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Keep DHV'in her K, let her know who's the boss. Sooner or later she'll crumble, you don't wanna be to oncoming if you get me, wait for her to ask now.

Even try something like a FTC next time, if she's in convo with you, pretend you have to go, your busy, make something up, or check your phone as if you got a txt message, because she's interested in you, she'll want to know what's going on and she will again soon give in.


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Genius concepts Cropua.

With the girl and the cds,its so funny how the logistics and everthing made her have to give or take your #.

I had similar chance with the same HB like 2 days ago but I didnt push for it.

She was telling me how she wanted to see my smart phone(actually playfully grabbed at it). I was like,hell no,my wall paper is even too graphic for you to see-you're only 19(she is)". A while in the chat,she was telling me how she wanted me to e-mail her some pics of me. I said,Im not gonn do it if I can't confirm if you got them.... Inever followed up but I was gonna hand her my phone and tell her to put her # in.

But definitely,she's teasing when it comes to # exchange. If its a major thing I learned(can remember from which guru)was that women love the roller-coaster type drama;be it in sex or #closes. They love a tease. Its part of the mating ritual basically. They must resist,play hard to get,etc.

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I just noticed I missed your post Chel about FTC.

I did throw in like 2-3 FTC's.

In fact(lol)I pretended as if I got a text and went into my phone.

Then I pretended as if I was busy writing[I used the excuse of doing research as to why I was there at her work place(library)in the 1st. place. so I brought a pen & paper just to FTC]. So I said to her,"Are you always dogging up under ppl(with humor of course)?I want to get bacc to my work. Then she stretched out for the paper and asked what am I writing or doing?I told her she was being nosey and I hit her on her wrist with the pen(playfully). She insisted on seeing my paper and what I was doing.

When I think about it,she gave me so many fucking IOI's that its a crime!!! But I couldn't see that while in set and the tension flying.

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She thinks she's one of them clever ones then. Keep at your game, she'll break. Other thing is, say to her " a girl from the library approached you and liked the look of you, do you think it's suitable to date a girl from the library?" That way you'll definitely see how much she's into you.


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I done something like that today Chel.

Update: I met up with the HB7.2(libraian)today for the 2nd time and it wen like this.


HB:Hey K-Loc

Me:Im looking to finish up my research from last time since someone was bugging me so I couldn't finish.

HB:Stop acting as though you're really here to do research

Me:I am. Come help me find the book I had last time.

HB:In a minute[she was tending to others].

Me:Hey,you like what you see

HB:Lol,you're killing me(laughing all giggly)

After a while she came over to me an helped me look for the book(which I could find but I used that as an excuse to get her close).

Me:Hey,checc out my tattoo. If you can understand 1 out of the 6 words,I'll give you a prize.[Point is was to get her to kino me so she held my arm and tried to figure out what it says for about 15 sec.].

We sat together for a while and she wanted to know what I was writing[a ploy to get her curiosity]so she tried snatching away the paper playfully and we wrestled a bit for it(more kino).

Instead of giving her the paper,both of us help it together with my hands holding hers(more kino).

We fluff talked a bit on mundane topics like music. I feet flirted with her under the table bit.

I calculatively got up and passed behind her and ran my fingers through her hair and back of her neck. I thought she'd flip out at such overt kino but she allowed it.

Further in the chat,for some weird reason,she drew bacc her chair about 8 ft. from me with sly smile on her face as to bait me I think. So I leaned forth and grabbed her chair and pull her bacc close to me as she playfully laughs. Then she did it again right away as if she enjoyed the chase so I grabbed the chair and puller her bacc to me. She did it again so this time I grabbed her hands and pulled her out her chair as she lol. I should've pulled her ontop of me(lol).

At a later point,she hit me and ran as if to play tag or something so I went after her and wrestled & grabbed her body and arms as she LOL. I should've tickled her. Its obvious that she like KINO and playing.

We wrestled like that on 2 more occasions.

While seated again,her phone rang like 3 times in 5 min.She sucked her teeth and said,"what does he want again"? He calls bacc and she ignored the call. 1 of the times I said to her,it's pretty rude to answer the phone while talking to me so she ignored further calls.

At another point,a giant came in the library(he was like 6'9-no joke. I thought it was a secret bf or something-lol)and he said,"I don't like my property abused". I thought he meant that the HB was her property but what happened was that he handed her a package(brand new pc speakers),I guess a gift(lol). What an AFC buying her gifts. He tried to stay in set so I body rock out as to get up so the HB sensed that and told the supplicating AFC,"thanks for the speakers,I'll see you soon(lol). Damn,but he was hovering so I said to him,"Hey,what you think about the Pacman Clottey fight coming up?... He eventually went out the library(lol).

