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Another chick from Plenty Of Fish, cute girl. Very sexy mind.

So the thing is she lives 40 minutes away. I have been postponing meeting her because she is kinda far away and I let her know that. But she has been sending me S.O.S. texts, sending me naked pictures, telling me to come pound her pussy, and today was a very sunny day to which i was like, what the hell Y.O.L.O. it is a beautiful day out lets get spontaneous.


So we worked out logistics, told me her parents will be gone for three hours and off i went. I put on some tunes on the drive, got into a fun state and enjoyed the country side. It was a beautiful day, and I always enjoy getting out of the city and getting some fresh air. Little thoughts that I consider pessimistic did want to creep into my head like "really you are driving all the way out here" and "what if she is this and this" to which i told myself to shut up and focus on the now and prove myself wrong. I turned up the music to drown out the little anxiety bubbles that wanted to pop in. I got the directions wrong and called her to confirm to which she gave me the exact address and off I went. I felt silly to get the directions wrong with a gps and definitely showed my green when it comes to traveling.

I finally got there and pulled up and she came out to greet me. Little anxiety bubbles were creeping in but I told myself mentally to shut up and go with it. I went inside. She definitely knew what she wanted and asked if I wanted to tour the house or get straight to the bedroom. I honestly wanted to see the house because she had a little barn in the back and I am city boy with great curiosity. I told her to give me a tour and also asked for water since I forgot to bring some on the ride. As she was getting me water, I grabbed her and went in for the kiss to get that shit out of the way. She liked that and she moaned a bit. Then she handed me the glass and I was like alright gimme the tour!

So off we went to tour the house for 15 minutes to which I thoroughly enjoyed. I saw a horse near the barn, a beautiful brown horse with a big penis, to which I thought, shit, made me look like a lil guy in my head hahaha. I'm weird.

After the tour we went back into the house to which she showed me more of the house and it really was a beautiful house. The rooms were red and there were flower prints on the walls. The house was pretty clean too, to which i took a note of to model in my own home. Really made the whole place feel comfortable. We finally got to her bedroom. We talked a bit more but I could feel the sexual tension and we both knew why I was there. So I cut off a conversation thread in mid sentence and started to make out with her. I did all my usual moves, kissing on the neck, making sure my hands were occupying some part of her body at all times, going with what her body is telling me, yadda yadda, and finally got her undressed. She asked if I had condom to which of course, i did and she told me she didn't want to give me head after I went down on her. I could appreciate woman who knows what she wants, she also told me she wants doggy style first, to which again, i didn't hesitate since doggy style is my favorite position .

I gave her directions to position herself on all fours and away we went. Once I finished we started pillow talk. I was very surprised to see how much she agreed on what I had to say when it comes dating. She considers herself a liberal and it was entertaining to as much a surprise to hear her agree to the things I was saying. We talked about how she is unsatisfied living in a small town and that the dudes she tries to talk to aren't used to her alpha frame. She really gave off the vibe of being an alpha woman, she definitely knew what she wanted and knew her emotions and why she felt them. It was very refreshing. It was like, I had an equal to talk to. We talked for about 40 minutes about how men aren't really men anymore and how women have been conditioned to be a certain way. She really liked what I had to say and snuggled with me. I liked this girl's mentality. She is 26 years old. Once again, gaming the mature chicks has been a blessing for me.

I felt very comfortable with her as I laid naked against her naked body. I reminded her that she still lives 40 minutes away and that this might not happen all the time (very non needy thing to say) to which she understood. She started to talk about coming to see me once in awhile as well to make it fair. She wants a reason to leave the country side and she thinks I will be an interesting person to go out with since she has seen how my mind works when it comes to socialization and dating.

I asked if she was still sore from earlier and she said yes, and in my mind i was like thank god, I can't go another round anyway. So she got up and started to put on clothes to which I also did the same. I told her that I had to go and get back and that I will see her again. She brought up once again that she can always come up and see me and stay the night...to which I don't mind at all .


I am going to keep this chick in my black book. Very intelligent and she gives me a reason to reiterate and ingrain why i am learning seduction and how to be the most attractive I can be. Now, I am off to see my main chick and give her a taste of the medicine I have yet to give her.

~ Mr. A

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Found a definition of description of Assertive I like.

