Went out to O'Neill's again tonight. It was packed.

I brought my flower necklace as it had served me well the past two nights, and yet again it did not disappoint. I met Uzzie in the smoking area, where we chatted a little and I opened a 2-set, pulling out my flower necklace and putting it on myself asking "What do you think of my necklace?" One girl responded with "It's nice." Game on. I was just warming up and had a chat with her. Midway through the conversation I decided fuck it and picked up the pace of the conversation and slowly got myself into the convo state, talking about anything and everything and it all became interesting to me, and therefore to them as well. I peaced out (VP is getting to me) and we went inside.

Inside I gave Uzzie the necklace and told him to open. He opened a 2-set and I stayed by the bar letting him do his thing. He came back and gave it back to me. I got a drink and then we walked to the dance-floor where I opened a girl in a 2-set. She was Italian, call her G, and was there with her friend. I opened with the tap on the shoulder but my hand missed her shoulder, so I just stuck out my hand saying "I wanted to meet you. I missed your shoulder. I wanted to tap it." She introduced herself and so the game began. I chatted and chatted and she began to slowly open up. Our mentality is to STAY IN SET if the lead is warm. Following RSD Alex's advice all you need to fucking do is be there and be normal. So that's what I did. I played around with her for a little bit, telling her we should travel to Vegas and get married by Elvis. She laughed and said she would do it. It turned out she broke up with her bf yesterday and her friend dragged her out to the bar, probably to get drunk and get laid. She seemed perfectly fine and I was making her laugh from time to time. Her friend seemed to like me, and I introduced Uzzie so that he could take over the other girl.

I put my necklace on her and told her it looks good on her. I was doing light kino as she was stiff, and was just creating physical rapport with her. My interaction was Man to Woman so it was all good, there was sexual attraction and she seemed to go with it. She was definitely interested. At one point her friend moved to another spot and she told us to move with her friend, so we did. The band started to play and we watched the band. My game at this pint literally was to just stick around, as I remember some of Alex's Hotseat videos where he does literally nothing but stand with the girl building a deep comfort with her, a "togetherness" as Julien calls it, in which the girl feels like she knows you more than any other guy in the bar. I talk to her from time to time. Then her friend and her go to get drinks. We let them go and stay in our spot. I am certain they will return as she is interested and has invested, plus she's wearing my necklace. Time passes and I'm just enjoying the band with Uzzie, and at this point I'm thinking why are they not returning? Lo and behold though, they do, and they're coming back to us. They stand in front of us and then after a song I tell Uzzie we have to bounce them to the smoking area. He agrees, and so I ask my girl whether they want to join us upstairs. She nods and consults her friend, and they come with us.

I lead the group to the smoking area and her friend, Uzzie and I smoke. She doesn't. I tell Uzzie we have to "restart" the set meaning that we have to get it going again as it kind of died down. I start to talk to my chick, and my mind gets into state again, and I make her laugh so much she begins to cry, literally, wiping tears out of her eyes. Anyway I finish my cigarette and the plan is to bounce them back to the bar. We go down and head to the bar where Uzzie and I get a drink. Uzzie tells me we should get them to sit down with us somewhere, and I agree. At that point some PUA dude (they're so easy to spot, wearing their stupid necklaces and shit) approaches my girl's friend, and she gets creeped out. I remain calm and see the girls are in distress. I take over and tell him he's got a nice shirt, and I like his necklace. He asks my name and then my girl's friend runs to my other side and the dude walks away. We grab our drinks and I tell them we should go downstairs to sit down somewhere. They say yes and I lead them out of the room to the staircase.

Now here's where the set started to break, and I'm not exactly sure why. It wasn't because of anything I or Uzzie did. I am literally half way down the stairs and my girl and Uzzie are behind me, but her friend is talking to some dude. My girl goes back up and I wait. Uzzie tells me I should grab them and lead. So I go up but before I can grab her they're walking back up to the smoking area, but they're actually going to the toilet together. We fucking wait for them for like 5 minutes and we know they're definitely having a chat about something. They come back out and we resume the set.

I lead down but they stay on the 2nd floor. I run back up and tap G telling her to come down, but her friend says she doesn't like downstairs, she wants to stay here. My girl asks if I want to stay here and I go inside with them (at this point "neediness" doesn't exist anymore. You stay in set. We were a good half hour into the set or so). I ask G if everything is OK with her friend and she says she doesn't know. We go to her friend who is at the bar and then suddenly two of their guy friends who have just come into the bar tap G on the shoulder. She tells me that these are their friends and they'll be spending the night with them. I say OK and she asks if I have Facebook. I say I don't but that she should give me her English number. She does and I call her, saying I'll text her. We kiss on the cheek goodbye. She still wore my necklace which I let her as it might give her something to remember me by. I'll buy a new one in the next few days as they are invaluable.


Anyway Uzzie and I go out and walk around London a little bit. We then reenter O'Neill's and I open a girl in a costume asking her whether it's her birthday. She says it is. I say I can tell because I can read her mind. I put my arm around her wishing her a happy birthday and telling her we should birthday kiss. I go for the makeout but she give me the cheek (really the corner of the mouth but whatever), and I say we should have a proper birthday kiss, but she won't comply. She's also quite drunk so I don't know why she's not complying, bitch. Anyway, I spin her around twice and tell her this is where I leave.

I open another set upstairs telling her I like her coat, but I don't pursue it. Later on I open a two-set telling them they look like they're having the most fun in the entire bar (credit to Roosh V), and it opens. I game them a little bit. They're French. I say some shit in French, the little that I know and they laugh. I talk to the other girl in the two-set. Blablabla more French and English and Spanish. I tell her I need French classes, and ask her if she needs Spanish classes. She says no. They start talking and dancing with each other, beginning to ignore me, but I won't be ignored. I hug them both and the one on the left backs away. I tell them that this is where I now leave.

After that I was done for the night.


