Quote:
It's the fact that he put on an "I'm going to treat you like a girlfriend" facade but didn't show the confidence in being able to lead her.
That and there's also her blatant lack of any sexual interest whatsoever.
I agree though, if you want a girlfriend, treat her like a girlfriend. But that obviously implies that she should have at least minimal sexual interest.
It implies that you've at least had sex. At least kissed. At least shared SOME sort of
reciprocated physical intimacy.
Had he done any of these things, feeding melon and bringing a blanket to a date suddenly turns into a great idea if your aiming towards a relationship.
But fucks sake, do it with someone that has proactively and decisively shut you down with every occasion.. what the hell is wrong with you?