When you are assertive, you communicate to the world that you are confident, dominant, and responsible; you know what you want, you know what you have to say is significant, and you take responsibility by bringing up matters directly.


This morning my ex tried to go off on me for the dog making a mess and me leaving to get to work on time. I woke up and smelled something horrid and found the poop but I didn't have time to clean it up. I left right when she came home. She blew up on me, I kept my shit together, I have been regaining my 2012-2013 Mr. Assertive back, even though it has been months...but I think he is very close. I have been making sense of things, what it is to be a man, that the emotions I felt at the end of my relationships were running me and I took this in stride.


So I explained to her I was running late. I shouldn't have explained myself, but like I said, not there ^ just yet. I immediately noticed my mistake. She then proceeded to go on a rant, so I changed the conversation because this was trivial. It is her dog at the end of the week, get used to it lady. We talked about money I owe her to which I said I might not have it this week (I didn't know the balance, but I do have the money) to which again she proceeded to rant about. I took it well, I told her straight up that if she wishes to talk about these issues it will be done without a disrespectful tone. She then proceeded to qualify herself and explain how frustrating my actions are and she toned it down. As she got back on my good graces she almost went on another rant on how i better not toy with the refund for the apartment (her parents loaned us the money to get into the apartment) to which I just responded tell me the balance of what I owe YOU. I persisted until she got the point that I wasn't arguing with her about this. Win win.


I have noticed how emotional she is, she isn't really logical at all like some of the women i have been meeting recently. The recent women are more alpha than my ex girlfriend ever was and I love it...however I do appreciate the emotional girls. My main chick runs on emotions but she plays the woman part so well. I have realized how much she has helped me get back my swagger. She even lets me know straight up what department I am slacking in, for example, she brought up the example that I failed to show i care about her when one time at a bar a dude came up to try to flirt with her. I chose the typical aloof swag but she said that she would have rather me put my 2 cents in and show a little caring on my part at that time. She reminded me that she liked me because on the first date some dude bumped into her at a bar and I gave the guy a look.

She doesn't shy away from telling me that I have sucked at telling her how much I care about her lately. So, she is helping me get there on my quest to be the most attractive man I can be. I am aware she will ask me to be her man sometime, but I also understand that I have to ingrain these qualities I am gaining back and hold off on that, even if she is wifey material. I keep postponing the date, but eventually I have to come to grips that I might lose her or she might stick around. This isn't oneitis talking, it's someone who thinks of himself first and his woman second. I know that I have to keep this hot streak up a little longer, if I don't I will probably fall back into old habits without realizing it and start getting gamey with her to try to get myself back. I need to stretch out this attractive man a little longer.

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FIELD REPORT

Went on a date with a girl who flaked on me once...I was late for the second date, and finally, with some charming and smooth shit got her to go on the third date. She is def a cutie. I have a three strike rule, and I tolerate nothing more after that. I know most people in the community have less tolerance but I like to tolerate uncertainty.


THE DATE

With our history and how we have flaked on each other...I was a bit worried about this date happening. I know I would have been okay, and would have spent the night reading up on material or watching my favorite shows. I did try to make up some back up plans with my one fuck buddy but she is on her period and she isn't really comfortable fucking on it. I rang up a buddy of mine but he didn't get back to me in time...as 10 approached I was getting a little testy. So i sent her a text saying "you take foreverrrrr"


Finally she relieved a little of my anxiety and texted back "I cant find anywhere to park". So i called her and directed her to take my parking spot and we will take my car. Mind you I did not tell her where we were going until we got in the car. Earlier she suggested a movie, but honestly I don't have the funds for that and especially to pay for something where I can't kino and find out about her isn't in my favor. I played it off and told her that we will figure it out when she gets here. I lead the whole thing.

She parked her car and got into mine. She looked beautiful. I told her she looked beautiful. She said thank you. We started to chat a bit until we got into the bar. Mind you, I played music and tried to keep the conversation alive to avoid stalling. I did it like a pro. I personally believe that we have that gut feeling that something should be done and that we shoudn't wait until the moment passes. I think this is the anxiety we feel when we approach someone knew. I act on that gut feeling and move things forward.

