| 01/05
Tuesday night
Me and Amar and my friend Toby went out. Toby doesn't really do any game, he kind of knows about it though. We don't really go out together, when we do it's in big groups. He sometimes has a little joke about me doing it but before we went out he said to me he wants to pull tonight, he wants to stick with me. He sees me pull EVERY night I'm out with him. I decided, tonight I'll wing him to fuck. He will pull.
We have a few drinks at Amars, his new place in a student part of town. Headingly. He has just moved in, huge 7 bedroom house but is completely empty and needs renovating. He also tells me he has the plumbers around at 7am so no one crash at his. No problem.
We get to the club. It's my regular club. Skip the ques, I greet the event manager and the doormen, I don't pay. Amar and Toby get discounted entry. The girl who stamps you knows me, she apparently asked about me to the event manager who I'm now good friends with. I need to stop the usual small talk with her and see what the deal is. She's cute.
The new bar staff are working, I kind of know them quite well, not as well as the old lot. One even gave me a cuddle over the bar. The bar manager is working, we did load of shots on Friday. I told him he was a bad influence.
We go to the smoking area, nothing there. They both had a smoke. Ventured back in side. I stalk the room. Wow, hot blonde...her and her friend are with two guys. She gives me eye contact, I keep it. We go over and sit near, they're taking photos. Amar offers to take the photo as he's about to do it I shout him "Hey, forget them...take one of me and Toby" so he does. He gets chatting to the blonde, he knows I'm attracted to her. He says "My good looking friend has just split up with his girlfriend, you should go chat him up". I act oblivious as if I can't hear them. I'm not 100% sure what her reaction is but he said she got really shy and giggly. This is my mistake of the night. I did not re-engage her, infact even open her all night. I have no idea who she is, her name or if I'll ever see her again. I have not done this in a long time. I know I didn't approach due to AA, It was more of just getting caught up in the night, different sets etc.
We go outside to the smoking area, this time more people are out there. Amars talking to a girl, her friend looks inpatient as she isn't smoking. I go and say hi and do Amar a favour. Wow she's ugly, and drunk. She's very touchy feel too, I go a long with it and keep an eye on how Amar's doing. Finally they part ways and I can finally get back to talking to girls I'm attracted to.
So many sets through out the night, a couple I can remember. Another one was my friend Toby was talking to this two set. He has zero game, so he was talking to this one girl and the friend was there spectating him talk to her. While I say talk I mean repeating his self in to her ear. I come over "Hey, is my boyfriend chatting up your friend?" She laughs, she knows I'm joking. We talk a lot. I'm very confident, she can feel it. Talk talk talk, Toby leaves to get drinks and tells me to look after them both. So I do. 10 minutes later no sign of Toby. Fuck it, I'm off. I get a joint hug, and a kiss on each cheek from both of them as I hug them both,and leave. Damn I looked cool.
Two set on the sofa. I open. I say "you guys look so down, you're affecting my vibe." They reply with "We both have boyfriends" I say "At least I know you're not come on to me, but if that's a reply to why you're looking down then you're making me not want to get in a relationship. We talked a lot, they were friendly girls. I knew I couldn't get anywhere but was good experience ploughing through their bitch defence. Toby kept looking at me when they give shit test after shit test, eying us to go. But no. Fuck that. I will break through this bitchyness and coldness. And I did. They both added me on Facebook.
A girl walking past me, I put my hand on her shoulder. No words. I get her hair out of her face. I outstretch my arm so we're a feet away, still holding on to her shoulder. She's smiling and is like 'what?" repeatedly. "You have a Mediterranean feel to you, it's the dark eyes, dark hair and that olive skin". "Omg, my grandma is Spanish...how can you tell?" Bounce her to the smoking area, we chat chat chat. My friend who I know comes in...She knows him too. "Wait, how do you know him blah" And then she goes out of nowhere..."Do you even know my name?" She hasn't even told me her name, wtf. I call her up on it. She's so sure she has. But she hasn't. I put my hand out and say "I'm the gift nice to meet you" she says hers. She's getting boring, I facebook close(I have no phone) and part ways. Didn't see her again, still no add.
Half way through the night. Josh's one-itis appears. I've met her a few times, talked to her a bit on Facebook too. She's a persian Godess...mmm. I knew she was Persian and when I first met her I told her that she was, she loved it. I've been on the edge about pulling the trigger with her. Josh really did like her, but he isn't really chasing her so I have asked him and he just said he wasn't sure so I've never gone for it. It could be a good thing as she's probably wondering what my problem is. I've been gaming her like a champion, I am the prize.
Well her, her friend and her guy friend arrive at 2:15am. What the fuck, last entry is at 1:30am. No worries, I talk to the manager they get in, discount entry. Soon as she walks in I start shimmying her (inside joke, we once salsa'd to Dubstep music at a club). Her guy friend is very wary of me, and keeps trying to pull her away from me and isolate her. Sorry buddy, not when I'm here. I bounce her to the bar. "You owe me a shot" "What, why?" "You wouldn't of got in without me". "I tell you what, who ever gets served first doesn't pay". The pretty barmaid who hugged me when I came in spots me, I get served within 10 seconds. Her round.
We danced, talked a lot. Her guy friend isn't dancing, he's boring. Strawman technique time.
"I like your friend, he's so laid back, proper chilled. Must be fun going out with him and him not being all hyper"
"I don't know, it's ok but sometime he's boring"
Well, I ejected from set to find Toby and Amar. Never saw persian and friends again. Talked her today on Facebook. She wants to take me out to try Iranian food.
Toby and Amar are in this 3 set. It's closing time. They aren't anything special but they're coming with us. I DHV Toby a lot, he really likes this girl too. After some graft. He pulls her. Me and Amar take the other two. Amar lives near them, so we say we'll share a taxi. We all end up in Amars house. I lock my self in the toilet with the girl. I don't k-close. She wanted to. I carry on drinking. Big mistake. 20 minutes later, I realise...I am drunk. REALLY drunk. I go to the toilet to lock my self in and try and throw up(ew) she burts in the door, broke the lock. I'm fucked, I can't be arsed gaming her. I pin her against the world and we make out. We then go upstairs. Lots of LMR but I keep pulling back and chilling, she then mounts me and we get to second base. Toby and Amar walk in. Her friends have left her. She wants to go home now. Fuck.
I can't be bothered, I'm drunk and hungry. We drop her off in the taxi and we go home. Toby tells me it's the best night he has had in ages and wants to come out more with me. I get home, and throw up in my garden and go to bed. I'm disappointed in my self for getting that drunk. _________________ Leeds Pick up Lair. PM for info.
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