This Sunday will be my first official night of sarging since I've read through Double Your Dating, The Game, and Venusian arts (still reading it). Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I'm one of those guys that goes in between being the cool, confident, enthusiastic guy who gets ass to being a really reserved AFC. I have no idea why I have been walking this revolving door for the past 10 years. I'm 24 now, so I feel like I need to consolidate my persona, no holding back. I'm kind of tired of getting ass, gettin really cute girls, and then weeks later being really reserved and quiet. Its maily a confidence thing, one day I have it the next I don't.

Anyway, my goals for this first night are simple

1) Work on conquering AA. I want to eliminate it completely soon.

2) Work on opening sets with enthusiasm, energy and a smile. I often wear a cold expression, even if I'm happy. So I need to work on exhibiting that confidence and enthusiasm when I make first contact.

I am planning to try sarging 3 times a week time permitting, since I am in L.A. I have a ton of venues to work at.

I have a problem thinking up negs or making interesting situational comments. As the first few nights of sarging go along, these will become my next goals. My strengths are my looks and style.

Peace.

Looks like you have some good goals in mind. I recommend memorizing a few openers, a few negs, and having a great time! Don't let any one set affect you, laugh it off, and roll on to the next set! Let us know how you do.

_________________
Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Neg list here. ultimate-negs-collection-vt9080.html?hi ... =list+negs

Have you got your DHV's sorted? If a set goes well I guess you should be looking to N Close. Learning the game level by level, just like myself. Good luck!

haha you should have been sarging 3 nights a week as you were reading those books. i have those same problems, just start smiling as soon as you walk in the place and when your approaching keep the idea of abundance in your mind, if something goes wrong theirs plenty more sets to be opened and girls to be sarged