I found parking and told her we were going to a certain bar. She said "oh I don't like this bar because xixi"
I didn't budge, I told her that we can go to her favorite spot but we will be going to this bar because I like it. I was not going to appease her or agree with her if I felt differently. We ended up going to my bar. I bought the drinks (better than paying for a damn movie) and led her to a table.

She took the chair next to mine and sat it across from it...I think that was the socialization talking...or maybe she didn't feel comfortable with me just yet. So, I went to work. I did cold reading, she did the horoscope thing, I made sure to touch her hands a simple (lets compare skin colors!)always work for that. I counted the freckles on her arms while holding them...real simple shit. I tested her, found out what made her tick, found out what she wanted to do as a dream, and overall just made her the center of my world. She naturally asked me questions to which I made sure not to answer directly because when the keg is done the party is over!

Before you keep reading, I didn't fuck her. I couldn't logistically, my ex and her parents were over since she is moving out this weekend. I didn't want to be blatantly disrespectful to her parents since they were real nice to us and helped us out a lot during our time together (financially).


Back to the date. So we are enjoying our conversation and I lead her to the back of the bar for another drink. I displayed confidence and dominance by asking the people at the bar if they were ordering drinks/are they done with taking shots etc, so I can get me and this girl a damn drink ! I told the girl she was buying the next date. I let her know that. In the meantime these people aren't moving, I am like fuck, what do i do, and i look at the end of the bar and see some poor sap and finally he moves outta the way. I get in there and motion for my girl to follow.


Our table is taken by this time so I just lead her to another spot. We have more conversation and this time I move in closer into her personal bubble. She takes a step back, so I understand that I have to do more comfort and chill where I am, 5 more minutes of conversation goes by, I ask her about her hair and she goes on to qualify that she is growing out yadda yadda, to which I say "it looks beautiful, I am sure you look just as good either way" and touch her hair. I TELL HER I LIKE GIRLS WITH CURLY HAIR AND SHE SHOULD WEAR IT NEXT TIME, to which she says okay


It is okay to have standards guys, and it is okay to be vocal about things. Speak your mind. It is getting late and I know I can't fuck her AND she stated that she wanted to call it a early night because of work in the morning. Win win . I forgot to mention on the walk towards the bar and back, I made sure to be in the way of drunks, put myself in harms way of oncoming cars (we crossed many times when the light was green, by accident) and led her while crossing the street.


As we drove back to my house, I had this gut feeling, she was talking but I knew I had to move this shit forward. I held out my hand and didn't say anything, she was like "what", I waited, and finally she held my hand, and was like "aww i didn't think you were the romantic type". I love it. Bad boy for days. Once we got to my house, I took it further, and was like alright gimme a hug goodbye, i went in for the kiss. She kissed me once, and in my head, I was like, another one! And got a longer this time! She made the comment that I had big lips...and I replied "I know"

Gonna like this new mindset I have...

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How are you dealing with your logistical issues?

Have you found that things have cooled down, because you 'still' haven't escalated after 3 dates? I'm a big fan of Chase Amante, and he talks about moving fast, and sleeping with girls on the second date at the latest. Has the fact that its taken you three dates been a problem?

Your 21 and are thinking of an LTR? From your field reports you sound like a bad ass! I like your journal man. Keep posting!

EDIT:
Do you have a journal from when you just started the game? I'd like to see the transition to becoming a PUA.

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Been awhile hasn't it! I am in the process of soft nexting one of my main girls, she has been there for me the last two months. I have gained weight unfortunately and shit was hitting the fan for me but I HUNG in there! I dropped 5 pounds of the 15 I gained and have been going to the gym more. I have also acquired a second job so I am making a little bit more money on the side. Things are looking up for me! My friend should be moving in by next week so I will have this place furnished and bitches will stop asking me questions or feelings sorry for me for not having a table lol.


I won't lie, I dropped about 3 girls from my rotation. Which I shouldn't have but I really was in a funk (hence the 15 pound gain). I have just started contacting them again. Even that chick I last dated I only been on one date with her but I must have left a nice impression on her. I plan on pursuing that. I have another girl in the works, and I found a one night stand I had on tinder and on okcupid. Hopefully I get the ball rolling in the coming weeks. My main chick has been giving me the monogamy or else signs, so I thought I'd chill her out.

I'll arrange some dates this week or for this weekend. Lets see what happens!

