Monday November 26, 2012
I stopped at a college campus close to my work for forty-five minutes and made two approaches, which both resulted in number closes. I think I need to focus on being a bit more sexual during my interactions. They continue to have way too much fluff talk and no real emotional connection occurs. However, this is a learning process and I plan to overcome this obstacle overtime.

Approach #1
The first approach was nothing special. I could not set up a time to meet with her due to conflicting schedules so she said to text her to set up a meet up.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tHMrRsTy9M

Approach #2
For this approach I opened by asking for directions then transitioning to a comment about her hair. This girl was very outgoing, but again I could not set something up with her before closing and I had to settle for a flaky number.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sp4CbZvLHXU

Saturday December 1, 2012
I ended up going to Boston for the first time for day game with a wingman and I must say this city is the best place I have ever been to for day game. There were women all over similar to New York, but they do not walk extremely fast and give off warmer vibes. I managed two numbers and a facebook close at a mall there out of five approaches. My first approach was direct and inside a woman’s shoe store. We talked for a while and I number closed, but with no real reason for a future meet up since I don’t live in Boston. I then approached a girl sitting at the food court with an indirect opener and we talked while she ate. She only gave me her facebook for whatever reason. My final successful approach was on a moving set. She was friendly and we simply exchanged numbers. This girl was not receptive to my kino at all. Unfortunately, I did not show much intent in these interactions, which leads back to my lingering sticking points. Overall, I felt Boston was a much more ideal place to day game than New York because it has quality women and it was less crowded or less hurried.

Sunday December 02, 2012
After speaking with someone who has great inner game, I realized that I have a lot to work on with respect to my inner game, which is my thoughts, beliefs, and attitudes about life. This particular person asked me what qualities I looked for in a woman and I had a hard time answering this question. He then followed up this question by asking me how can I sincerely qualify a woman if I don’t even know what qualities I am truly seeking? I decided to take the time to write out the most important qualities I look for in a woman. I also attempted to write ten things I have accomplished that most others have not and I struggled to come up with answers. I therefore decided to create a list of things I would like to accomplish within the next few years (a less informative/ mini bucket list). This list was fairly easy to create, but I need to take advantage of my curiosity and ambition by going out and actually performing these experiences.

Qualities I want in a woman:

Open-minded/Creative
Is not afraid to be herself
Accepting/Caring
Respects my three primary values of trust, honesty, and loyalty
Independent or can take care of herself without feeling she has to compromise herself in a relationship
Provides great company
Appreciates the little things in life
Comfortable with her sexuality
Does not try to change me
Has faith in me
Strong but also submissive
Challenges me and full of the unexpected
Not extremely materialistic
Willing to get “kinky” and try new things in the bedroom
Similar interests
Passionate about something
Adventurous

Things I would like to accomplish:

Spend a day with a homeless person
Travel outside of the United States
Go skydiving
Go cliff jumping
Read influential books
Watch influential movies
Go camping
Go kayaking
Go fishing
Enhance my intelligence about music
Learn to play an instrument
Scuba dive
Live in a major city
Volunteer for an event in my local community

Friday December 07, 2012
I went to a major university followed by a mall on the way home for some day game with a wingman. I did not open as many as I could have at the university and was being kind of picky for whatever reason. I continued to demonstrate the sticking points of escalation, intent, and talking to fast. I also need to try and get the women invested in me during interactions. Here are some of the interactions.

Approach #1
I opened directly and it went pretty well. We exchanged numbers and she told me a day she could likely meet up. It was probably my best approach of the day with respect to her being somewhat invested.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_lURxpDMonA

Approach #2
I again opened directly, but I could not really tell if this girl was into it or not. It seems flake and I probably need to escalate more. She never really showed any investment either especially when she tried to dismiss herself for work halfway through the interaction.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PS2xRu5YPIQ

Approach #3
This approach was too friendly. I needed to show intent and escalate more.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mjz9zlS6Dng

Approach #4
This was my first mall approach. There was nothing special about it. She told me she had a boyfriend and did not want to see me again so I ejected.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=308rhXBkqj4

Approach #5
I think I actually went indirect here. She told me she had a boyfriend and I basically ejected.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TR2c3LAXqlw

Hey man, always great to hear your conversation skills in action! Here's my two cents:

Well to be honest my game is a lot more balls to the walls and sexual so I have a lot of difficulty relating to your style of gaming! But I can say that your intent seems to be coming across, The girls saying I have a boyfriend gives a bit of indication of their head space.

It does seem to me that your not really generating a strong attraction :[ (To be fair that may just be me since Im used to girls giving me a very smiley attitude since I always go with a compliment)

Your conversation skills are definitely still your strongest selling point. Don't know if you remember it but the girl who lived in Boston, you asked why not go to Uni's there etc.. Seems really simple but so many avenues in the conversation opened up as you asked(She talked about her family). I think there was a girl before in one of your other conversations where the girl said something about living with her sister and you got her to identify the type of relationship; She said they like each other, shes the mature one, her sister takes center stage etc. It's quite professional lol.

