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First of, I am new here and just registered to say thanks to you guys (long time reader ) and bring you this story of my first real try at PUAing.
I'm German so I hope you guys will excuse my english^^

A few weeks ago i met my ex-gf i broke up with two years ago. It was a huge mess, she cheated on me, i begged her to take me back - you know the deal.Wuss to the fullest

Anyways we met at the mall by accident and she recognised me, came up to me and was surprised like hell. (I changed alot in those two years, mainly because of her and the way she treated me - in a positive way of course ;P.) We talked a bit, but since I was in a hurry i had to leave and she asked if we couldnt meet up at the cafe close to both our locations at friday. Not too much pickup happened yet, just casual "How you doin" convo.

Anyways, we met at the cafe and talked a bit Wasn't into trying any stuff on her tho. She mentioned how I had changed and that she really liked it since i was wierd back in the days - but she didn't really buy i was more or less successfull with women. Shit testing of course - but i managed to hold my frame up. Suddenly i had the urge to prove im not the wuss she knew anymore and actually show her what i was made of.
It was the first time i was dedicated to really go through all the way, i had only play-tested stuff on female friends so far.
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So i told her to watch how i get the waitresses phonenumber with ease. She laughed but that only made me going more eager.
Eventually the waitress was on her way to our table, which i noticed and i timed the story i was telling so that my ex started laughing the moment the waitress arrived. Worked perfect so far

Before the waitress, who was a nice HB7, had the chance to ask us what we wanted, i started the game.

Me:Hey, you just came at the perfect moment - we need a professional oppinion on something. I claim Coke Zero is the same as Coke Light only with an advertisement campaign designed for men - she *pointing at my ex* says im nuts.What do you think?
HB7: Well, I don't know to be honest...
Me: Huh? I thought waitresses make their money with drinks ;P That's a bit disappointing.

Honestly, not the best lines and i was in trouble because i had no idea what to say next - lacking experience...when luck kicked in

HB7: Ah, I'm sorry to disappoint you...but you look familiar - could it be you guys went to ***** school?
Me: Yeah, actually we did. But I've never seen you...say, you aren't a stalker by chance - are you?
HB7: Huh? No no haha, i really went to school there.
Me: I don't believe you! You ARE a stalker - omg thats so creepy. I thought you were cute and wanted to give you my number later - but that's off.

She wanted to say somethin but i instantly faced towards my ex and said , with an intentionally loud whisper:
Me: Even tho I'm sure she stalked my number already.

And the waitress laughed

Me: So Stalkergirl - if you've got my number, why didn't you call me yet? That's what a stalker is supposed to do! Could it be you suck at stalking? It's not that difficult, geez.
Again - she loughed, everything worked quite good actually. Before she recovered i continued.

Me: So let's make things fair. You've got my number so i demand to get yours - and on top of that I'll show you how to call people so you don't need to stalk around.
HB7: Haha, wow - your funny, bla bla, actually writes down her number on her orderthingy and hands the paper to me. I'll be mad if you don't call.
Me: Gonna stalk me, eh? ;P That's all for orders now, thanks alot

Waitress leaves to get back to work.

EX Gf stares at me with eyes wide open. I feel like the man
That's when i noticed the two girls a few tables away who seemed to have oberheard everything and are still looking my way. Both HB8. I had a run so i thought i should go for it.
ME: Omg, first a stalker and now two voyeuers. what is wrong with this place?I just want some privacy...well ladies, if you keep on staring like that, why don't you come here and get a closer look - it's worth it.

And they actually came lol. Omg my ex almost died haha. They sat down and had a good conversation with both of them - ignoring my ex and casually negging her of course Won't post that convo cuz it's to long and i was so full of adrenalin i barely remember it anyways. In the end i even #closed BOTH HB8s.

Since then my ex keeps constantly calling me haha, wow i feel so good.

Sorry for the long post - but im so thrilled and needed to share that.It is so amazing how well this c&f stuff works. Really changed my life, im so much more confident and this confidence helps me in every aspect of my life - not only women.
Of course im thankfull for any advice you guys can spare

Thanks alot

lol, i'm glad you have the confidence to pursue women, that's all this is really about. i actually wouldn't have approached and continued the way you did, but like you said you're still new and it did work... so great job =).

here are some things i noticed. it seems like you immediately qualified to your ex-gf's shit test of "you're still the same/you can't pick up women". you said you "urged" to prove it to her. i am assuming you probably gave her some satisfaction and it showed interest on your part. you need to be alpha and lead... you need to literally be unaffected by the shit women say to you... especially ex girlfriends. who cares what they think, it'll make you 10x more attractive.

as for the waitress, confidence is key regardless and the jokes do work, but i wouldn't have did it the way you did. she might have found you attractive before you even talked to her (maybe in school, which is why she used that as a topic to keep talking to you). that might have made things easier to get her number. that doesn't work all the time.

cocky&funny is great but to me it seemed like you kept it going with the "you're a stalker" thing for a little too long. you need to vary/mix up your cocky/funny attitude, and the more jokes you have the better you look. confidence and inner game is huge and will work, but when you're dealing with equally confident men who have more experience in what they're doing... they may AMOG you and take the women you attempt to pick up. just a warning...

i know that if i was there all i would need to say is "wow, you're being a little try hard. i mean if all you care about their number then you should just ask already *smile*"

or i could say something like "i heard that one before, the old 'you're stalking me' routine when in fact YOU are the one actually stalking them.... that's getting old man"

or last but not least just call you a wannabe player or something haha.

so yea, AMOGs are scary sometimes, they catch you off guard as do women who shit test you. these HBs seemed generally friendly which made things easier for you. great job but it seems like you might need a bit more practice for next time. keep the confidence up, learn more... don't worry about failing if you do... drop the expecations and you'll be fine =)

great start and hopefully you keep it up...

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by Casual (Age 20, Upcoming PUA)