Today said hi to 4 woman. No response. One of them was very hot like HB 8-10.
I am not sure I understand a question. Does it mean - what is my goal?

if so my goal is to get confortable at saying hi, and maybe getting positive response also. So that would be easy for me to do. So that I would not need to mentaly prepare for that big thing.

Yea, I need next step. But I do not feel like I completed first step. So next step looks impossible.

It takes lot of time. It took like 2 hours for me to find good situations to say hi to 4 woman.

Maybe it is not enough but it is better than nothing hopefully
yea, that is true. I do not rush. Maybe its too hard for me. Maybe I would need a real friend who would kick me in the ass if I do not aproach or smth

I think once I get confortable with current situation, then I will go out a bit of comfort zone. But currently it is still hard to say hi loudly enough to get a response. I feel if I say loudly, and girl notices, she will think that I am stupid or so. Thats why it is hard to force myself.

Also other people will think I am stupid ,because if saying louder - more people will hear. THey will think - oh that douchebag is trying to get a grill, haha, he is not worth her. Something like this.

I hope I will do better than those who give up and marry girls which rare guy wants to marry.

Hi,

last weekend probably did nothing about girls besides browsing dating sites and writing there.

But today it was good. I had few hours date - were walking, then sitting in the coffee with beatiful girl at least for me. I would give her like 6-7 of 10.

Cool thing is that it was easy to get her to date, actually. I wrote one of my openers which I write to beutiful girls, about their beauty, so I was honest. Her reaction was "wow" to that opener

I then said I am really honest, you look beautiful. She said I look nice too. And most nice thing is - she instantly asked - when do we meet for a coffee

I said we can meet next day. And we did. We had a short phone call, to make sure it is easy to talk to her. I saw it is easy on phone, so I say ok, lets meet in real.

We walked in the park for couple of hours maybe, and then like an hour we sat in coffee. Talk was not ending, we were jumping from topic to topic.

Also she asked about my previous girls. And I mentioned to her I had girl which was shame to show to to people I know. She laughed and said thats strong (I am not sure how to express what she said in english). Directly would mean something like "you are humiliating her".

Maybe I should have avoided to say thing like I had girl which was shame to show. But do not know I am honest she understood probably that I have high standards she said said she might not meet my standards

but from the looks - she does.

more "fun" yesterday: general-questions/guys-pushed-talk-girl ... 08294.html

decent weekend. Went to date with new girl. from the pictures she looked like 5, but in reality she looked like not sexy. I do not feel like having sex with her.

And was kind of easy date, because I was not worrying because I did not find her sexy, so not big achievement.

Kind of like work done for this weekend

She would have been easy target for sex if I had wanted I believe. WHen we were talking yesterday on phone, she said she can sleep at my room on coming friday I did not even ask her

And on saturday my siter and maybe parents are visiting me, so I said to her I do not want her to sleep in my room, because parents are coming.

She said is it shame to show, or something like that.

I said I had not shown a single girl to my parents, so its not worth to show a girl after week I know her

On the date she was talking about her deseases, she has cysts, that was something pussy related, so it was also turning me off.

Your strong point seems to be getting girls to come out with you on Day-2s.


If the HB5s & HB6s aren't doing it for you, and you are ashamed to be seen out with them in public..why don't you start going out on dates with the HB7s now?


Why not start working your way up to the hotter girls that you are actually attracted to.


-G

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Hello,

had a break from this. But this weekend decided I need to go back, there were not other significant things to do on weekends.
If I get those HB7, I go with them to dates the problem is to make them want to go with me.

But do not think I am ashamed to go to dates with HB5s, unless she is fat.

Today was walking and saying hi, said it to 3 girls. No one replied. But I think all of them should at least hear. The weather was perfect for this season, about 10 celcius, and no wind. No rain. Awesome, lot of hot girls in the city center. Of course they were with warm clothes, its not same as in spring when weather gets bit hotter and they put off warm clothes. But still there were with skirts, dresses.

I saw one HB10 or 9 , sick hot. Walked slowly, looks like wanting to show off. But she was having earphones, so I am not sure how those has to be picked up with earphones. So maybe thats a sign that she is not interested in being picked up, and just went for a walk?