You maybe could of gone further in that example of family, you could really get to understand her relationships and maybe identify with her. etc She has xx type of relationship you say something about a similar relationship laugh at similarities/differences etc Lots of opportunities for a connection.

Like in the instance where you ran the skinny dude routine with I think the first one, you both agreed on so much and sort of provided evidence in the statements so it was kind of like you were on the same wavelength.

Maybe I'm analyzing a little too much, but I think with time and practice your conversation skills will get you there lol.

If you do however want a little bit of a shortcut to getting a little more sexual(It's crazy fun) Maybe you could try some approaches were you cross society's social "rules". Do something completely embarrassing, I think I heard this somewhere, made sense:"You have to crash the car, otherwise you will never know how fast you can go."

Maybe propose to 10 girls, try to just go up to strangers with hugs etc

Just a suggestion, I know it helped me a ton. I was hardly afraid to advance sexually after a couple of kiss rejections lol. Just make sure to be unreactive and apologize if she is offended(I have never had to, but better be safe!)

Other than that, can't wait to hear to hear you next approaches! Hope the above was helpful :]

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Live. Learn. Love.

I appreciate the feedback and agree with much of it. I often cut women off or don't pursue a certain topic she discusses in which she is passionate about. I should only be cutting them off if they attempt to break rapport. I also need to show more intent, especially if it is a warmer approach.

Friday December 14, 2012
I went to the club tonight and ended using the talk to anyone and everyone idea. I eventually ended up with one girl for the bulk of my one-hour stay there. I ended up kiss closing and number closing her.

Saturday December 15, 2012
I had to go to the mall to make an exchange. I approached one girl at the food court who shared that she was an employee there. The conversation did not really go anywhere and she ejected. On the way out I approached a girl who was working in a store. We talked for a while but she was failing my qualifications. The store became so busy she had to go and help customers so I just ejected. I also went out at night with a bunch of friends to bars. I just made small talk with anyone and everyone.

Sunday December 16, 2012
I went to the mall with my wingman for day game and had a horrible experience. The mall was crowded with families and young kids. Most of the sets shared they had boyfriends including the one I post here. Because the mall was crowded it was difficult for me to record my interactions. My best approach was in a store and the girl’s brother came in and it through me off. I was in set with her for twenty-five minutes just to end up giving her my number for whatever reason and ejecting. My wingman and I approached two sets, but they all ended up going nowhere.

Approach
This approach was respectable, but she shared that she had a boyfriend when I tried to set something up with her. It was a fifteen minute interaction that did not lead to anything.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzGjwcqBJtY

Monday December 17, 2012
I managed to make two approaches when picking up something at the store. During the first approach she was creeped out when I opened. We talked, but I did not feel like continuing the conversation by calming her down before beginning to qualify. The second interaction lasted about thirty minutes. I re-listened to the interaction because I thought it went well, but she refused to meet up and lied to me about having a boyfriend. So I listened to the interaction about three times to really try and figure out what I am doing wrong. I also listened to yesterday’s approach and found a pattern. It appears I am not showing intent and am playing it way too safe, especially after I already hooked them in a bit. I am also cutting the girls off or breaking rapport when instead I need to be thinking of how I am going to reward/tease her responses or lead her into a new qualifier after she speaks. The first two minutes or so of my interactions go well and I feel after this point I need to be escalating and being more risky as now she is at least comfortable enough to where I can probably get away with doing or saying whatever I want to truly test her interest. I also need to somehow figure out a way to get her invested in me and instead of sharing information about myself, seeing if I can spark her curiosity and get her to qualify me. I have posted many interactions and I encourage feedback.

Wednesday December 19, 2012
I had to go to the mall to exchange a cardigan. I made quite a few approaches and number closed the two, which I will post here.

Approach #1
I approached her directly from behind. She was very outgoing and a big party girl.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nVy6BGmYtXY

Approach #2
We were both on the escalator and I commented on something she was wearing and proceeded talking to her at the bottom. I actually set up a meet with this one before closing, but who knows when I try to contact her.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_leYXKvSfY

Friday December 20, 2012
I did some day game at the mall with a wingman from the forum. We each did about fifteen approaches and it was probably close to a record for me, but not much success resulted. It was very crowded and I therefore could not record anything. I managed to number close one woman in a store from a direct approach, but with no intent. This was also the first time I approached older women in their thirties and forties and found that they generally give the same reaction, but are more shocked and may need to be calmed down more following a direct opener.