Now,few observations: I know that she's very playful and Im now super comfortable opposed to the 1st. meet. She was 'ON' and I could've raised her buying temp'.

We were sitting face to face(very close)so I wasn't able to have our heads close without me leaning in. So next time,I plan on positioning where we sit side to side so I can talk in her ears and have my lips brush on her ears as I talk. Since we sat face to face,knees to knees(touching),I was only able to kino her knees with mines.

I want to go for a kiss next meet. Not a k-close as when leaving,but a kiss routine. I now know that she's totally opened to semi- overt kinoing and grappling.

Quick note:its so funny how she ignored her phone calls(like 6 of them)while we talked. I feel for the guys who were calling(lol). I now again confirm that women are heart-less(lol).

Im feeling good guys,that I've turned around a would've been dead online sarge to now grabbing Kino.

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Few more missed notes guys:

I recall now telling her that I have an old library card in the manually-stored archives and I wanted her to look for it. It was a compliance test. If she's into me,she'd comply. She actually looked for this non-existing card for like 10 min. until I old her,"don't kill yourself,if you can't find it,it's cool).

At another point,I compliance tested her again by telling her I needed a pen. Hers was lent out so she got up and actually went into an ajacent office to beg a pen for me(lol).

So,she's definitely complying. I guess I can say she some what respects me and sees me as the dominant guy(alpha). Or would she do all those things for a beta male?

She did shit test & negged me few occasions.

HB:You have a dark look to you and you always wear strange necklaces(for peacocking). Im scared of you.

To be honest,I didn't know what the fuck to say so I frozed(lol). Good thing a little girl externally interrupted(lol).

Remember she's the same HB that rejected my # close attempt twice online!! To this time,I don't have her # and I don't regret it after seeing how she ignored like 6 calls while talking with me(as if to say she has too many guys calling her already-100 times per day). I wouldn't want to be 1 of those guys getting calls ignored while some other guy games her(lol). So to hell with a # close right now at least!!!
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Hahah gr8 game m8...

I told ya so, about the number... she will beg you (on a girls way) later to take her number...

Go for it... she has no bitch shield anymore, it's a easy pick up from now on ;) thou expect from her few shit tests, next few meets just to be sure if you are ok(not player lol) etc...


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Keep at it, do what your doing, soon your going to be so in her head she wont resist giving her your number. I have an idea too, to maybe draw an attraction and get her to give her number, are you going in there ever few days? If so, next week leave it about 4-5 days, she'll wonder where you have gotten to, and when you go in, say your using a new library or something.


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Thanks Cropua and others;yall realy pumping me up. As you said,I notice her bitch shield melting away. It was mainly activated online though.

I still get shit tested and negged by her-but its expected.

Hey Chelios,to your questions:Im seeing her(at library)every other day. I definitely don't want to crowd her too much so Im planning on a calculated absence. I want her to miss me and wonder(to build intrigue and wonder if I've lost interest). So Chel,should I fall back now since things are so high? Do I run the risk of killing the great energy by giving her space for about 4-5 days?

Another question guys:By looking at how this sarge is going,what's the chances of her LJBF me?

Note:The giant AFC who loaned her the speakers,she told me that he's a friend. She had another visitor on day 1 she talked to for a while(seated). She eventully told me he's a friend;an old-class mate.

What I've observed with those 2 guys is that they never KINO'd her,never played,never faced her(no eye contact-they looked straight ahead).

Either they're strictly AFCs,or they've F-closed her previously so feel no need to KINO or flirt.
I'd say that they're just AFC(lol). They have been LJBF'd(either they think they can friend their way in).

So guys,do I run risk of being LJBF'd?[/url][/list]

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Thanks Cropua and others;yall realy pumping me up. As you said,I notice her bitch shield melting away. It was mainly activated online though.

I still get shit tested and negged by her-but its expected.

Hey Chelios,to your questions:Im seeing her(at library)every other day. I definitely don't want to crowd her too much so Im planning on a calculated absence. I want her to miss me and wonder(to build intrigue and wonder if I've lost interest). So Chel,should I fall back now since things are so high? Do I run the risk of killing the great energy by giving her space for about 4-5 days?

Another question guys:By looking at how this sarge is going,what's the chances of her LJBF me?

Note:The giant AFC who loaned her the speakers,she told me that he's a friend. She had another visitor on day 1 she talked to for a while(seated). She eventully told me he's a friend;an old-class mate.

What I've observed with those 2 guys is that they never KINO'd her,never played,never faced her(no eye contact-they looked straight ahead).

Either they're strictly AFCs,or they've F-closed her previously so feel no need to KINO or flirt.
I'd say that they're just AFC(lol). They have been LJBF'd(either they think they can friend their way in).

So guys,do I run risk of being LJBF'd?[/url][/list]

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Thanks Cropua and others;yall realy pumping me up. As you said,I notice her bitch shield melting away. It was mainly activated online though.

