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Good ideas Chel.

The ultimate goal is to get her outside of her work setting.

Im not going to call her yet;I want to gauge her interest to see if she'd wonder why I haven't call as yet.

I'll keep yall posted guys!

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That's the best way to look at it K. Good luck, you'll be dealing with her by the end of the month, I can sense it!.


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Updates guys:

For those who havent been following,I've been sarging a librarian(HB 7.5)in her work place...

Well,today I made a visit(my 3rd or 4th I think)and this' the update:

Logistics weren't good but I said fuck it,I'l still ramp up the KINO eventhough we don't have privacy.

I kino'd her to death despite kids being around:

I playfully tickled her on her sides while I held her arm.

I gave her neck massages like on 6 different occasions-which she never objected to.

While I was doing that(massage from behind),I was talking in her ears but I didn't kiss them(Fuck)!

I also toyed with her bra strap for like 5 minutes straight without objections until a nosey ass little girl asked me what am I doing to her(lol),so she shrugged me off a bit!!

I scratched her playfully and sensually on her exposed bacc,shoulders and neck and I said,"I know you havent been having good sex lately". If you were,your back would've been scratched up from the hot sex". She laughed. Then asked to see my back for scratches.

At 1 point,I held her around the waist from behind then took my hands off before she did.

Overall,anxiety to kinoing her is out the fucking window!

I help her hand and carressed her fingers without objections.

The library has a balcony so she decided to go sit out there a bit(on was on a phone call).

Me being so comfortable,I said to her,"Come bacc in here before I come out there and lift you up and bring you back in".
Sh chuckled and dared me to get her so I did. I went out to the balcony and grabbed her hands and waist and dragged her back in with laughter.

She went to sit on the balcony because her buying temperature was on the rise from me gaming & kinoing her.

I didn't go for the kiss close since we weren't isolated(in a public library).

I wasn't waiting for the perfect moment or logistics but I wanted more isolation which I didn't have.

I tried isolating her by holding her hand and pulling her to the most isolated place of the library. Which she complied to with a bit hesitation.

But 3 fucking kids kept following us to the isolated area so I couldn't kiss close!!!

So guys,give me some tips or encouragements on were to proceed from here.

Chelios suggested this should be my last visit-since I have her # now,a meet some where else should be the next step.

So what else guys? Im not ready to push for a meet since I don't think she'd be up for it yet. I want to continue the library fling.

What next?

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Hmmm K hard one, she seems like she could be playing games aswell or playing dumb. You sure she isn't one of these girls that mess guys about?

Personally I wouldn't visit the library for around a week or so now, does she have your number?


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Great question Chel.

Im really wondering if she's fuck-around-chick.

I mean,I love the way its going down but Im wondering if she's just a flirt.

She does have my #.

I've already stated that gaming her online has been a lost cause.

I chatted a bit with her online last night and I told her that we should meet up. She replied,Nope.

I know texting isn't the way to set up a meet but I just threw it out there and she said nope to meeting up later on.

Now,Im planning on pulling away to see if she'd chase. So no library visits,no phone calls(we spoke twice via pone)and no fb chats.

Just ignore her from a "Im busy frame" and not from a "Im hurt frame".

The next step is for us to meet up outside of her work place.

We've been past the attraction phase(she's attracted) & comfort phase(rapport).

Im trying to take it to a seduction phase but its some what impossible since we don't have isolation.

It's funny how she told me(it's been confirmed)that she usually go for evening walks & night meets with a male friend but she says he's AFCish.

If that's true,I figure she'd friend zoned that guy and she's comfortable knowing that he won't escalate and take advantage of her horny state.

She knows that to be alone with me is a guaranteed laid.

Now guys,what's next?

Should I say,"hey,you know my #.When you ready to meet up,get back to me."

What's the next step guys?

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Well k if I were you I'd just freeze it out now, no visits. Texts etc. If she asks why, because you were busy, had a lot of important things to do.

She could be a fuckaround, if she has refused to meet too. Just let her come your way now.


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Well k if I were you I'd just freeze it out now, no visits. Texts etc. If she asks why, because you were busy, had a lot of important things to do.

She could be a fuckaround, if she has refused to meet too. Just let her come your way now.


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Well k if I were you I'd just freeze it out now, no visits. Texts etc. If she asks why, because you were busy, had a lot of important things to do.

She could be a fuckaround, if she has refused to meet too. Just let her come your way now.


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Thanks 3 times Chel.

That's what Im gonna do:an all out freeze out.

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Sorry my bad K, that's what happens when your on your mobile in a area with shit reception!


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as i was reading it i thought the same as Chelios, freeze out, i'm suprised how often it works in the right situations. keep us updated.


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Thanks for following Buz.

Freeze out it is.

Lets see how it turns out.

I'll update yall guys.

Thanks for following.

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No worries K. I'm sure she will send you a message across the lines of how are you? or where you been?.... Watch out ;)


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def. w8 some time... i did same with one HB10 now. We were in contact every day, and now i was away for 3 days and she msg me like "if everything is ok" blabla... she was so happy to hear me, tho she didnt want me to see it :).

You got nothing to loose dude. If shes playing with you than dont follow her kuz she will flee more, if she is interested than you flee and she will follow ;) (call you).

Another option is to visit her, but to set up some girl (your friend) in library to come there when you will be with your library girl... Then ignore that library girl and talk to your friend... After when your friend leave, just tell her shes your ex, and she was always nice to you blabla... That will DHV you and it will make her move on you so she doesnt loose you.


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Great advice Cropua:I usually follow your posts over the past month or so.

Taking a female friend etc. to the library would definitely be a power mover.

That'd definitely flip the pre-selection switch;subcommunicating to her that I have other women in my life-even spark a bit of jealously as I ignore the target(the librarian).

Great advice Cropua.

But I'd also broken a cardinal PU rule today(fuck!)!

I'd said that I'll freeze her out for a little while(few days)which I did for about 3 days and not getting at her until she gets to me first.

We'll guys,I called her at noon today. Im so friggin dissappointed that I wasn't strong enough to hold out in this case.

We had a great chat for 10 min. but I'd wanted to freeze her ass out but didn't!!!

So this's what happened.

We live in the same village on the island so there was a local basketball game Saturday night.

I went and to my surprise,she was there also.

We eyed eachother all night;she being the one eyeing me more.

I was with a buddy(in plain view where she could see me),and my buddy(unknowing to him)said,"hey,that girl keep checcing you out".Seems like she's talking about us".

My buddy doesn't know about this sarge yet he noticed the librarian chccing me out(lol).

So this noon[2 days later],I called her out on it(via phone call):

Me:You know its a crime to watch ppl so much?

HB7.8:What[with a giggle]?

Me:What?I wish I had a camera to record how much you were checcing me out.

HB:Its not a crime;its my eyes[with humor].

Long story short,she admits checcing me out for the entire game(over 2 hrs.)and telling her friend about me(seated next to her).

But she tried hrowing off the attraction by saying she likes the way I dress(peacocking)and she was checcing me out based on that only.

So guys,there's no secret that she's attracted but Im still wondering if she's just a flirt or a potential lay.

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