It's okay to take breaks from the game. I do it too periodically. But i usually do it to focus on or catch up on my work. You have to balance out your work life with your pickup lifestyle. And sometimes one will take over the other one for a short period of time, because you need to work on it. Sometimes i go through periods when i'm immersed into my work (usually to catch up). Other times i'm immersed into pickup (usually for a few weeks in a row straight, for 3 to 4 days per week). If my break from pickup isn't work related, then i usually take the break on the following week after i get laid by some new girl the previous week (that's my way of rewarding myself for getting another notch added to my belt. LOl).


Which i did this week (on Monday Night, October 30, 2017), with an HB7.0 red head milf who is the manager at the Dollar General store near to where i live at now. Once again..i always get laid around Halloween time. It's been the trend for me for the past 4 Halloweens now!!!! LOL On our date in the downtown area..after having a few drinks at the bar, we took a walk around town. I was stalling for more time with her to create more comfort with her, and to further spike up her BT (Buying Temperature). After about 3 to 4 gut-wrenching rejections from her.."You know i can't have sex with you on the first date right?".."No offense, but i'm not going to fuck you tonight".."I'm not sleeping with you tonight, just so you know".."You're a player aren't you. You just want to fuck me so you can add another notch to your belt" I just remained non-reactive to each and every heart-breaking shit test that she shot at me straight through my heart, even though they did in fact hurt my feelings. lol I just didn't show her that her rejections/shit tests hurt me. Which i did by smiling, laughing, joking, or teasing her (by being self-amused, and not frowning or showing her that i'm mad, sad, or discouraged by her rejections/shit tests) My response was.."Ok, cool".."No problem".."I understand".."Nope, i'm not a player. Not at all". And from there, i just changed the subject and went back to regular rapport. I just plowed through, and stayed in set. Some kino at the end of like a 20 minute walk (hugging, grabbing her breast, ass, hair, and kissing), and she finally cracked! She hit up one of her employees who works at her Dollar General store part-time, for a favor. He also works at a hotel on the northside of town full-time (which that very hotel was within walking distance from where me and the red-head milf was chillin at outside at the end of our walk..i know..I'm lucky. Lol). I grabbed her hand, and made a B-Line straight to that hotel. He signed us both into a vacant room (which the HB7.0 red head milf paid for btw). I think it also helped that he was gay. Since he wasn't interested in his HB7.0 red head milf manager in that way. Because had he been a straight guy, he might've been trying to fuck her while he worked at the Dollar General with her, and definitely probably would've tried to cock block me right then and there at the hotel lobby desk. And he probably would've told us that he really couldn't get the room for us, when in fact he actually could get the room for us. That's how hateful, thirsty, and petty us straight dudes can be to each other, just to prevent the other guy from getting some pussy that he's not getting..foreal! We got into the room. I ordered pizza for me and the HB7.0 red head milf, and after we ate..we proceeded to have awesome sex, twice in a row that night!! She was fucking loud too bro! Thank goodness it was at a hotel that we were fucking at, and not at my house, with my roommates' rooms just down the hall and downstairs from my room..geez! Lol


On a week that i'm taking the break from pickup..i'll probably only game for 1 or 2 days that week.


But yes, definitely take breaks from the game periodically, if you feel like you really need to. Sometimes the game can be taxing on you mentally and emotionally after weeks in a row of immersion into pickup..believe me, i know all about it.

But that's good, because now you know that getting the HB7s to go out on a date with you is your sticking point. So now that you know that..you actually have an opportunity to work on that sticking point, and taking your game and experience to the next level.


If you don't want to say it, then i'll say it for you. "Stop wasting your time and potential gaming the HB5s & HB6s. Man the fuck up! Step up! And focus only on gaming the HB7s now!" You will go through hell, alot of rejections, and poorer results for a while..but you will figure it out eventually, and finally overcome that sticking point if you focus on it and consistently work on it exclusively. When you finally break through that plateau, and start getting the HB7s to come out on dates with you, you will thank me.


I promise you..your game will get sick!!!!..if you take my advice.

Well..she has a personal goal that she's focused on, and she doesn't want anything to distract her from it.


But it's not your job to be concerned about her personal goals. That honestly might be your problem right there. You're focusing entirely too much on what other people might think, while neglecting what you really want for yourself. If you want anything in life (in this case..the hot girl)..you have to be a little selfish!


