I was in a set at a college party, doing well, two girls doing a routine where i give them "stripper names" when suddenly a third girl comes in and totally wrecked my game.

we will call her bitch.

Me "in routine bla bla bla"
Bitch: *walks in-between me and the target/targets "Lets go this is stupid"
Me: "Im sure you'll have some fun if you join us we're having a blast!"
Bitch: "Who the fuck are you? *i start to answer but she cuts me off "Shut up and go away"
Me: "Why do you hang out with her she is like a fun sponge!"
Bitch: She poured her drink on me and walked away, her friends looked at me apologetically and left im assuming to avoid the sheer embarrassment of the situation.

I was so pissed but she ruined my shirt and my game for the whole party WTF could i have done!?!?!?!?

that sucks man, i can't tell you what you should do, because that answer i can not be sure of, i can tell you what i would have done, and im sure it is not the correct answer and demonstrates a high level of reactivity

at the point she says something rude like who the fuck are you, you say WHO THE FUCK IS THIS PARIS HILTON ON A BUDGET?, if she trys to talk you get louder and cut her threads, LISTEN SHUT UP, usually will stop really mean rude girls from talking,

she poors drink on you, you spit in her face, or go find two drinks and turn it into a drink throwing contest,

just my 2cents,

just dont be phased by it. right when she said lets go this is stupid just politely say o im sorry do you guys need to go? and go from there. if the poored her drink on me i would have not quite snapped but been like HEY! what the fuck is the matter with you you dumb bitch. you will want to say that very firmly. do not back down and do not let people push you around. you must be DOMINANT. I honestly would have probably hit her but im not suggesting you do that for legal reasons. but dont show that your upset that she took your girls away. show that your upset about your shirt. when she poors her drink on you.

hahah that fucking sucks! not much you can do.

in that situation i would just get the details of the girls i was talking to 'hey. you. yeah i know you have to go now with your bitch friend but you're cute, lets swap numbers and meet at a time when shes not hear to ruin it'

i bet the other girls were just as pissed at that chick for ruining their fun as you were, so it's something you can bond over.

i wrote a lay report about this idea of siding with the girl against the bitchy friend, here it is:

lr-low-investment-sex-vt91652.html

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That's hard... never had that. Not much you can do.

You could have broken her thread - probably, you picked up her BL automatically, like two rednecks bullying each other until the first punch is delivered. Remaining in an open gesture, and keeping smiling and seriously asking what's the matter might have helped. But not with a total bitch :)

Then, when she does it, look in her eyes and ask like "that all you have to offer? That's just pathetic...". Keep the frame, don't freak out, show you are beyond this aggression thing. This way, you can go with Liam's suggestion and NC them later, or even at another occasion.

Nice story though :)

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