Notes: Staying in set is nice. However I realized there are two types of game, if not more. One is where you don't do many approaches but stay in set for long, something along the lines of RSD Alex, and the other is the Approach Game, where your only target is to approach more and more and more, and faster and faster and faster, something along the lines of Tyler and Julien. The second way is what gets you into state, as you can only really be in state for approaching. You can't really be in state for gaming one girl, as gaming one girl requires patience, calmness, relaxation, but also fun and excitement. It requires leading and dominance, but also vulnerability and honesty. I need to focus on Approach Game, as I haven't felt in state in a while. Basically all this time I've been gaming out of state, grinding out my game, working at it. It's helped a shitload. I've begun to notice patterns and begun to notice a "structure" per se that I cannot describe but is more emotional, really.

Approach Game has the benefits of getting you to subconsciously game well as your only target is to approach the next set, even when you're in set, you're naturally willing to walk away and there is zero neediness for the girl. It requires a lot of focus on your one target, which is to approach the next set quickly.

O'Neill's tonight and it was fucking dead. Some sets here and there. I opened 4-5 sets as soon as I came in with a high five to amp up my approach state, and after that I approached this lone girl with "You look really lost." Game on. I asked her who she was here with and she said some guy. Then the dude pops in and we introduce each other. I ask her how they met and she said they met on the streets. Immediately I'm thinking this guy is a PUA but such a chode, like SUCH a chode, seriously! This girl is smiling at me and completely into me, and I ask her if they are on a date, and she gives me a sort of awkward look as if she doesn't really know.

I bounce and then keep bumping into her from time to time and she keeps giving me looks and huge smiles, and Uzzie tells me she's completely into me and if the guy weren't there it would be completely on.

Anyway I bump into her again later as she's alone AGAIN. Small talk ensues and then we find out how old we are. She guesses my age (22 - actually 21 going onto 22) and I ask her if she's also 22 even though she's clearly older. She says she's 29 and I switch subject as she looks like she feels insecure about that. Anyway she goes to find the dude.

Uzzie and I leave the place as the place is fucking dead anyway and we decide to wait until the bar closes so I can get her number outside. We walk around and then when the bar closes we see them walking out, fast. They're trying to catch the last train.

We follow like the stalkers we are. However they walk fast and we're tired and can't be bothered to follow up. However they stop at that station and so we bump into them again. I reopen with "Hey" and again she gives me a huge smile. I make small talk about where they're going and the word "afterparty" is mentioned. I say there may be one at my place but it's far. The dude asks if they can join and I really don't want them to come with me all the way to my place which is 1 hour away as I am not that invested in her, and the dude is a complete loser. They say we should tell them when we have another one and I see this as my opportunity. I casually ask for both their numbers and ask for hers first. She starts to give me the number, but at the end the dude says "That's my number" and she smiles. At this point I say nono, I'll save that as his, now what's yours? But she won't give it to me and the chode says they use the same number and that I should call him giving me a wink. Ffs what a loser. I end up not getting the number, however there may still be a chance that it IS hers and the dude just tried to scare me off. We'll see when I text a flirtatious message tomorrow if I get a gay reply or a feminine one

Apart from that in the bar I did another approach in the smoking area where a girl was standing by herself and I opened with the same "You look lost. As if you're trying to find your magic unicorn in the land of Astaros." She laughs. I keep talking about unicorns and ask her what her favorite animal is, at which point her boyfriend enters the set. He's a cool dude though and we chat. He even offers me a cigarette, which I decline. I end the set and tell them we might see them inside.

Pretty fucking stupid night to be honest. Did a bit of approach game, building my state at the beginning of the night which I will do from here onwards.

Notes: Doing approach game at the beginning helps annihilate AA, and leaves you open to approach. Also I used the mindset tonight of owning the bar, being free in the environment. This really helps if you feel like the place is yours, so you can do anything in the place and you are not restricted, you are unstifled. I got this from J, in a field report a while back, who told us you have to be free in the environment. This is so true. You have to give yourself permission to do whatever you want. The idea is that if someone else was with you who was approaching constantly, not giving a fuck, some part of your brain goes, "That's OK to do. That's normal." And you follow his lead and approach as well. You're part of his reality in a way. Well you can do that for yourself as well. You be that guy that is free, that approaches, and you will follow yourself. You become the follower of yourself in a way, if that makes sense. You give yourself permission by becoming that loud obnoxiously free guy.

DAY 2 with a girl I number closed whilst on a DATE.

I am travelling to Kent tomorrow for a film production for 10 days, so didn't go out tonight, however I thought it would be awesome if I got laid tonight. My friend was passing around a joint and I had a little high on, feeling really chilled.

I texted that number I got two nights before when I number closed a chick who was out with a guy that night. I number closed right in front of his face and he said "That's my number." trying to scare me off. I wasn't sure if she'd given me the right one but I decided fuck it I'll text her.


This is out text convo:

Last night

ME: "Afterparty tonight!"

Next day (today)

HER: "Sorry I was dead sleep last night "
ME: No worries. How did your "Date" go?"
HER: Not really a date. I'm only into friendship, not relationship, but great fun thought
ME: Nice. What crazy stuff have you been up to over the weekend?
HER: I've been to a black metal gig haha
HER: How about u
ME: I went out to Koko in Camden to watch an indie band with my friends. Come out for a drink with me tonight.
HER: Where about r u goin tonight?
ME: Grab a drink with me at baker street
HER: What time u goin?
ME: 10.30
HER: Ok
ME: Meet me by the station.
HER: Ok

At this point I'm thinking damn this girl wants it. I'm getting laid tonight. OR it's the guy and he's toying with me, OR she's just playing. But I say fuck it and shave and put on that deoderant and get out of the fucking house, a little high.

