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PostPosted: Fri Oct 07, 2011 7:11 pm 
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So last night my friend and I went downtown (Orlando) to have a few drinks. I decided to actually give it effort to meet some girls that night. Ended up hooking up with a total stranger. I am new to the game so I have no idea what I did well or what I sucked at so I am hoping some one can chime in.

1. Opened up 3 set, negged the girl, ignored her, she got bored and left. I didn't know what to do to keep her there without being creepy. I was stuck talking to the guys in the group for another 20 minutes before we left.

2. Went to a different bar, opened the bartender who was about an 8. I Asked her if she had been drinking because she looked like a wet spaghetti when she walked. I continually negged her and kept running cocky funny. The bar started to get swamped so my friend and I left.

3. Opened a 9 standing by the DJ booth. Asked her if she was in line to make a song request, turned out she was the DJ's girlfriend. She asked me if I wanted to request a song, and I told her I actually just came over to talk to her than that she just shattered me hearts and our future together. She told me her name and I told her that our names were perfect together. Yada yada yada, got her number, but then threw it away when I found out they had been dating for 3 years.

4. Finally, the 30 minute f-close. My friend and I went back to the bar where I opened the bartender. We sat next to this blonde 7. She immediately started to open my friend by making fun of the buttons on his shirt. I noticed that she was alone and told her that I noticed that she was sitting there alone and didn't look to happy. She asked me how I knew. I pointed out the fact that she was drinking a shitting beer instead of the usually girly drinks, she had no one around her, and that she started talking to total stranger. She said something I wasn't really listening. I told her that a scientific study showed that people who were sad felt 20% better when they danced. So she said ok but she would only dance if it was with my friend. I said go for it and turned to the bartender and read her palm. Whenever the blonde came back to the table I asked her how she felt from 1-10, she said 4. I told her to go shake her ass in the middle of the dance floor and she did not comply. I then talked to the bartender again. The blonde started to talk to me again but I told her the music was too loud and that she had to come closer to talk to me, she refused and wanted me to come to her. So I ignored her request and about a minute later, I found her grabbing my arm as she sat herself on the stool next to mine. She told me that I seemed smart blah blah blah that and asked me what I did for a living. I told her and she was impressed. But then I turned around to talk to my friend for a bit and lo and behold she kept tapping me on the shoulder to talk. I told her that I was actually leaving and it was nice to meet her. She didn't want me to leave so she invited me and my friend back to her place to talk and listen to music. I said no. After about 5 minutes of her insisting, we walked back to her place, where as soon as my friend got a drink and had something to do, I asked to use her bathroom. I called her in there to make fun of her towels and she started to make out with me. Afterwards, I got dressed and left with my friend. I have no idea what her name was nor did she know mine. She asked for my number but I told her if it was meant to be, we'd run inot each other again.

Anyways, the scene where I talked to her at the bar lasted 30 minutes, it took me about 5 at her place. Definitely one of the easier ones I've had... But.... it doesn't happen all the time and my rate of failure is MUCH MUCH higher than success. Any suggestions?


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So last night my friend and I went downtown (Orlando) to have a few drinks. I decided to actually give it effort to meet some girls that night. Ended up hooking up with a total stranger. I am new to the game so I have no idea what I did well or what I sucked at so I am hoping some one can chime in.

1. Opened up 3 set, negged the girl, ignored her, she got bored and left. I didn't know what to do to keep her there without being creepy. I was stuck talking to the guys in the group for another 20 minutes before we left.

2. Went to a different bar, opened the bartender who was about an 8. I Asked her if she had been drinking because she looked like a wet spaghetti when she walked. I continually negged her and kept running cocky funny. The bar started to get swamped so my friend and I left.

3. Opened a 9 standing by the DJ booth. Asked her if she was in line to make a song request, turned out she was the DJ's girlfriend. She asked me if I wanted to request a song, and I told her I actually just came over to talk to her than that she just shattered me hearts and our future together. She told me her name and I told her that our names were perfect together. Yada yada yada, got her number, but then threw it away when I found out they had been dating for 3 years.

4. Finally, the 30 minute f-close. My friend and I went back to the bar where I opened the bartender. We sat next to this blonde 7. She immediately started to open my friend by making fun of the buttons on his shirt. I noticed that she was alone and told her that I noticed that she was sitting there alone and didn't look to happy. She asked me how I knew. I pointed out the fact that she was drinking a shitting beer instead of the usually girly drinks, she had no one around her, and that she started talking to total stranger. She said something I wasn't really listening. I told her that a scientific study showed that people who were sad felt 20% better when they danced. So she said ok but she would only dance if it was with my friend. I said go for it and turned to the bartender and read her palm. Whenever the blonde came back to the table I asked her how she felt from 1-10, she said 4. I told her to go shake her ass in the middle of the dance floor and she did not comply. I then talked to the bartender again. The blonde started to talk to me again but I told her the music was too loud and that she had to come closer to talk to me, she refused and wanted me to come to her. So I ignored her request and about a minute later, I found her grabbing my arm as she sat herself on the stool next to mine. She told me that I seemed smart blah blah blah that and asked me what I did for a living. I told her and she was impressed. But then I turned around to talk to my friend for a bit and lo and behold she kept tapping me on the shoulder to talk. I told her that I was actually leaving and it was nice to meet her. She didn't want me to leave so she invited me and my friend back to her place to talk and listen to music. I said no. After about 5 minutes of her insisting, we walked back to her place, where as soon as my friend got a drink and had something to do, I asked to use her bathroom. I called her in there to make fun of her towels and she started to make out with me. Afterwards, I got dressed and left with my friend. I have no idea what her name was nor did she know mine. She asked for my number but I told her if it was meant to be, we'd run inot each other again.