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I went back into the field last night, just need to get my mind off of things. Especially since the soft next with my favorite girls.


I went to one of well known bars in town where I would run into some people I knew. I went with a good friend of mine and who will be rooming with me next weekend. Real cool dude, vent to him all the time about my troubles, especially women. Anyway, I haven't drank in a longgg time, so I kinda looked forward getting sloppy again and was excited because it wouldn't take much lol. So me and my buddy went to the bar, i was in a good mood and just smiled at everyone and said how it was going etc.


We played some pool with other people, some mature ladies (not attractive) moved into my area and I didn't really want to open them lol. But as time went on, people started to pile into the bar. I was getting pretty drunk already, I saw some old college pals and I caught up with them for awhile, then I noticed some chicks from college days and decided sure why not go the distance.

I ran some game on one of them, did the push pull on why she wasn't a fan of the local home team if she grew up there and that even I supported them a bit more than she did. I teased her on that.

She then asked me if she should go home with one of my friends lol. And I of course would never cock block my friends! I asked her what was stopping her and she said she only saw him as a friend. Ouch. So I just did the steal and asked her straight up what if I asked her to come home with me. To which she said she would be more inclined to since she didn't see me as a friend. Lol. Wow. Long story short, I took her home but she was virgin . Didn't get much out of her but at least I know I can still pull and know when to pull the trigger. Decent night.

I am planning to reunite with the chick from my last date. We never got onto a day 2 and I want to see where I can go with her. Plans are for tonight so lets see!

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NIGHT GAME. Bar.


I kinda cheated a little with this one. Maybe, is it really cheating if you use your social circle to proof yourself?



Anyway, I cleaned up very well last night, I made sure I looked good. It definitely paid off. I went to the bar a little late because i was at work. My roommate invited me out earlier but I was on the fence. I arrived at the bar and it was packed, lots of dudes, a decent turn out of women. I knew it was going to be a good night when I got a double take from one chick...I didn't open her though.


I got to my friends, they were all pretty drunk, one was leaning on another, blah blah. I opened them all either way. The girls in our social circle opened me and were saying hi (even though I only met them last week), I definitely made a lasting impression. Never hurts to have girls in your social circle be like WHAT UPPPPP.

I knew I was late to the party, I didn't see many prospects that weren't already invested in some other dude, but I just sat down near my friends and caught up with them. I was exhausted from the work week so I treated it like happy hour, all my friends were really receptive to the whole "be cool, just here so I won't get fined" personality. One of my friends was doing the shark predator behavior, looking for single chicks lol. I let him dig his own hole.


Then by the glory of god, one girl I haven't met in our social circle came out of nowhere to talk to my roommate. She gave me the strongest IOI by giving me contact. I held back and did not ask her for her name and she didn't ask for mine. I knew this would be fun. This girl (lets call her K), was talking to my roommate but then asked me "hey did your hear about..." lol, how more direct can a girl get to get your attention ?? I loved every minute after this.


This girl man, invited my roommate to get a drink, and then invited me! I was like, jeezus, i don't even know you. I told my roommate what was up and what she was doing (so he didn't think I was cockblocking him). He understood the dynamics and went along with it. My poor friend almost offered to pay for the drink but I was like DUDE these are free drinks from a damn chick. Fucking take em. Then you would not believe what happened next...some dude came out of nowhere and greeting K. My roommate gave me the news that they had sex on new years, I even saw them give each other a peck. You know what I did ? Rather than look like a fool, I took the drink and bounced back to my friends lol. I wanted to see how it played it.


My patience was rewarded. K and this guy were not a thing. The guy left and I came back into the picture, she was very receptive, even asked me for my name and asked me questions about myself. I was in. For unforeseen reasons, I knew her roommate was going to cockblock me the whole night (Italian, and proctective) so I just allied myself with her and was very nice to her. I made sure that even if I did not bang this chick tonight, I will have an easier path the next time. I got K's number down, and we kept talking after that until it was getting late and her friend was taking her away. I could have made out with this chick with how close she was to me, but eh, I will save it for another time, especially when her friend isn't on the fence about me. Hey, at least I got a number and a free drink right?!

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Tinder Lay,


A little too easy.