I arrive at the station, and sure enough she's there, talking to two large dudes. I walk up to her relaxed and we shake hands, and pull her in. She's got a huge smile on her face and she's got bambi eyes. She's also coming in really close to me. We kiss on the cheeks and I start talking to the guys she's talking to. At first I think these are her brothers or something and they're here to beat me up for meeting her...nope. They're just some kurdish dudes and I just fucking own the convo. Anyway we say bye and I lead the way. I have my arm around her within a minute as I notice it's on between us. She's leaning in, very couple like behavior.

I tell her we're going the wrong way and steer us in the other direction. She's very small so she has to look up at me, and every time she does it's like she's begging to get kissed. I lead the way and after about 10 minutes of making her laugh a lot I realize we're going the wrong way. I then kiss her, and she kisses back, but pulls away. Immediately I say "This is bad, we shouldn't do this." She says the same, smiling, begging to get kissed again. She asks whether I always kiss so early in the date, and I say yeah, I do it with everyone, even my guy friends as a greeting. She laughs and calls me gay, and I say I'm really gay. She laughs more.

We come up to the tube station and I think I could pull her back to mine. My place is far but I can make it seem near as the train runs from nearby and will take around 20 minutes to get there. I say I know a cool bar with an open mic and it's only a few stations away (ha!). She says let's go and I lead her into the tube.

We're in the train, make the change into another line, and are now on our way back to my area. We talk a lot on the tube and I make her forget how much time we're spending on it. I have my arm around her the entire time. Make her laugh, talk shit, little high, etc. I'm laughing like the entire time and our eye contact is deep and seductive. She keeps smiling at me. She wants to get fucked right here.

Anyway at the last few stops she keeps saying "Is this it? Where are we?" and I say it's only two more stations, only two more stations, the next station. At my station she gets a little worried and asks where she is and I say I can show her on google maps. Anyway I'm about to but we get up and go out and I don't show it to her.

We walk to the bar, halting for cigarettes along the way. We get to the bar and grab a drink. This is where she starts to reciprocate my physicality, putting her arm around my back. I start to kiss her again, and she's getting more and more comfortable with it. We grab beers and sit down. We chat some more, getting to know each other. Our positions our slightly awkward but there is always a point in the interaction where I can touch a girl and keep it there, and I end up touching her by making a point and then leave my hand on her back. I use this position to pull her in sometimes and make out with her some more. I keep saying that it's bad and that we shouldn't and smile, and she calls me out on it saying I always say that and then kiss her again. I say we should just eskimo kiss, and it's all in good fun.

I say let's go outside to smoke (I don't smoke, only occasionally when I feel it's beneficial to an interaction), and we go outside and she has a smoke. I wrap her arms around me in the warmth of the heater outside, and I start to dance with her. We make out more here and there somewhat, and our couple like behavior becomes solidified. I start kissing her neck and she begins to moan with people around us. She's getting turned on like crazy. I try to seed the pull at this point. I start talking about my sci-fi movie and how I want to show it to her, and she says she would like to see it. I say I want to show her now, and that it's on my laptop. She then says she can't go home with me as she doesn't know me well enough yet and it takes time for her to trust people. I tell her I'm not having sex with her tonight, but she doesn't believe me haha, and I try to somehow say I don't have sex on the first date. But it's a no-go.

Anyway at this point I think fuck it I'm just going to enjoy spending time with her. We go back inside, chill some more, she's in my arms the entire time, we're hand holding and caressing, and then we leave the bar. We walk back and I take her to the bus station. She tells me the guy that saw me get her number got really pissed when she gave it to me, which is why he said it's his and tried to scare me off. She said he bought her drinks all night and got pissed when she just gave me her number (haha what a fucking chode!). I laugh a little. We go to the bus station and wait for the bus.

She asks me whether I do this all the time, meet girls. I say no. And then I say actually yeah I do, that I've met 400 girls this week and that she's 401. She laughs. Then she asks if I'm serious. And I say no. She's 402. She laughs some more.

I ask her whether she wants to take a walk (alleyway pull!) but she's tired. I tell her I just want to spend more time with her. Throughout the date we made plans to meet again on several occasions for several different things. Anyway her bus comes and I kiss her goodbye. She gives me a hug and I kiss her neck again, a preview for next time. We kiss again and she gets in the bus and I walk off without looking back.


NOTES: Be more aggressive for the pull. TELL her to come with you. I led pretty well from Baker street to my place. I have a reference experience doing that now and can now do it more often. Once in my area I have to just fucking lead to my place, maybe find another route to go to my place, or just pull to my place directly. PULL PULL PULL. Don't ask, just lead.

Also saying the line "I can't have sex with you tonight" has to be used BEFORE she mentions anything in order to work. It has to come from you, not as a response to her token resistance.

Congrats on robbing that fool. I read your post previous to this one when you first met the chick. I like how he asked if he could go with you to the afterparty. You played it perfectly though, and getting both of their numbers gave you plausible deniability.

It sounds like you did a pretty good job of burning the exits so to speak, before trying to pull. If your game is tight and she still refuses to go home with you, then be satisfied knowing that she isn't that easy. I don't know about you, but it is way more satisfying getting with girls who don't spread their legs on a first date. You will usually get a lot more investment out of girls who don't immediately put out as well.

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Went out to Koko last night after 10 days' abscence.

Thought I'd self amuse. Spent the entire time in the club just fooling around doing stupid shit. I have a headtorch that I got for my film production and it has a flickering light mode, so I put that on my head and went around the dancefloor with that thing on my head just fooling around, got opened by a few sets. J was there, Uzzie was there, and a bunch of others as well. I was opening here and there, got a few close makouts. I approach a girl standing by herself by the banister telling her she looks bored. I mess around with her pass all her shit tests. She's a little older than me and she asks me how old I am. I say I'm too young for her and that my parents would never approve. She laughs and looks astonished. I tell her she's too old for me and you can see the spark in her eyes grow larger and larger. I ask her her age and she replies 52, obviously messing. I say she's one year too old for me and that girls over 51 lose their pang. Anyway her friend comes in and I tell her nothing is going to happen because I'm too young for her friend. I.leave the set saying I still want to marry her but that I have to go bow. I tell her to kiss my cheek abd she does and I give her a smooch in hers. I leave.

