iv recently started university and i didn't know anyone so iv made friends with everyone i can so far.
so i went out tonight with the lads from my apartment and the girls from the apartment above. the girls in the apartment above are nice, iv made myself look like the life of the party every time iv been out with them or seen them. my target was a hb8 im only new with this stuff though so i was trying to neg her a little bit but i think i over done it and every time i would tease her i would say only messing after it which i couldnt help saying.
i get very nervous when im alone with her although when im with all the girls i can have them all laphing.
anyway the hb8 was giving me ioi's, like when walking through the crowd she would grab my hand and I would squeeze and she was doing it back. it was in a loud student club so after an about 2 hours of flirting and awquidly dancing in a small space, i walked straight up to her and slowly leaned in and kissed her, she complied and we kissed, after a while we all went back to our court and i was left walking with her with our mates all behind us whistling to us. i couldn't think of anything to say to her, so it ended up with small talk and when we got back we kissed again before her and the girls went up to there apartment.

i just want to ask some advice from you pick up artists?

i want to know what to do with this girl? i live in the same court as her but i think she is nice, should I text her or comment on her Facebook tonight or tommorow or leave her to contact me???
also if anyone knows why i'm getting nervous could you tell me why and how can i prevent doing this?
thanks in advice if anyone can help me

First being nervous is normal its not like you got some disease and you can get rid of it by taking this pill..

you can only get rid of being nervous by doing more of what makes you nervous to eventually get use to it...

also you said text her or contact her on facebook so im assuming you got her number and SHE HAS YOURS and you are friends on facebook...

well id let her contact you because think about it my friend if someone is interested in someone what do they do o yea they contact that person to see them again so id wait for her to contact you.

also since she lives to close to you im sure you will see her again real soon.....


lastly you need to slow your roll because what i am getting from reading your post is that you want to get with this chick now because tommorow she will be gone...
im referring to yoru confusion on should i text her, call her, facebook her? what should i do to get ahold of her...or should i just play it cool?

Im telling you to play it cool and chill out take it slow....because rushing into somethign and seeming like a tool wont only hurt your changes with her im sure her friends friends will her bad experience of you as well and even though they havent met you that is what they will judge you by

just take it day by day and relax my friend...nothing is going to kill what you have started with this girl quicker than you trying to hurry things along

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that seems like good advice mate thanks il leave her to contact me.
i am interested in this girl but I'm more interested in improving my game and breaking old habits of making girls feel awquid around me because i talk about stupid stuff and tease too much, so I'm trying to get as much practise as I can with good looking girls. i can game hb 6 girls and not have any nerves at all, so most of my game goes right.
i was also wondering, when I was in the club last night and all my friends are making out with girls and she is talking to her friends, I felt awquid standing by them while this was going on so i kept going the toilet and going the bar every time this was happening, should i try chatting to new people while this is going on? i would usually chat to other people in a pub setting but it is hard to talk in a loud environment and no one really wants to talk they want to dance.
when some of my other girl friends from uni came into the club and stated dancing with me i seen her glancing over a few times getting jealous. i think this is what made her realise she liked me, like it says in the mystery method book.
do you think i should contact girls i know to have them meet me while im in set with a target? i was thinking it might piss the girl off who i told to come meet me.

I agree with Savior here. Slow your roll. You guys live in the same building. That means for the entire school year she will be right upstairs. The worst thing you can do is rush into something and have it be awkward for the rest of the year. Not only will be awkward for you 2 but she will most definitely tell the rest of her friends about because women like to gossip. She isn't going anywhere anytime soon. So just keep doing what you are doing and play it slow.

As far as inviting another girl when with the target I would say don't do that. There would be nothing wrong with dancing with other women at a club if the target is not showing you interest or anything but dont set something up on purpose. That will usually backfire unless you absolutely know what you are doing.

thanks for the advice