Although this night REALLY pissed me off, hopefully we can all learn something from it.

Tonight at the club I had 4 hot babes ready for me, and I blew it! The ugliest one was an 8. 2 were 8.5's, and one was a solid 9. I should have had them all coming home with me, but somehow blew it.

I built my social proof in the club within 5 to 10 minutes. Talked to the biggest bouncer there about the band. Talked to a couple of regulars girls, one being a hottie. Danced with her for just a minute. Got her smiling. Actually got all the girls I talked to smiling. Then, the dj plays a song I can really get into. I start really getting down, have a couple of girls behind me brushing up against my ass, and these 4 chicks in front of me start smiling(1). Every damn one of them. Giving me eye contact(2) and smiling from ear to ear. They literally open their group up(3), so I move forward into their group. They accept me(4). I'm dancing with all four of them now. One dances beside me and I "bump" hips with her. She smiles(5). Another dances on the other side of me, and the other two in front of me. The one on the other side pairs up with the girl in front of her and dances with her, then moves herself around to shake her ass on my groin too(6). After a bit of that, the four girls pair into two pairs, whisper something into each other's ears, giggle, then smile at me more(7). So, how many IOI's is that so far? SEVEN FUCKING IOI'S!!! I should have been able to fucking close ALL of these damn girls!

The song ends and they leave the dance floor w/o saying a word to me or looking at me. So, I don't follow. I move on. Later, I spot them back on the dance floor. Apparently they spotted me off the dance floor, because one of them breaks from the group and comes to stand beside me. I asked why she left her friends. She said "I needed a break". For some FUCKING reason my mind blanked and another guy moves up and moves in. Later, I saw that other guys had picked the other ones up too.

I RAISED THEIR BUYING TEMP and lost out on it.

EDIT: Two other factors, while dancing, showed IOI's that I need to mention. As I raised my hands to dance, they followed suit. As I lowered my hands, they again followed suit. Then, they started coming up with moves to "impress" me with. LOL, yet, I still blew it with them.

Dam man, but like u said........sometimes we all mess up.

-Kinoescalator

did you go alone?

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Yep, normally do Murdoc.

haha that fucking suck i get that time to time

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Well thats LOADS better then my night I went out sarging with John and In the 3 clubs we went to we couldn't even stand let alone dance or walk over to a girl

And your mind may have blanked due to it taking in way too much information, you were paying attention to about 6 girls and your own energy level was high aswell. That is a lot to process.

Damn, I was rooting for ya too!

Well, there's always another night.
We learn from out mistakes, right?

Ouch, thats all I've got, just ouch.

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And this is one reason we all need to choose a target.

I've fallen into the trap before where you try to flirt with all the girls in a group, and in doing so, you show that you're just a big flirt, so none of them feel a connection with you. Sounds like you were doing great on being the center of attention in the group, and if you had selected a target and isolated, you could have kiss closed and maybe more.

Tripp-

Well Tripp don't feel bad. I was in vegas, this weekend and no f-closes. A bunch of kino, k-close, #-close with locals. But the coveted f-close didn't happen. I mistakingly took a hooker to my room. I say mistakingly because for like 30 mins she was totally just chatt'n it up, and said that she was waiting for her friends and shit. When we went to my room, I asked her..

"so wat do you have, besides yer pretty face (HB 8.5, 7.5 on vegas standards)"
"I like to party and suck cock"
"Oh that's cool" (not getting shit tested and shrugged it off)
"you take care of me, and I'll take care of you" -chick

guys I know we don't pay for anything here in the forum, but in hindsight maybe I should've done it. I brought it down from 400 to 250. My local friend said that you only get nasty ghetto black chicks for that much, and she was no where near that level.

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