I was out to eat w/ a bunch of friends the other night, and our waitress was cute so I took advantage of it for practice..

I was out w/ 2 friends and their girlfriends (yeah i was flying solo). I'm fortunate cuz we all just generally have a Really good time when we go out and the vibe is def noticed.

Truth is I didn't really run any "game" on the waitress, she probably gets that all the time, plus I didn't really think about the waitress to much until we were ready to leave and my buddy said I should go for it.

Anyhow gist of the evening.

alot of IOI's from the waitress, they very well could have been fake IOI's cuz shes a hired gun, either way she was very playful and seemed to come around our table a lot and made several comments on how much fun we were etc.

so near the end of our dinner is when I decided to run a little practice game. Heres the dialouge.

Me to waitress : "look, dont take this the wrong way, but I'm paying for that guy right there (pointing to my friend, cuz i owed him money anyway)"

Waitress: "I didnt know you swung like that"

Me: (w/ a slight chuckle) " Actually he (refering to my friend) is w/ both those girls, and we're together (refering to my other guy friend) you know since its completley normal to see a guy w/ 2 girl friends go out to eat w/ a gay couple" (being sarcastic and making her laugh thinking about the irony of the situation if that were indeed true)

Waitress: (jokingly) "Yeah I figured that since you two are both wearing white hats (refering to me and my buddy i said i was w/)

Me: (c/f) "yeah actually we call each other before we leave the house and plan that kinda shit out"

Waitress: (coming back around to being sorta serious but still in a fun laughing kinda way ) "haha yeah actually i figured those 2 were together (pointing to my budd and he gf) and those 2 were together (pointing to my other buddy and his gf) and you were flying solo that why you had an empty seat next to you

Me: (c/f) "yeah well you got us figured out dont you" Actually how long do you think they have been together (refering to my friend and his gf)

Waitress: "Idk, 5 years"
Me: lower
Friends " we've been together 2.5 years"
Waitress: "Oh wow I've been w/ my bf now for a year"

(I made up this little routine on the spot but it worked out Perfect, just as I intended to find out if she had a bf, or if she would bring him up, I really really dropped the ball after that)

Me: "how long do you think ive been single for" (MAJOR DLV, i didnt think it all the way through, in my mind i saw it transitioning differently haha, oh well thats what practice is all about, this would have been a great opportunity for me to give a false disqualifer which would have made my last step easier)

(at this point i dont remember the exact dialouge all i know is the vibe shifted haha but my friends started talking to her immediatley to take her attention off that)


She gives us our bills and before we leave my friends are like "dude leave a note and tell her to hang out w/ us or just leave your number"
I started to and then I thought wow thats so AFC, so I said fuck that and turned around to find her as soon as i saw her i walked straight up to her and said

"sara, what time do you get off"
waitress: technically im cut now, but i have some stuff to do yet

Me: Listen, we're all going out bowling or something after this, come tag along, i know you have a bf so you its not like that... (i've seen the "i know you have a boyfriend" thing work really well before, i guess it sorta shows them you are respectful that they have a bf

waitress: oh i know, (looked like she was really debating it like she really wanted to go) I was suppose to to bake christmas cookies tonight

Me: (c/f) hmm.. christmas cookies? bowling? yeah i can see the toss up haha. Thats cool I'll leave my number if you decide to come out give me a ring.

Waitress: ok

I left my number and left.

I think i outlined some of my sticking points througout the post, but any other suggestion or things i missed or could have done better let me know.