| 05/05
Saturday night
Went out with Amar and a guy called Kurt. We got to Kurts for about 11:15, quite a late start. But not to worry. We left at about midnight.
Decided to get in to a good state by talking to people on the way down, got a very positive response and probably could of closed a couple but they didn't really interest us.
I did a lot of sets that night I'll tell you about the ones which stuck.
Girl in a red dress, very cute. Her and her friend where dancing. I pointed them out to Kurt, he told me to go for it. If he wouldn't of said it I wouldn't of pushed my self. I walked past, and from the side -
"Do you guys know any good gay bars?" They stood their and thought then told me about one and gave me directions.
I replied "I'm not gay, but I just find the SPAM more fun...everyone here is so serious!"
"Oh I know what you mean, everyone's boring"
Quite a salsa'ish/latino song came on so I asked her if she could salsa. She said no, so I took her by the hands and started. Teasing her, having a good time. It went well but I just let the set slip. No number close, not even a name close. Lesson learned.
Brunette at the bar surrounded by two guys and another girl. I walk past, touch her flower in her hair "I like that flower. Although it reminds me of an ex." All of a sudden her guy friend grabs her and starts grinding her. I stood there confidently, not phased with what he's doing, and made very strong eye contact with her. And cheers'd my drink to her and went back to Kurt and Amar.
Kurt and Amar were in a 4 set. One was very hot, another hot and the other two average looking. Kurt was talking to the hot one and Amar was talking to the other two. The really hot one was not talking to anyone. She was smoking. I decided to keep teasing her by not dancing with her when she came near me. Not only to tease her but also the brunette with the flower was behind her, I didn't want to escalate with this really hot one but show her that girls like me. Girls want to be in my company. Here I am with 4 girls surrounding me and my friends. This is YOUR loss.
This really hot one tries to get close, and eyes me to kiss her. I just said "Are you always this forward with strangers" smiling. Did not go down well. Then to top it off she went pyscho on Kurt. Kurt has a girlfriend, he told the friend and I believe she was fine with it. But the pyscho girl got a jist of it and flipped. Completely spoiled the whole set. Her friends looked so pissed at her! Oh well. Didn't talk to them again, even the friends. Their friend has cost them the chance to get to know us interesting guys, and have one fucking awesome night.
Brunette was still here. We were eye fucking the shit out of each other. She put her hand out. I took it. We danced. She tried talking, I couldn't hear shit. "Lets go somewhere quiet" I led the way. Next thing I know, her fucking cock blocking, clearly friend zoned friend physically grabs her and is telling her no. She's trying to resist. I pay no attention to it and start talking to her gay friends. I have a good conversation about business with him, all while she's still trying to escape cock blocking friends grasp. She comes to me and she says she's sorry about him. I said "I wish I had a protective friend like that to save me from all the girls". Then, Bam. Grabs her by the arm and drags her physically away.
What the fuck is this guys problem. He's so intimidated by me, he's so jealous. He really likes her, or wants to get in her pants tonight. Meanwhile I decide to stay in set and talk to her gay friend, and then his boyfriend comes over and gets jealous! What the hell, everyone's paranoid! What ever. I'm outta here.
A few sets in between, no girls who really caught my eye after. Had a good night with Amar and Kurt, sure a lot more to come.
Also got in a bit of a dispute with some guy in the toilet. I was having a piss, minding my own business. I opened the door and a guy goes "Cheers cunt face". Sorry buddy, I don't like that attitude. I walked ahead about to tell the bouncer to get him out of here. I know the bouncer as I set him up with a girl I went home with, friend. He then stops me in my tracks. "You got a problem?"
Fuck this. I backed him against the wall, without touching him. But pushed him against it by walking towards him. "Listen, mate. People like you. Go out looking for trouble, are nothing more than fucking bullies. You come out here, and spoil peoples nights. You think you can walk over me, well you get it your way. Lets talk outside."
He changed his tune completely, kept apologising, shaking my hand over and over. It just goes to show you what standing up for you self can do. But I do seriously hate this type of guy, and I would of more than happy of talked to him outside and let him pursue the more psychical route and putting him on his arse. But he apologised. I'm against violence, but I don't like bullies. _________________ Leeds Pick up Lair. PM for info.
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