I watched a few puas' videos on youtube say that, to get a girl's attention who is wearing earphones..just simply stop her, and gesture to her with your hands without saying a single word..taking invisible earphones out of your ears. She should understand what that means and take the earphones out of her ears. Then you will have her full attention, and she will listen to what you have to say. Try that and see if it works. Who knows..girls wearing earphones could be your niche, you never know.


-G

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LEARNING GAME IS LAME!..Right up until the point when you will eventually see a hot girl standing or sitting right in front of you. In that moment..you will wish that you had learned game!

Hahhaha.... Love this stuff

Hi,

Again my lazyness is wanting to not improve. I am somtimes thinking - why do I need waste time trying to get a girl which will annoy me.

Last week we had beer with friends. One friends broke up with his girlfriend. That girl was like HB10 for me and I believe she was good at sex also. And he said he lives now perfectly alone. He can do everything for himself. Of course he cannot suck his own dick, but he did not say that . But other than that it really looks so true.

And plus if he much better than me or my cousin who is also much better, cannot find the right girl, then how will I do? I mean even if you improve to the point where those HB10s want sex with you. He said - relationships are not perfect, there are disagreements. Not like another friend shows to us - it looks that another friend is so happy with his girlfirend. Or he just thinks he is happy, or lies to himself.

But then I think - now I cannot say that I do not like girls. Nobody believe. Everybody believe that I suck at girls. And only say that I do not need them. Like I would say I hate ferarris, lamboghinis, or porches. I cannot even afford to have them. Unless renting for short time.

But now again - does it not sound like I care what others think? I want that others think that girls like me. Thats my motivator. So it is good that it is a motivator. But I am not sure if it is good that I do it so that other think I am good.

If I stop caring about others thinking I am good, then I will stop improving and become even worse.
I include them alrready, espcieally in dating sites I write to them.
after I wrote that post, I also decided to search for this information

oh, I wish I could now play some grand theft auto like in good? old times. Probably not good times, now I live better but I do not play grand theft auto because I am constantly thinking instead of play computer game I should search, aproach girl.

Now I am sitting near computer and I have to force myself to stand up and go to at least say hi to girls.

Maybe I should check some videos of pickup so that they would motivate.

watched one video from the list I had long time ago from the ex friend:

https://youtu.be/X6YM_WUP5ik?t=380 and here the coach says the same as I was telling - the man does not need a woman he does not depend on a woman. He is happy on himself. Woman is priority 3 or 5 o r 10

Yesterday was in the mall, trying to say hi. Hard, because lot of people walking and if I say hi, then girl looks like I am stupid and near by person will see, then I will look double stupid. Yea, its thinking what others will think, maybe this is bad.

Finanlly said to one girl who should have heard, but did not reply,just most of people walks quickly in the mall, so is not prepared to answer.
She was nice, like HB5 because bit too fat. But her fatter legs were sexy because she was wearing tight-fitting pants.

Today listened a video How To NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RIpRT7RLIXQ

And its weird. Kind of not funny jokes he say but he lauhtes. As one commenter writes - if girl like you , she laughes at anything. But still I do not believe we should make stupid jokes, sooner or later even those who laugh at anything might stop after others say he is stupid with his stupid jokes.

Or he says to girl - what do you like more - water or kechup out of nowhere? Hmm, again I am not sure if most girls would like you becauses of this.

What do you mean "maybe this is bad"? It is bad. It's real bad!


You're doing entirely way too much thinking. Most of your mental energy is being wasted on you thinking about how you will look if you say this or if you do that, when you approach. And it's further being wasted on you thinking about what others may be thinking about you once you do the approach. All of this before you even truly interact with the girl. You're driving yourself crazy man! lol By the time you even talk to the girl..you're already mentally exhausted from all the thinking that you're doing. That's why you're only able to do no more than just a couple of approaches each day that you go out..because you're too mentally fatigued from all the thinking that you're doing, to do any more than just a couple of approaches. If you just clear your mind, take a few deep breaths, completely stop thinking, and focus your mental energy only on the approach and the interaction with the girls that you approach..you will be making life and approaching girls, a whole lot easier than it currently is for you right now. You're making it very difficult for yourself. I really hope that you can see that.


-G

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LEARNING GAME IS LAME!..Right up until the point when you will eventually see a hot girl standing or sitting right in front of you. In that moment..you will wish that you had learned game!

