A few days ago I went to a dance with this girl I met. I started dancing with her but I didn't want to seem too interested so I danced with other chicks as well. Then this guy battled me and that got me some rep because I can break and he couldn't. DHV. so after a little bit I took her outside and we talked.
Charm: Damn it's hot in there
HB: ya it is
(slow dance come on)
HB hey do you want to slow dance
Charm: sorry not my style
HB: Oh ok (gives me "doggy dinner bowl look" )
(she grabs my hand)
Charm:Bla bla bla
HB:bla bla bla
Then we made out for a little bit and were interrupted
Random guy: hey are you to goin out?
HB: kinda
I thought that was wierd because I never asked her out and I never really said anything of the sort so I just took it as an IOI
Charm: BLAH BLAH BLAH
HB: BLAH BLAH BLAH
Charm: ehh this is getting pretty lame most people have left already so hey do you want to go
HB: ya ok want to come over for a little bit?
(I had gotten a ride with a friend so we took her car to her house and her parents weren't home)
Charm: That was fun. hey could you get me a drink?
(I wasn't really thirsty but I wanted something going on instead of just sitting around)
HB: ya for sure
At this point she was eating out of my hand so I just sat on her couch in the living room and she sat on the floor
Charm: thanks
HB: ya no problem hey this dress is uncomfortable so let me just change real quick
(I think I should have walked with her bedroom with her but decided to hold off for a bit was this AFC? That might've been were I screwed up)
She comes back
HB: aaahh much better
Charm: I can tell (smile)
She turns on gas fireplace and I move to floor she lies down next to me and I thought it was on so I went to hug her and started kissing her neck and she froze me out so I tried a freeze out and then after a bit she just kind of gets up
HB: do you need a ride home
Charm: I guess..
She gives me a ride to my house and that was it. Could you tell me what I did wrong? should I have went to the bedroom with her?

no def shouldnt have gone to the bedroom think it would have made her freak out, think about it she froze you by the fire place which is kind of a cliche hook up spot now immagine how she would have acted if you barged in to her bedroom,

can you elaborate on how she froze you out i think thats the pivital moment so its either something you did wrong while escalating or immediately before, than aggain maybe she was just shit testing you, i had something similar happen, the chick kept shooting my escalation attempts on my couch telling me not to be fresh, it was getting late and she was about to leave so i took a gamble, i started making out with her than just carried her to my bedroom...never underestimate the power of plowing under the right circumstances.

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she just kind of scooted away and with her back to me so I got up and sat on her couch again and read a mag. and then it was over. It was wierd

she was playing hard to get, you gave up to easily plow plow plow, its a little tricky at first to firgure our wheather you should freeze out or plow but ull get better at it with experience...

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