This was a waitress that was at a bar.

I opened, but i think i spent a little too much time on the opener. This waitress had a huge bitch shield up. So i negged her and left to come back later.

Second time around my wing and i were about to leave the bar. So we go up with a different opener, this time with my wing. I start throwing negs at her like
ME: is that your natural hair color?
HB9: Yes it is
ME: Looks good i guess.
HB9: I guess?.....(cant remember what she really said here, but it was something about my hair. He tried to neg me back).
ME: (I said something along the lines of) Yea, looks good doesn't it.

Then my wing said something about what kind of beer she had, she was at a tub full of beer that she has to sell.

HB9: A bunch of good beer.
ME: Well, not all beer is good?
HB9: All this beer is what you like.
ME: How do you know what beer i like?
ME: (turn to my wing), Now shes stalking me, she knows what beer i like.
HB9: (while i was saying that to my wing) No (in a low voice, i barely heard her say it, but ignored it).

Then we talked about a few other things and it seemed her bitch shield was still up. so..
ME: Im getting bored, so im going to take off.


Her jaw literally dropped and she was so shocked.
Then i heard her say as i was walking away.
HB9: Your real smooth.
i walked off ignoring her comment.

But everytime i negged her it took her longer to respond with a neg back. She seems like the type of person that likes to get the last word it, but im pretty sure i got her bitch shield down finally with that last comment.

Im going to try to continue it tonight if she works.

Anyone have any pointers on how to continue this? Shes very defensive as it seems every guy tells her how hot she is and when i came over and negged her about it, she got really defensive and tried to come back with neg thrown my way. Should i run a routine? if so what would be a good one in this case? Im not exactly sure what type of the stories i should tell her. If shes one of the waitresses that is actually serving ill try to get a table and do some cocky funny.


How would i be able to # close this though. Waitresses seem to twice as hard.

I think now would be a good time to start getting your DHVs in. You'll have to prepare an opener that has what I call ADHVs (Associated DHVs).

Have you seen that 'Mystery in the field' video on youtube where this girl has such a big bitch-shield that she looks like she's gonna punch him? He negs the shit out of her and then DHVs her, she gives an IOI, he gives her a little freeze-out, and from there on in it's plain sailing to the K close.

Good luck!