I still get shit tested and negged by her-but its expected.

Hey Chelios,to your questions:Im seeing her(at library)every other day. I definitely don't want to crowd her too much so Im planning on a calculated absence. I want her to miss me and wonder(to build intrigue and wonder if I've lost interest). So Chel,should I fall back now since things are so high? Do I run the risk of killing the great energy by giving her space for about 4-5 days?

Another question guys:By looking at how this sarge is going,what's the chances of her LJBF me?

Note:The giant AFC who loaned her the speakers,she told me that he's a friend. She had another visitor on day 1 she talked to for a while(seated). She eventully told me he's a friend;an old-class mate.

What I've observed with those 2 guys is that they never KINO'd her,never played,never faced her(no eye contact-they looked straight ahead).

Either they're strictly AFCs,or they've F-closed her previously so feel no need to KINO or flirt.
I'd say that they're just AFC(lol). They have been LJBF'd(either they think they can friend their way in).

So guys,do I run risk of being LJBF'd?[/url][/list]
K, I'd defo fall back a little bro, it'll keep her wondering, you've been around so much, interacted so much, she is bound to wonder and think where you'v got to, and she'll start missing your presence I'm sure of it because it seems like our having fun with her. Give it say and extra 2 days on your regular visits and pop in, IF she asks BS her about you've been so busy etc, and there's a girl maybe your trying to avoid there, or a little tease, it'll get her wondering. She's breaking man, she's tried shit testing you, it hasn't work so don't flake now, keep on your routine and it'll be all good, mark my words.


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Yea Chelios,Im gonna not show up for like 4-5 days. Basically give her space opposed to getting tired of seeing me.

I definitely know the ropes,being in this situation often. But the dynamics in his sarge is weird 'cause I don't have the target's #,and Im seeing her in non-seductive spot(library)opossed to bars and shit.

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Well perhaps next time you see her after the given space away she may either approach you (sure she will) when a convo's engaged, forget number closing for a min, make some BS up, "your friends are going out for drinks because one's leaving town" You wanna come along? because you seem you could be fun".

Maybe that'll get the ball rolling.


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UPDATE:

Hey guys,Im not going to do it word for word as usual. Im just gonna point out the main points.

I manage to meet with the librarian today(at library).So this was our 3rd. meet.

Details:

Lots of mutual KINO opposed to the 1st. 2 meets where I was bit nervous to KINO. She KINO'd me to death today by playfully hitting me and she touched me whenever she talked to me(on my arm)-SOI's(signs of interest).

Being that this' our 3rd. meet,Im more comfortable with touching her. My KINO's now are more direct & semi-overt.

I ran my fingers across her necc and caressed for 3 sec. She allowed it.

I walked behind her(while seated)and gave her a mini-neck massage but I felt her shrug a bit-maybe I did it too long(5 secs.).

I repetedly feet flirted with her under the table but she kept moving her foot away a bit. I attempted that like 10 times. All 10 times,she moved her foot away. I viewed that as a playful challenge opposed to an IOD.

I asked her why does she look t me all dreamy-eyed and flirtingly. She claims that's how she looks at everyone. So I said,I guess you naturally flirt with everyone(lol). She laughed and tapped me playfully on my arm.

1 point,I said something C&F to her and she stuck up her middle finger(playfully)so I grbbed her finger and hand and carressed it.

I wanted to attempt a kiss or k*close today but logistics were fucking me up!! There were many kids there,including her supervisor(whom I'd charmed also).

Hey,its warming up to the task s each meet goes by.

I finally #closed guys!!!It was so fucking easy(lol). No #close routine since she was already expecting that.Its like she was waiting to give the #(as an bove poster mentioned that she would literally giving me her #). No # close routine needed since she literally gave me it(lol).

But Im still not calling her until I've done some more solid KINO and few kiss closes under my belt. So Im gonna stick to the occasional-library visits.

Guys,very important to point out:I've already stated that the target is totally flakey online and hot & cold on me. She'd rejected 3 #close attempt online. Im totally seeing a different person in person. She ignores me most of the time online(facebook chat),but when at the library in person-she seeks rapport with me & my attention like a fucking stalker(lol)!!!

So guys,if there's 1 consistent theme or word I keep mentioning is-"PLAYFUL".

I want it to be playful and I know it should be playful. Should I keep it playful guys?

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Keep things playful K, but at the same time not to much, don't wanna be that pure and playful guy that ends in the LJBF zone. I'd personally give one more library visit, see what she says, she may comment on why you haven't got in touch with her since she gave her number to you. Make up how busy you've been, but you seem to have some free time coming up so she may hear from you.

After, call her a day or so later if you can't k close, try sort out an outside library meet, then she's yours as far as I'm concerned.


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