As this story goes, I had an invite to a VIP member club by a previous fling. The previous fling is relationship material which is rare for me.
In the club she barely says hello, rather she is full on grinding and grabbing at the guy who is the owner of the club, and whose family owns a castle in europe and some shit that he told me later on. He also mentioned as we talked over a drink later that all the women just want him to buy him drinks.
Anyways, I scuff at her for her rudeness and go to explore. There I run into HB10, who instantly engulfs with a hug. HB10 was introduced to me by Ashley as they are friends who visited a house I was staying at earlier this week.
My game on her included these lines and games:
Your an actress, u must be a ppl person.
Her: No, I talk down on myself.
Me Lets talk you up then. What are three words that your friends would describe you?
Her, Friendly, Not a PPl person, Fun.
After she says this, she is instantly surronded by 6 different guys, giving drinks and hugs. I lean and whisper 'there is a fourth word'.
Her: What?
Me: Liar (NEG)
Her: DID U CALL ME A LIAR! her friend hears and comes in angry to back her up. (Shit Test).
Me Yes! You told me you were not a people person. All these guys just surrounded u and gave u drinks and hugs.
We shoot the shit after and i go off to meet more people.
During this she keeps passing by giving me IOI"s, IE Smiles waves. A few times she wanted to break up and show me, how hot she was and how she could have any guy by sitting in a group of them to make it a challenge for an approach.
One of the tricks I used was using her knowledge of my recently dislocated shoulder.
I walk up to group, sit next to her and say: A GIRL JUST DISLOCATED MY SHOULDER U NEED TO PUT IT BACk! I then instruct her to grab my arm and pull and push. I played some games like mis counting and a bit of a yell as she thought she put it in.
(Neg) Her: Did i do all right?
Me I wouldnt become a physio therapist, but you could play one on TV. (she is trying to become an actress.)
At this point its on like donkey Kong. Still i have my real sights on, Ashley the girl who brought me.
So we hit the dance floor, I run into ashley she is there doing photography for the club. (I do the same type of work) Ask her for her camera as she is stroking up this guy.) I find HB10 and her friend and Im like 'I need models for this video for the club, come dance!'
I have a small private photoshoot with the two girls before we head to the midddle of the packed dance floor.
Ashley shes the fun and demands her camera back, and leaves. So we are all now dancing, and Im like time to go full Alpha. HB10 worked her way to the front to watch the DJ. I go spin her out with a dance move and take her spot. Then start dancing and touching with her until we make eye contact and then she jets away. I dont follow i keep dancing while watching for ashley to see how jealous she is getting.
Now HB10 gets surrounded by guys everytime she leaves me. We keep dancing at each other and away trying to play it cool. Until we meet in the middle for a Saturday Night Fever type moment. Update on Ashley' she is without the guy she was with all night now, as I think he left.
Then dance away and she sits down with random guys and points at me. I keep dancing then i walk over to her eventually and tell her the same, 'I dislocated my arm put it back in".
Keep dancing until the night is over. Now. HB10 is aware i think that I hooked up with her friend before. So she knows I have been using her a bit that Night.
Ashley is gone, and I am left with her HB10 friend and her other friends who invite me back. I leave with other ppl not knowing HB10 would be at the afterparty. But she was, we all hang out until, I am getting water and HB10 is putting on her shoes.
I ask if she is leaving will she show me to the bus stop. (I was using this to finally get some alone time and close) She smiles and says yes. Then on the way out the door another guy who likes me wants to come along. COCKBLOCKED.
Anyways, we walk down and I start making preperations for my morning to check out a friends new place on the beach and the Quicksilver pro. We part ways while im on the phone so it appears as though i am cool and have other things going.
While on the bus, I give it one more shot to see her and I call her up and she says that she is getting tucked into bed. I invite her out to the surf tournament, once i pick up my car. She thinks about it and eventually says "no, she needs her sleep." On the + side she keeps asking questions after I tell her 'no worries we can catch up later.'
Now to the Text later that day and my possible mistake:
I sent her a text asking if 'she gets picture messages' she replies: 'Dont be silly i am not that high tech'. Me: your silly u still have a Nokia. ....
Me: Anyways, the picture was from this mornings surf tournament. If u r interested in surfing, u know I'm going to ask u out, right?
TLDR: Picked up a old Fling's HB10 Friend, may have ruined it in the final text message. I feel as though since everyone is friends that she wont be interested.
EDIT: Can anyone suggest where to take this?
Thanks for reading guys: Here is a book that helps me. Motivational Interviewing- Preparing people for change. by William Miller.