Hi.

Yesterday i did first approach in my life. I have a strong approach anxiety, but, i dont know how, yesterday i broke it. And, i didnt go to newbie mission before.

I go to concert, "nice" music - tables, chairs, no dancing or very loud music. It was a classic 2set. I used direct game opener - like "Hi, you two are very estetic, i must go and introduce myself". And it works . Inside, i was half dead from shock. HB8 and HB7 - and i expect something like "go away" or "go die to the corner"... But, we chat like 10 minutes - smiles.... For me, this is like run to Mount Everest in 20 minutes - big surprise, and biggest achievment in my life, in social relationships.

I end it after couple minutes - i dont know why

My mistakes:
I try "charm" both - right way is choose one target and choose strategy
Low eye contact - again, i try both - now, i know, this is mistake
Low conversation - i was too amazed just from talking to girls....

Next time:
- one target
- eye contact to target
- better conversation
- maybe some kino

Good job man! First successful openings always feel amazing! My first approach wasn't successful, but it definitely took a huge load off my shoulders. And I learned alot from it, and got alot of insigt from alot of users here.

Since u didnt have much eye contact, I'm guessing u were pretty nervous. Keep approaching like this, and that nervousness will go away. Remember, people will forget u got rejected 5x in one night when u score that hot babe in the end

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21 year old AFC
Still tryna get rid of my AA =(

thanks man, yes, my heart was in floor, and i was scared more then hell