Saturday December 22, 2012
I did some day game at the mall. It was very crowded again from the holidays, which prevented me recording. I number closed one of the workers in which I opened directly. The rest of my approaches had boyfriends and I did about ten approaches in total.

Sunday December 23, 2012
I did some more holiday day game at the mall, as it was extremely crowded. Most of the women were with their friends or mother, but I managed to open quite a few girls. I number closed one which I will post here and it looks like after Christmas the numbers will die down again, which will such because I managed to get a lot of practice done due to the crowded stores the last few days. This is just another reason why I envy those who live in major cities where the numbers are plentiful with respect to mass approaching.

Approach #1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fv-MJ4U_Lo8
This girl had a lot of energy and I had a lot of fun with her. It was a twenty-minute interaction where I set up to see her this weekend for a drink prior to number closing. I did some handholding at the end of the interaction for a couple of minutes and probably could have escalated it a bit further.

Approach #2
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YUTC-9pM4AM
Unfortunately, this interaction was just a bunch of fluff talk like most of my interactions. I just gave her my name for a facebook request and entertained the idea of partying together since after ten minutes she did not really give off any good vibes or demonstrate interest.

Thursday January 03, 2013
I went out at night and managed to meet a girl and isolate her by bouncing her to a different bar. We spent the bulk of the night together. I kiss and number closed and that was pretty much it.

Saturday January 05, 2013
I made one approach at the store, but once she said her mother was coming to find her after about for minutes I panicked and number closed. Dealing with interference is becoming an obstacle for me where an intruder comes into the set. I have so much anxiety about it that I wanted to avoid the appearance of her mother in this situation so I therefore number closed her after only four minutes of interacting. I know if I had more time I could have hooked her as she let me hold her hand for a bit and was friendly. But I certainly need to figure out how to deal with outside interferences of people entering my set.

Sunday January 06, 2013
There have been many times where I have seen a gorgeous girl, but I don’t approach her because she is with a friend or two, but that needs to come to an end. I went to the mall with the goal of approaching two and three sets since I have just about no experience with this via day game. I had one three set go well where I facebook closed and opened the target directly, but it did not record well. I am still unsure how I should be opening big sets, but for now I will just run some trial and error and calibrate based on how the girls react and how difficult the obstacle appears to be. I was anxious about approaching big sets, but after today I feel more comfortable doing it and because I am a decent conversationalist I should be able to have some future success with it. Here are two quick approaches.

Approach #1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uiG2z0TnzL8
After only about a minute, the girl’s mother and sister entered the set. I was really flustered, but managed to be friendly and facebook close. You can hear the mother qualifying me at the end by asking me where I was from. I was surprised at how friendly they were. I may approaching girls with their mother in the future since I need to get better at dealing with obstacles.

Approach #2
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgCeZnEkQ2Y
I opened this walking two set directly (you can actually hear me open in this one as I started recording early). I used the best friends test to make an observation to calm them down They were friendly, but that is probably because they were sixteen! I immediately ejected.

Tuesday January 08, 2013
I stopped at a mall for a short time and did a few approaches. I managed to approach a few two sets and I find these to be a lot easier than I thought. It’s just difficult for me to close or escalate the target. I did not have any success today with respect to number closing, but I had to leave once I began getting in a good social rhythm.

Approach #1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4f4raDl3JCs
This girl was friendly, but informed me right away that she had a boyfriend. I decided not to waste much time in this set and just ejected after some fluff talk.

Approach #2
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=00RqXhl4T0I
This was a two set and I did a pretty good job hooking them in the beginning, but I really did not know where to go with the interaction afterwards. I ejected without closing. I should have showed intent to my target and try to close her just for the experience, but I guess I was too busy being safe and taking it one step at a time.

Wednesday January 09, 2013
Again I went to the mall to open a few two sets. I think I might be better off opening by calling both girls adorable. Now I also learned how I can screen to see if they are interested or not. One of my flaws is that I talk too much so now what I plan to do is dominate the conversation for the first three to five minutes then sort of stop talking and give strong eye contact to see if they will lead the conversation. If they do not then I know they are not interested. In both of these approaches I noticed they did not give off any good vibes and when I decided to try and listen, both sets ejected saying they had to go. So now I need to figure out how I can utilize that first five minutes via minimizing fluff talk and escalating more so I can polarize the girl faster and move on.

Approach #1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3MUuNQ-QqAU
I talked to the obstacle too long and did not focus on my target. I also discussed boring topics and their interest level quickly dissipated to the point where when I decided to stop talking and focus on listening, they ejected.

Approach #2
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uRCaVWeN2IA
I feel like I ruined this approach by not showing intent or escalating my target. The obstacle though was giving me really bad vibes and giving me a sort of evil stare. It was creeping me out. I actually should have tried to isolate the conversation by only talking to my target just to see how what would have happened. This is something I may have to try in the future as I am just beginning to approach big sets during the day.