Later at around 1.50 or so we were standing in circle opening sets left and right really.

I opened a walking set, she was Indian and an 8, just turned 18 too. I tapped her said hi and held out my hand, she grabbed it and I pulled her in. It was on. We hugged and I told her she gives the best cuddles. she laughed. We talked back and forth very close to each other. They were both leaving, but I told her to dance with me for 2 minutes right here before they leave. We did a little, my leg in between hers rubbing her pussy. Uzzie told me to go for the make-out, so I did. We madeout. J took on the other girl, and it was going well as well. I told J we need to pull. I kept saying "Pizza, I'm hungry, come with us for a slice." We were still stood there, then J told me to start physically leading. So I did.

I led them up the stairs and to the cloakroom. She said she needed to grab her coat, so I said she should give me her number in case I lost her. She promised me she would return. I went to get my coat, and sure enough they came back and we pulled them out of the club. We walked, and at this point I tried to communicate with J about logistics. Our logistics were shit, we both lived far, as did they. One of our wings had a place right here but wouldn't give us the keys, which would have really saved it all. It was on with J's girl, and it was on with mine. At some points during the interaction my girl whispered into her friend's ear, probably telling her she's DTF. They giggled. I kept saying I'm gay as in the beginning of the interaction she gave me the classic "She's my girlfriend" so I told her J is my boyfriend and I'm actually gay. So I kept returning to the joke.

Anyway we go to a Pizza place. There is a girl and a guy sitting by one of the table inside the pizza place, and the girls know them. J knows the guy. My girl buys pizza as I say I have no cash (LOL) and the guy who knows J also knows he's a PUA instructor. He tells his gf sitting opposite him, and she in turn tells J's girl. J's girl turns off at this point. My girl is still down, but it's an incredibly difficult pull from here. We stay in there for like 15-20 minutes, way too long. J opens another girl sitting by herself. Anyway we leave and J's girl is giving him hella attitude at this point since she knows he's an instructor, calling him a misogynist and shit. J also called the girl in the pizzeria place with her bf a slut in front of everyone. The set begins to die as we walk along, they search for a cab. We try a few last minute saves, like the yad stop that J told me to do, and he tries to share a cab with the girls but they say they don't think so. They walk off and that's the end of the set.

Fucked up that that dude your wing knows ratted to his girl that he's a PUA instructor. Sounds like that shit blew you guys out. I would've been pissed.

SUNDAY 6th April

Had a Day 3 with the girl I robbed off some dude some time ago.

I met her at Camden and she was 30 minutes late. I was literally about to leave and said one more minute, and pulled out my phone to time the minute. She arrived within the minute and I thought fuck it, let's see what'll happen. Again she was physically compliant, and this time a little quicker with the reciprocation, putting her arm around my waist as I had mine over her shoulders.

We go to a blues bar, and watch a live band play some blues. I grab a beer and come back to her. We are always close to kissing, but again she give me the whole "We shouldn't" with a big smile thing. No worries, I kiss her neck and am always holding her like she's my girlfriend.

We go outside for a smoke, talk a little more, she tells me she has a job interview tomorrow, and I tell her I'm leaving on Wednesday to Vienna for three weeks. I play around, she tells me I'm the youngest guy she's ever been out with, and we talk about past relationships. I'm pretty sure this chick has fucked a ton of guys, like 20-30. When she asked me how many I've had, I said something like 400 or so, but when I asked her she said 20-35 with a laugh that was half joking but also half serious lol. I tell her she's too old for me and her eyes widen and she laughs.

Anyway, we talk more, go back inside, and as we're watching the band I plant a kiss on her bare teeth, as she's always smiling. She doesn't reciprocate, but it's cool, she's compliant. Later on we talk some more, I make her laugh, and we kiss again, this time she kisses back a little.

She says she has to leave soon to be able to get up early tomorrow for her interview, I don't really give a shit, wasn't planning to pull anyway, and we end up going back to the tube station. Inside the station on the escalators I kiss her some more, escalating a little myself.

We end up taking the same train, too, but I get off a few stops earlier than she does. We kiss goodbye and she wishes me a good trip.

NOTES: Not much to say. Bitches be late. I don't like it when bitches are late.


MONDAY 7th April

Had a Day 3 with Polish girl yesterday.

I kept trying to make plans with her and she always seemed enthusiastic but ended up cancelling on the day because of work reasons. Anyway, I told her to meet me on Sunday, but she moved in to Monday (Yesterday). We met up in Covent garden and she was really stiff. I was also not in the zone so a lot of the time we ended up walking in silence. She took me to a frozen yoghurt place where we sat and ate it and talked. I just remained calm and she ended up doing most of the talking. We were both getting warmed up.

After that we decide to go to a pub and fetch some beers. We walked to a pub and take a seat and start to drink. As we drink we open up more and get a slight buzz. Suddenly there is a free flow of conversation. Every time we pull up to the bar we're in a good mood, the bartender likes us, too. Back at our seats we spit back and forth and kino commences once again. The bartender comes over and offers us a serving of french fries that someone else forgot to take. I ask if they're free, and he says of course. So I end up taking them and annihilating them.

We talk more, order another beer, and I then tell her we should watch a bad movie and get drunk. She says that's a great idea.

We end up going out the pub and I ask her if she still wants to watch a bad movie. She says yes. We walk and it's raining very lightly, and she wants to light a cigarette, walking into a phone booth and lighting it. I follow her inside and she offers me a cig. I accept and now we're both smoking inside a public phonebooth in Central London. I get close to her and she asks me whether I want red lipstick all over me. I say go on, and kiss her. We make out inside the booth. I tell her to give me a red hickey on the neck. She does.