I am afraid of caring too little and becoming something like those guys:

https://youtu.be/2p1pek2WT7o?t=375

they really care too little about what others think.
Are you maybe my ex friend who removed me from SPAM and facebook ?:D he talked the same - I am thinking too much

Maybe that is true. I am afraid to think too little and look like idiot. I had made myself looking as idiot tons of times in my life.

Ok, now new story and thoughts.

I went to a bar with my female friend, her boyfriend left home, as its not the first time.

She looked nice comparing to how she looks, probably can give HB5. I liked this because I can show to other guys that girls looking at least like this are friends with me, can go alone with me together to public place.

And one guy I think from high school saw me. I had an image of a looser at school, so showing to him that I am with HB5 is nice. Back then I was not able to have a girlfirend almost at all.

But one problem is there. When I see some guy from those old days, where my image was bigger looser than hopefully I am now, I get stressed. When I am in a bar or some public place where all people are unknown to me, I am more relaxed. But when some guy there is from those times, it makes me stress. Like I cannot be so much relaxed, I am looser in their eyes. I am not sure how to solve this. I would like to be as much relaxed as I am when surrounded with unknown people.

But later I got more relaxed. The bar was very crowded, because there was AC/DC tribute group singing. So I did not see that guy.

Also one interesitng thing, from time to time I notice - when I remember how I look in the photos - sometimes relaxed more sometimes not. But I learned how to fake to look like more relaxed. Using more smiling for example even if I am still a looser.

And I try to be in the same state as making me look fake relaxed in the photos ,and it looks like I get more relaxed also in bar. Dancing more. Also often happens that this mode suddenly turns off. Like maybe I see somebody, or I think I am too relaxed or something.
For example there was a last song and I was in this relaxed mode when remembered how to fake, and there was music playing without vocal at that moment. I was starting loudly sing alone "hey hey hey" and one guy near me also joined me singing same "hey hey hey" and I was suprised - a guy joined a looser? like this cant be true, I cannot believe that cool guy joins singing with me. And for a moment relaxation was gone. But then again managed to get back in the relaxed mode, remembering how I fake for photos and maybe also thinking yea,maybe I am not such a looser at least at this mode.

Thats complicated stuff to swich in the relaxed mode. I had drunk 2 beers. They do not affect me too much.

I did not aproach girls in the bar, but had few small chats with guys, couple of times asking if thats the queue. Also guards smelled weed from the outside and asked - did I smoke weed, I told them some time ago I smoked. Now I think maybe I could have told - yea, smoked, that was good, maybe you wanna smoke with me one more
They did not like that guys are smoking weed outside, said they will pass to the police.

Went today again in the mall to say hi. Was hard, did not feel too relaxed. First walked into various shops and asked beatituf seleswoman for things. In phones shop when I went there was beautiful girl, HB8 and I talked to her quite long. There were virtual reality devices and I tried them a bit, and she talked about them. Then also she said there was a lottery - I had to draw something on existing photo of my city, what is missing.

I choose picture with river and there were in that phone app various smaller images which you can add. And between them, there were crocodile images. So I added those crocodile images in the river and submited this

I said to this girl I am not good at drawing, and especially on phone. She said "oh this is nice, I am not able to draw like this". Yea, right.

But now I think, maybe it would be funny if I would have said, smth like - this image should win the contest.

Then I walked and said hi to couplle of girls, at least one of them looked at me when I was saying, so it means she noticed.

oh wow, time goes so fast. Long time since I posted.

Last week did not went aproaching, but just went with 2 female friends (one was with daugther) to the city to see christmas tree powering on lights and concerts.

And then we left 2 with that female friend in the pizza shop, had fun talking.

Today were in the mall, practicing saying hi. When went in , quickly become unrelaxed, so was hard to start. First was fat girl HB5 maybe but she was looking at the ground and most likely did not hear me.

Second and third were much hotter, the third one could hear me saying hi the most likely. Still no replies.

Felt like saying hi and wanting to run out.

Also I have lost my job, so negative thoughts also add this. WHen job goes well, I feel like owning world. I was getting huge salary. When loosing a job, then starting to worry. But I hope I will not have to drop my profession, just get worse job, worse salary. Or maybe if I get better social skills, my salary could also become better.