i said how bout lunch today? she didnt reply for an hour then said i have plans for lunch, then i gotta go shopping but after that?? bout 3.30? I told her i have a better idea, meet me at the shops after your lunch and you can help me pick out a new shirt..

We got to the shops and i gave a little neg straight up "Do you have any fashion sense? you look like a country bumkin!" little giggle. then i started conversations with all the girls in the clothes shops, Got their opinions on clothes, got them to pick clothes out for me.. They loved it! When they asked about her i'd just say oh no.. shes just a friend. We picked out a few clothes, talked for abit and once i realized she was getting interested in me, all my anxiety left.. I became my usually bubbly self and kept escalating. (at this point i am not interested in her anymore, i love the chase) so i said well im done, whent to give her a hug goodbye and she turned her cheek for me to kiss. I just made her a little awkward, as if it isnt my intention. Said good-bye and left.

My intentions with her are just to be friends, but with with her blowing me off all the time cause she thought i was trying to pick her up, i didnt really get a chance to show that. I wanted to go out and show her i was social, fun and pre-selected by women. Which is what i didnt get a chance to show her on her first encounter. I think i showed all these things today.

Honest feed back is appreciated.