We finishes our cigs go to the tube, catch the train to her place. In her area we go to a local shop and buy a bottle of wine.

Skip ahead, we arrive at her place, and she introduces me to her incredibly hot SPAM. I wanted to trade - she was lithuanian, blonde, petite, wearing extremely short pink pajama pants which let her bare, shaven legs stand out. She had a cute ass and great tits - I was in love. Anyway, we smoke with her and go to my girl's room. We put on the movie, sat on her bed with the laptop, and started drinking.

At this point I had my arm around her and the moment to escalate wasn't coming. She was as stiff as a rock and when I tried to pull her in she wouldn't. There were many moments that could have been great to begin the escalation, but I didn't do it for some reason. I felt like I would have to use too much force, like she would instantly back off. She gave off a vibe that she really didn't want it. Even our kiss in the phonebooth was quick, and after that we were back to normal. It felt the same here. At one point I went for the makeout again, and we did for a bit, but she stopped it, turning her head away and looking at more pictures on her laptop.

She drank more and more, and I only a little. She was really drunk towards the end of the movie and passed out on my shoulder. I thought fuck it, turned off her laptop and went to sleep.

The next morning I awoke several times as I didn't get great sleep. Finally I decided to get up, put on my shoes and was ready to leave. However I still needed to take a shit. So I did. After an amazing morning dump she took me down the stairs, she hungover as fuck, and we hugged goodbye.

I walked to the shop, got breakfast, and took the tube home.


NOTES: Probably should have been more forceful with her. That statement in itself sounds rapey, but I should have just gone for it, not giving a fuck, and let her give me resistance. From now on only go back to girls' places or your place to FUCK, not watch a movie, not get drunk. TO FUCK. She's there for it, you're there for it, DO IT.

You did what I did last week! You should have remembered the trap I fell into and avoided it.

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Back in Vienna now. Went to Passage last night, a pretty "high end" club, at least you have to dress well to get in. Entry was 2€ before 11 so we arrived just on time. I have another wing here in Vienna who's also good and motivated. let's call him Jonny. Jonny's been working on his game by himself while I was gone in London, and now we're partying it up again.

We go in and self amusement is the code. Boom I don't even give a shit, I'm just making myself comfortable in the club. We order 2 tap waters (LOL) and then go back to our sofa and catch up a bit. I tell him about my future plans with PU, that I want to instruct at some point, and that I have improved overall. He says he's improved too.

Alright game time. We stand up and make our way through the crowd. He approaches a couple sets, and I approach a couple. I see a 2 set dancing on the dance floor (the club isn't full yet, but there are quite a few people in there already), and just walk up to them, dancing, water in my hand, and hug them both. I can't remember my opener, but probably something like "You guys are fun!" and as I'm hugging both of them, the girl on the right puts her hand around my lower back, whilst the other keeps her distance slightly. I start talking to the distant one, wearing red and glasses, and tell her her friend is more fun than she is. I ask where she's from, she says Austria, and that she should guess where I'm from. She guesses wrong and I say India (I'm half Indian), and that we should travel to India tomorrow. She says yes and then I switch to the other and say she could come with us. She says yes too. I say "Let's go to India then" and grab the distant girl with my arm over the shoulder, now both of them under my arms, and start walking like the pimp that I am. I tell the distant one to ride an elephant with me, and she says she would rather just meet people. I switch to the other one and ask her if she wants to ride an elephant with me, and she says yes. I say alright let's go ride an elephant, and tell the distant girl we're gonna go ride an elephant now, and I unhook her and take my girl away. We're walking to the sofas Jonny and I occupied, and I tell her we should also ride tigers. We arrive at the sofas, and she's still under my arm and I go in for the kiss. We makeout, and I continue talking, makeout some more, then I sit down and drag her down with me. She's on top of me, and I begin to finger her from the outside of her panties. I stop, look at her tits, then make out some more. I tell her to sit down, but she says she has to go back to her friends. I grab her number for later so we can "eat pizza" together, and she gives it to me and we kiss goodbye.


After that Jonny was opening a few sets as was I but for some reason I didn't isolate the chicks, maybe cause I felt the time wasn't right or something. Jonny's sets weren't hooking as well as mine, just because he wasn't having as much fun as I was having. I opened this really cute and hot girl with glasses, about my height, just how I like 'em. She's skeptical at first but I don't care, I just continue talking and laughing and dancing in front of her and touching her, and she's hooked. Very submissive behavior like tilting her head and showing her neck, leaning in, playing along with me, etc. But Jonny's girl isn't really hooking. Her other friend comes in and now I'm handling two girls. At one point I decide it is best to leave and tell Jonny what he's doing wrong.

He's got PU down, but the one thing that's stopping him from great success is he's not self amusing. I had the "click" point last Saturday, where I hadn't gamed for 10 days and then thought you know what fuck it, I just want to self amuse. So much is out of my control, out of your control, that all that's left at this point is to self amuse. If you're going to get something or nothing, might as well self amuse along the way. The night can go great with you getting something, or the night can go with you getting nothing, but might as well self amuse. All you have to do is find a girl who likes you and who's logistics are right, and that path can be quick or it can take a while, so get ready to self amuse. It rids you of all validation seeking behavior, because that only ends badly anyway.

I gave him a small lecture about self amusement, and how he's paid his dues, he's been going out for a few months, sometimes 5-6 nights a week, breaking game down to its elements, and now all that's left is fun. He's got a few reference experiences and so he should now trust himself that he'll know what to do in the moment, by instinct, and that he should let go of trying and start consciously enjoying himself. Focusing on himself. He took my advice and we started to dance on the dancefloor like maniacs, and he was in his own little world which was good to see. Remember no alcohol involved in this.