Basically, she initiated the conversation (girls who initiate, seem more willing to meet up with you unless you fuck it up).


We went back and forth and she was throwing in the winky faces and I knew I had to strike while the iron was hot.


I got her number, I went to her crib the following week. I made sure I got what I wanted. She even smoked me up, of course she never brought up the hooking up part. At first, when I arrived, we talked about little things here and there, but I knew I had to be the one to initiate it, it is always the guy that has to lead. So all I said to her was "well, what other kinds of fun/ways to destress can you help me with".

She said "what do you think". I smirked and that was that.

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GIRLS LIKE A MAN IN CONTROL


Field Report from yesterday.



I found a girl on Tinder who used to go to my college. She was a cutie, and I remember her being a cutie. I believe she thought I was attractive and i thought she would message me first but she didn't. So, I took my balls and messaged her first. It went rather well on Tinder, she was giving me little shit tests here and there until I got the number. After the number, I worked her over until I finally met her yesterday night. I cooked Spaghetti, and made sure the house looked presentable.


I made sure the cat box was clean, and I made sure I had peppermint candies out in the open just in case we needed them .

So she came over to my house and we started off slowly, talking, asking each other questions. I KNEW I would have to lead her to where I want her to be. At first, I told her straight up to show me her ass (since she boasted about how nice it looked) and at first she gave me a shit test of like "well, you are putting me on the spot", blah blah blah.

So I countered with voluntarily showing her my ass, to which made things much more smooth. Wow, she does have a nice little ass . After, we talked and drank more until I realized that no making out would occur unless we moved ourselves from the dining table to the couch. So, I just told her "hey lets move this party to the couch".

We talked a little more, I brought out some weed, we smoked and I layed down the power move. "So, you told me about nice your ass is, and you also told me how soft your lips were...you only proved on of those, lets prove the other one too". At this point, I shut up and let the tension ooze between us... ha...she leaned in and gave me a nice kiss...

She is used to being the one in control because after the kiss she was like "oh, i'll let you sit and think about that one"... to which i said "shut up, you talk too much" and kissed her again...


20 minutes later she was like all "wow, I can't believe i broke my rules" she admitted she kinda liked me, and she said she doesn't usually kiss on the first date. In my head, I was like yeah ok. lol. She then proceeded to go home, to which I was totally fine with because I think she thought I would get needy on her. Earlier in the evening she was telling me stories about the needy guys that have been dating her. I told her I would walk her to her car since it was one oclock in the morning. She drove me back to my house which was only around the corner, and I did my famous make out and leave move.

I don't or will not ever understand why that always results in such good results. I have used that move a handful of times and the girl is usually like "damn, that was hot". Lol. All I do is give her a nice makeout and then I am like, okay, well I am gonna go, get home safe. Buh bye.


It worked because she invited herself over to my house tonight after she is done studying. Bravo.

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Field Report from the weekend.



Yes, the girl did come over but she has been playing hard to get extra hard. She calls me up everyday now.


Anyway, back to that night, she came over and she had already smoked a blunt. i could not smoke because I just had my wisdom teeth taken out and that is against dental rules. She came over and told me she had to leave in like an hour or two because she had a daughter at home which her mother watched. And I think she is just saying that to hold herself back from sleeping with me.


This is the second date, so she came over we started watching How I met your mother on her laptop in the kitchen...I then suggested to move this to my bedroom and lay down so we could be more comfortable

She said yes but don't get too handsy...so I put the laptop down, and told her "ok, lets get it out of the way then".

I started making out with her for a few minutes and pulled back and said "ok lets go".


We watched two episodes, they were pretty fun and I got to see what kind of humor she had. We kissed throughout but she wasn't giving me much leeway to go further. I tried a little but she always stopped me . Might take a couple more dates with this win, she acts like she is a virgin haha.


Anyway, she had to leave after the second episode to which I did not stop her. It was around 2:00 in the morning when she left.


I did not end the night there. I called my wing and what he was up to. I got suited up and went out to the bars. i got there around 2:45. I found him and went to get drinks. After that, I went to work. A milf opened my wing but she did it only to talk to me. I wasn't really out to get laid, I already have a couple of girls in my life that are pretty cute and I feel great. I was out to have fun. I chatted her up and asked her if she had friends for my wing. They were pretty unattractive so I number closed her and opened another set.