Anyways, the scene where I talked to her at the bar lasted 30 minutes, it took me about 5 at her place. Definitely one of the easier ones I've had... But.... it doesn't happen all the time and my rate of failure is MUCH MUCH higher than success. Any suggestions?
hah nice. Whatever you did that night was right, so try to act the way you did that night every night.

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 08, 2011 9:25 am 
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I'm not gonna lie, I'm kind of emvious of your gaming style. You totally blew her off and she kept loving it. You totally made it seem like you were of much more social value and she believed it the more time went on. Love your ending too, I've GOTTA use that. This is one of the only posts I've seen in a while on here that geniunely impressed me.

It sounds similiar to how me and my friend act when we go out. I'd say I'm a goodlooking guy, but my friend is admittedly better looking. (Girls say he looks like Zac Efron/Anthony Green). Like the blonde, girls will usually scope him out first in the room, but just like your buddy, after 5 minutes they usually realize he has generally weak game because he relies on his looks. They'll talk to me, I'll neg them and tease them, then hookup with them instead. Its cool gaming with this kid, its always a test of looks vs. game, and we usually come out even. I never feel bad either 'cause if I get a girl, I make sure to hook him up with one. (I'm very persuasive :D)


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I'm not gonna lie, I'm kind of emvious of your gaming style. You totally blew her off and she kept loving it. You totally made it seem like you were of much more social value and she believed it the more time went on. Love your ending too, I've GOTTA use that. This is one of the only posts I've seen in a while on here that geniunely impressed me.

It sounds similiar to how me and my friend act when we go out. I'd say I'm a goodlooking guy, but my friend is admittedly better looking. (Girls say he looks like Zac Efron/Anthony Green). Like the blonde, girls will usually scope him out first in the room, but just like your buddy, after 5 minutes they usually realize he has generally weak game because he relies on his looks. They'll talk to me, I'll neg them and tease them, then hookup with them instead. Its cool gaming with this kid, its always a test of looks vs. game, and we usually come out even. I never feel bad either 'cause if I get a girl, I make sure to hook him up with one. (I'm very persuasive :D)
I'm flattered but not gonna lie... This is all very discouraging. In my mind, I failed... I went home with a 7.... 7s are easy.... If it were a 10 I might not have acted the same way. If it were a 10 I would have gone home alone. My game is weak. I can open. SO what?! I need to know sequencing, I need to know patterns, I need to know efficiency. Just went out tonight, went home alone.... Actually some girl asked me for a cig, said no, she got offended, and rather than me moving in, some girl I was working on before came out of nowhere and defended me. Within 5 minutes, I had a glass thrown at me and a chick fight broke out with cops involved.... So... no... I'd say I'm a failure... Can some one help me out.


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I'm not gonna lie, I'm kind of emvious of your gaming style. You totally blew her off and she kept loving it. You totally made it seem like you were of much more social value and she believed it the more time went on. Love your ending too, I've GOTTA use that. This is one of the only posts I've seen in a while on here that geniunely impressed me.

It sounds similiar to how me and my friend act when we go out. I'd say I'm a goodlooking guy, but my friend is admittedly better looking. (Girls say he looks like Zac Efron/Anthony Green). Like the blonde, girls will usually scope him out first in the room, but just like your buddy, after 5 minutes they usually realize he has generally weak game because he relies on his looks. They'll talk to me, I'll neg them and tease them, then hookup with them instead. Its cool gaming with this kid, its always a test of looks vs. game, and we usually come out even. I never feel bad either 'cause if I get a girl, I make sure to hook him up with one. (I'm very persuasive :D)
I'm flattered but not gonna lie... This is all very discouraging. In my mind, I failed... I went home with a 7.... 7s are easy.... If it were a 10 I might not have acted the same way. If it were a 10 I would have gone home alone. My game is weak. I can open. SO what?! I need to know sequencing, I need to know patterns, I need to know efficiency. Just went out tonight, went home alone.... Actually some girl asked me for a cig, said no, she got offended, and rather than me moving in, some girl I was working on before came out of nowhere and defended me. Within 5 minutes, I had a glass thrown at me and a chick fight broke out with cops involved.... So... no... I'd say I'm a failure... Can some one help me out.
Dude, don't knock yourself so much. I'm a pretty harsh judge on game, and you're seriously doing fine. 7's aren't THAT easy, unless they're wasted or you're a 9 yourself lookswise. (I figure any girl thats 2 or more points below you socially is usually gonna sleep with you regardless if your game is average) Unless your scale is a 7 being average, then I understand. My 1-10 scale is like percentiles, where 5 is in-the-middle average and a 7 is kinda cute.

And 2 chicks fought over you...be proud lol. The chick who you were working on came out and defended you. I'm sure you could have gotten her...y'know, before the cops did. :P


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