He opens a girl on the dancefloor, and she's receptive, but he doesn't take it anywhere. I open her as well, and begin to get physical with her, dance with her stupidly, then pull her in and talk to her, can't remember what I said exactly, then push her away and pull her back in. I try to then get some alone time with her, but she's here with a group of friends. I acknowledge her friends and ask who she's with, she points at her circle, blabla. I should have persisted and isolated, but I didn't. I went back to Jonny to dance some more.

Later on we're walking around and we get approached by two girls we already approached, this time they're with 5-6 other friends. They introduce us and I start talking to this one girl with glasses and tell her she's got nice glasses. Talk some shit and self amuse, then I look at her nails and say they're purple. She says no they're brown red, and then I can't think of anything else to say so I point at my blue shirt and say that my shirt is blue. I point at my shoes and say they're brown as is my belt. I know my style. Anyway her friends pull her away as they can see she is in danger of getting fucked.

After that my state drops. I have this problem. I've been able to keep my state up longer and longer, but at one point my state just goes down, my mood lowers, my energy levels drop and I don't feel like gaming anymore. At this point I literally cannot game because I don't want to. My motivation goes. Also I needed to take a shit all night long, but didn't want to use the club toilets. I was feeling really uncomfortable. I text the chick from earlier in german and she replies telling me my german is better than she expected. I ask her if she's still in the club, but she's left. At this point (around 1.30am) I don't really want to game anymore. Jonny is still up for it, but I need fresh air and we go outside and take a walk and just talk about our game and shit. I want to do infield footage because I think some of the shit I say and do to girls is golden.

NOTES: Anyway I call it a night at 2am even though the club closes at 4-5am, so the front door rule is not taken advantage of tonight. I somehow need to work on my energy levels, my mood, keeping up the fun, keep approaching. My approaches went down as the night progressed, maybe because I thought I should have had something by now (which I did at the very beginning anyway), but that faded. More I am awesome and I am having fun. More aggressiveness, more isolation, more pulling. Also if the club is relatively small like this one, I find it harder later on to approach as I feel like I've already approached some of the girls here and that hinders me. I have to not give a fuck about that. Keep up the fun and keep approaching and reapproaching.

Went to an Aussie bar last night. Wasn't planning to do any game, as it was my friend's birthday, and we were all out as a group to just hangout and get drunk.

The night went on and I got quite drunk. Very close to the end of the night this one girl passes by and I start chatting to her by saying some stupid shit trying to hide my drunkenness. It seems to work and I capture her and the guy's attention. I start talking in English, and they're Austrian, hiding my knowledge of the German language.

After some time I start speaking in German and catch them off guard, lol. They laugh and I ask how they know each other, are they a couple, brother sister...turns out they are brother sister and I ask them how awkward they felt when I asked if they were a couple. Believe it or not as drunk as I was I had a plan. To stay in set long enough until the guy leaves so I can talk to her alone. There was no way I was gonna be able to isolate her by saying let's go outside or go over there. And sure enough he leaves, and we chat some more. Some other friend of hers sees her and she walks over to her and her brother again, and I follow.

My friend comes up to me seeing that I'm gaming and tells me I should give him my coat number for the cloakroom so he can pick up my coat for me as he sees I'm busy I say it's ok and tell her I have to go. We kiss on the cheeks and I tell her we should meet up some time for a coffee. She says she doesn't give her number to strangers. I say neither do I. Then I say I'm gay. Her eyes widen. And I say I'm not actually gay. But I am...but not really. She asks whether I am and I say I don't know what I am. I hand her my phone where I have typed her name in already. She gives me her number and then erases her name and types in her name - lol I put in the wrong name. Whatever. I say goodbye and leave.

First and only set last night. Pretty good haha, I was persistent, stayed in set until the guy left, and handled her shit test when I asked for her number. This is I think the second girl whose number I have gotten right in front of her brother.

I woke up with absolutely no hangover today which was surprising. I was only tired.

I texted the girl from last night but no answer. My grandfather came over today as a belated birthday visit, so he stayed until around 3PM or so.

Later on I went to the Shack (that Aussie bar from last night) again, with my wing and another guy. We wanted to get some infield footage today but the camera battery was dead. It's a shame because some of the shit I said to girls tonight was priceless.

We walk into the bar and give our coats in. After that I make my way with Jonny to the smoking area and I open a girl in a 2 set. I take one girl, Jonny takes the other. I comment on her head band and tell her I like it and that I think she looks like Jack Sparrow. She says thanks and that's it. She is non-receptive at first. So I induce RAMBLING motherfucker! I talk about literally stupid shit. I tell her I watched Pirates of the Caribbean as a kid, and that she looked like Penelope Cruz from the fourth film which was actually fucking horrible. She just nods and I continue talking and talking and talking about stupid shit. I make up some shit, and I talk about movies.

Sure enough I hit the Hook Point. Boom. It's that simple guys. I have to record this shit one night in order for this to be completely clear. If a girl isn't giving you signals in the beginning, just TALK. And what do you talk about? Make shit up, shit that amuses you.

We start talking and I start the escalation slowly. I stay in set for around 20-30 minutes, and by then she is hooked. Her friends leave her and me alone (Jonny's girl had a bf), and we sit there on the pool table. By now she knows literally nothing about me, but the familiarity I have built with her is strong. She says she knows this guy that she has a crush on, and that she wants to go to the gym tomorrow to meet him so that he can take her out. I say I am meeting a girl in the zoo tomorrow, and I list every possible animal I can think of, messing with her. I tell her we should fly to Australia tomorrow. Then say we should fly to Brussels tomorrow. And that we should then fly to London tomorrow. I keep pulling her in by her neck and talk into her ear. I keep telling her "You, me, tomorrow, LET'S DO IT," using Ross Jeffries techniques for the first time. I also ask her sincere questions like where she grew up, why she came to Vienna, etc. to set the tone that I can also be serious, but 90% of the interaction was purely a joke, a lie, a game.

