Hey there. I'm an 18 year old trying to eventually F-close my Japanese tutor. She's in her early 20's i'm guessing but i don't know her exact age. I've only had one lesson with her so far and from that alone i was getting IOIs such as many hair touches and when she would laugh she would subconsciously poke my leg. At one point she actually apologized for it. Recently when i text regarding the work, i try to embed DHVs and turn the conversation a little more casual to get out of this horrible teacher student frame. The fact that next lesson ill be paying for time where i probably won't learn anything makes yet another problem. How do you suggest i make her comfortable enough to pursue a relationship outside of the lesson? Any help is greatly appreciated, i hope to get her all the way to f-close, now because of the age difference and this shitty frame. It will be a challenge.

Advice?