I tell her she should meet me tomorrow for real, and she says no, she's meeting that guy. I say that I'm gay. She laughs. She says I can give her my number and I say she's not gonna text me. I distract her logical mind by talking about bullshit and pull out my phone. I ask again, and she pulls out her phone and tells me to type it in. I do. Then I press the call button and give myself a missed call from her. She slaps my chest laughing and saying she won't answer. I'm like that's cool. We talk some more, chill.

Towards the end her friends are leaving and she says she has to go. I hug her goodbye and she yells she has a boyfriend for 5 years. I yell back I'm gay. She leaves.

I go back to Jonny and our other wing. They're both in set. The other wing isn't really talking to his girl so I start talking to her and messing with her as well. I talk about random bullshit, say that I'm from India, and then sing her dubstep songs into her ear. I don't care about this girl, I'm just winging Jonny. Anyway it dies and I tell the other wing to come approach some sets with me. We walk and go to the dancefloor, but nothing here. I half-heartedly open one girl, but she's fugly.

I walk back to the main bar and open a 2 set by stretching out my hand. The first girl shakes my hand, and I stretch out my other hand to the other girl. She takes it. I ask them who they are. We exchange names. I then say they're from Spain. They shake their heads. I say Italy. Shake heads. I ask where they're from. They say Greece. I tell them I would have never guessed that they're from Greece. There's more stupid talk. I say I'm from Afghanistan, etc. Anyway the set dies and they're not giving much to work with from the start. I approach another set, this time American. The girl I talk to is nice, but the set dies quickly.

I go to the smoking area and Jonny's talking to some girls. I go up to him and say hi, and the set immediately flees. Kinda ruined the set for him by literally just walking up and saying hi. Anyway, I go back to the other wing. Jonny comes over and we talk about how the night's going.

A drunk blonde walks past and gives us eye contact. Our wing tells us she is wasted. Jonny taps her on the shoulder and she turns and he just continues talking to us, lol. Anyway she walks past us and I say hi and stretch out my hand. I immediately pull her in and am close with her. I swing her arms up around my neck and we're close, talking about stupid shit. I tell her to give me a goodbye kiss, but she doesn't comply. She goes to leave but I grab hold of her hand and just hold her in place. I tell her to come back. She does. Again I'm close. I go for the kiss again, but she backs away. I change topic, talk more shit and go for the kiss yet again, but nothing. She wants to leave and I grab her hand again and ask M&M's or Skittles? She says M&M's. I ask if she likes the nutty flavor. She says yeah she does. I tell her to dance with me for four seconds. She does. I talk more and inch us closer to the wall so she's slightly trapped, and I'm on her. I go for the kiss yet again, but she backs away, saying I'm really cute but she can't and that she has to find her friends. I tell her to come to an afterparty with me. She says she can't she needs to find her friend. I say she should text her friends and tell them she went home. She thinks for a second then says no. I should have just led her out of the club. I'm pretty sure the fact that Jonny and the other wing were just observing us also made her feel the social pressure. Anyway I let her go and she walks off.

By this time it's almost closing time. Jonny says we should do a few last quick opens for fun, and I say OK. We go to the dancefloor, and there's almost nothing. As I walk back to Jonny and our wing, a girl with a flower in her hair walks past. I tap her on the shoulder and tell her I like her flower. She's receptive and says thank you. She's also drunk. Perfect. I swing her arm around my neck and talk a little. I tell her I want to dance with her for a few seconds. We do and then I tell her I just want to cuddle her and that she is a great cuddler. She hugs harder, and I've got my arm around her neck and go for the kiss. She's receptive and I K-close. After the K-close I let her go. Maybe I should have just gone for the pull there. I'm pretty sure I should have.

Anyway after that I decide to get my coat to leave with Jonny and our wing. The coat check girl is drunk and I tell her she looks really happy. She says she is. I build rapport with her, high five her. She comes in real close, but I don't go in for the kiss for some reason. Anyway she gets my coat and I go to Jonny and our wing and we leave the bar. After that we call it a night. Jonny still wants to go to another club to hang around the front door and catch chicks walking out the club, but it's quite far and I am quite dead from the night before still. I call it a night and walk to the tube station with the other wing and yet another PUA dude. I say goodbye and head on home.


NOTES: Should have gone for the pull with the chick I k-closed, immediately. I thought she didn't want anymore as she went to leave me after the k-close, and so I let her go. But then she just stood there as I saw in the corner of my eye, lost, like a little puppy. I should have just grabbed her after the k-close and led her outside.

Go for the fucking pull next time and always.

I texted the girl from yesterday, let's call her Julie. She's Italian. After our stupid 30 minute conversation yesterday, and after telling me she has a boyfriend of five years and me telling her I'm gay, and constantly telling her we should fly to Australia and Brussels and India, I texted her the following:









I grabbed a banana and got ready to leave and I had an anxious feeling in my stomach as I always do. It's just my stomach telling me that this shit will go well.

I start to run to the station to get my blood pumping and wake myself up. It works, and I decide I will do it again before I meet her at the station.

Sure enough I was at Westbahnhof at 9.25 and I followed through with my run. I went to another part of the street and ran fast for like half a minute, got my blood pumping, and starting saying stupid shit to get myself amused haha. It was funny. It was just me talking to myself and humming to myself. People must have thought I'm crazy. And then I thought how crazy this girl must be to want to meet up with someone who talks to himself out loud. LOL.

Anyway she arrives 10 minutes late, no biggie. The first thing I say to her is "I'm back from Australia!" and hug her and we kiss on the cheeks. She's wearing a hat and I comment on it. She seems really tired so I call her out on it. She says yeah she's just been to the gym, and I feel up her muscles, she plays along. She's comfortable with me touching her. I grab her hat and put it on my head, then ask her what she thinks. She says it's OK. Not giving me much here, but I just keep talking shit. I ask her how her day was and she tells me the usual fluff. She asks where we're going and I say I just want to grab a drink somewhere down the road. Truth is I don't know where I'm going yet, but there are bars here.

We come across a popular pool place, and I just lead her in. I decide we will play pool now, whether she likes it or not. We go up and she says "We're playing?! No I can't, I'm really bad!" I say whatever and ask for a table, cues and balls. We get drinks and walk to the table.

At the table she keeps saying how she can't play, and I'm like whatever and set up the table. I start the round, and when it's her turn she doesn't know how to play. Golden. I teach her that shit. I do the old school teaching her how to play by grabbing her arms and touching her basically everywhere, around her hip, her stomach, and I pull her in and we touch heads from time to time. Cute.

The barman comes up and brings us our drinks. I say we're paying separately. We do. We go back to the game and I am intentionally missing some balls to grab her some more haha! I am obviously winning and am on the black ball now and she's still got a few left. I give her more chances because hell it's just a fucking game and the real game is being played here with her and me. I laugh a lot at my own statements, and tell her she's bad at this and that her last shot was an epic fail and such, but I mix it in with "That was good, well done." When she gets a ball in I high five her and when we both get a ball in (her with my help) I tell her that it was good teamwork.

I also keep using this Ross Jeffries thing that I started last night like saying things that could be interpreted sexual under a different context, like her saying that I have to put my finger on the table for her to aim, and I say "You want my finger, do you?" or making innuendos about balls.

I win the round because it is becoming a little bit of a drag, as much as she likes being touched by me and as much as I like touching her. I clear up the table and we stand there, talking. I use this as an opportunity to do some "real talk", asking about her past. She used to dance hip-hop, and I ask her how long she danced for, etc. She has a nickname that friends call her at home. Every time I say something in her accent I exaggerate it and talk like Super Mario, saying "It'sa me, Mario! It'sa me, Julie!" She laughs. Anyway she wants a cigarette, and we move to the smoking area. I return the cue and balls and pay for the thing, it's no biggie, it's only €7.80, and I lead for us to sit down.

We take our seats, sitting 90 degrees to each other, and she rolls a cig and I just talk about stuff. About our past, about travelling, keep making jokes, and she's slowly beginning to open up more. We're vibing nicely. I'm now a little more chilled, a little calmer. Our conversation is slow, sometimes quiet, there are sometimes pauses and silences, but we pick it up in a rhythm. I tell her I have really bad pictures on Facebook, and she says I told her I didn't have Facebook when we met last night. I tell her yeah, I had to get her number somehow. She laughs.

I keep mixing normal tone of voice and eyes with bedroom eyes as we're talking by the couches.

We talk about her piercings, she's got several, and tattoos as well. I ask her whether she has piercing on other areas as well, like her boobs. She says no but she'd like to get one. I look at one of her two necklaces and comment on it. Then I move to the other one, a small red pendant on it. I ask her what it means, and she said her boyfriend got it for her. I nonchalantly say, "Cool," and change the topic by moving back to the other necklace.

Anyway at this point she gets out her phone and says "Sorry, I have to text my boyfriend." This girl really does have a BF. I say no problem, completely unreactive. She does this a couple more times and I say I have to text my boyfriend too and pull out my phone and pretend to text. She laughs. She tells me she told her boyfriend she's out with her roommate. Boom. I tell her I told my boyfriend I'm out with my roommate, too. She laughs again.

She smokes another and after she finished I say let's go. We leave the bar and I tell her I made a movie about two guys robbing a store with bananas, as I hold up my banana to her.

Outside I ask her which way she's going, and I tell her I'll walk her. We walk and it's a calm walk, again. There's a little hesitation in me, but I think fuck it and begin to touch her again. I tell her stories about London, about fights I saw, then I talk about squirrels, and more shit. I tell her I like her jacket, and at one point I just put my arm around her as I say we should leave to London tomorrow. She laughs again.

We talk about sports and stuff, and then we arrive at her place. We stand in front of each other and as I'm speaking I just casually work in "I have to kiss you now," and move in to kiss her. She complies. She more than complies. She grabs me and I grab her and I push my dick into her so she can feel it from the outside. We makeout non-stop for 2 minutes or so, I'm grabbing her hair and she's grabbing my face. I grab her ass and she gets more turned on. The makeout ends and she says something and I ask if I can use her bathroom quickly. She says yes, and we enter her building.

As we're walking towards the stairs she says she has to ask her roommate whether she's asleep or not. I say OK and she gives her a call. Her roommate is indeed in the room, and she's trying to sleep. I say it's OK and she apologizes. She knew what was up, we were gonna fuck up there. Anyway we makeout again and then it ends and she says sorry again and I say it's OK and tell her to sleep well.

After that I call Jonny and tell him all about it.


NOTES: Should have insisted on the pull more. I could have used my killer instinct and tried to push it further by saying something like "I'll be really quiet, I just really have to go to the toilet," which I actually did. Apart form that, chick likes me. She texted me:

Solid posts, dude. While you're in Vienna, and if you're looking to find another wing, hit up my boy: member79911.html. He has solid game.

Thanks bro!

Fucking piece of fucking shit.

Chick cancelled on me with this:



Not really upset about this one girl, just fucking pissed because the lay is just not happening at the moment. And it's not happening mainly because of my fucking logistics both here in Vienna and in London. Here in Vienna I'm staying at my mom's place, and this chick in particular has a roommate so it couldn't happen on the Day 2. I was so close to getting into her crib, but her fucking roommate was there. And I can't really pull to my place because my mom is literally in the next room. In London my place is so fucking far that half of the girls don't travel there, and even the ones that do I have a hard time convincing coming back to mine. This is all out of my control and it's fucking pissing me off. I am gong to go hard now, for fuck's sake. I don't give a shit if I fuck a girl in an alleyway or the McDonald's bathroom, I'm fucking her somewhere. This is complete and utter bullshit that needs solving NOW.