My wing is still learning game, so I am teaching him a bit. He was contemplating using an opener but I told him no, wait and watch since I watched a set get opened by two drunk dudes and get blown out. I used this to my advantage. I walked over and asked them straight up "What happened?!!"


They burst out laughing. We were in. I started decimating the previous guys, and they were telling us what they did and why they didn't like them. I quickly isolated the girl my wing did not want and kept her company. We both kept playing up what just happened and how the bar scene is. My wing and the girl hit it off. Until cockblock guy came over and told my wing "hey that is my girl". My wing is still fairly new to the game so he said "oh yeah, what's her name" which the guy didn't know lol. So he did well.


I on the other hand had a nuclear bomb for this cockblock. I asked the girl I was talking to if her friend knew the guy. She explained to me that is the guy that bought her a drink earlier in the evening. He meant nothing. So when I tried calming down my wings girls, because she WAS PISSED that this chump came and interrupted her conversation with my wing, I told the girl I was talking to "why don't we help out our friends and let them get back into their conversation". My girl then turned on her mother hen and told the dude "no, this is MY girl". After that, the guy never came back.

Unfortunately, the bars were closing in ten minutes so we number closed the chicks and called it night.

Not bad for having one hour to work with. I like being me

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I got taken advantage of tonight



First off, i got wayyyyyyyyyy to drunk for life last night.


This is how it started, I went out to see some live music around 9 oclock at night. It was very chill, I enjoyed it. Some of my friends were out as well, so that made it better. I talked to my buddies girlfriends, made them laugh and I talked with my buddies later on and we all took shots.


One girl i have been seeing made it out to see me and that got the ball rolling. The live music stopped and my girl went out with her girlfriend for a girls night. After the venue, my friends and I went out to the bars. I got wayyyy to drunk, I got denied a number exchange since it was that bad . In my drunken state I was very cool about it. I am thankful that I didn't say something assholish to her. Then outta nowhere some 37 year old woman sits next to me, I order one more drink and we get to talking....at this point I think SHE mentions something about getting outta the bar and going to my house. I barely remember anything after that. I sober up to banging her and I am like whatttt lol. I didn't finish. She knew I was too drunk and asked me to be taken home. I said, sure, why not.

So I am driving her back and she tells me she has a boyfriend do i care ?

I am like no...in my head I am like, yeah you tell me after I just had sex with you. She tells me she is from out of town and she proceeds to write down her number on my car manual.........jeez. I guess I got laid but don't remember most of it. Yay...

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ST PATTIES DAY WEEKENDDDD


Well, this was one for the ages. It was the parade on Sunday and I was supposed to meet up with my roommate, but things got lost in translation. I drove to our mutual friends house where they were hosting a party before the parade. It was one hour till the parade and everyone was destroyed. I managed to pick out a sober friend and asked her if she has seen my roommate to which she answered, yeah, he went downtown to the parade.


Great.

I went back to my car and drove there. I called up one of my good girlfriends and asked her if she wanted to meet up. My roommate was missing in action and I wasn't going to waste this day. I met up with her and like 3 of her other girlfriends. Then these 4 girls turned into 6 as they ran into more friends. I was the only man in this group lol, and I loved it. We went to a bar and some of the girls took turns dancing on me, to everyone in that bar, and it was packed, I looked like a king.


Funny thing. I knew the bartender lol. She used to date a friend of mine, she hooked me up with drinks the whole time I was there. So my friend started making out with me because that is what she does, but I spotted that her friend was dtf so I was like "excuse me" and made moves on her. She was drunk as helllll. Over time we kept on running into more people. I ran into more girls who I knew. There was this two set that opened me but her boy toy came over and pulled her away by the arm

Glad I am not that guy anymore. So I kept chatting up a few girls and my girlfriend and her friend kept telling, yo you gotta take care of this dtf girl stop talking to these chicks lol. I ran into a girl my roommate was gaming! I made it sound like he was the biggest player on the planet. She was on the fence about messing with him, thought he was too nice. Oh I made sure she changed her mind . My roommate is beginning to sprout his wings because he lives with me...


Anyway, it all went downhill from there. Girl got drunk made with me and then my girlfriend made out with me right after. She got all dramatic after that, claiming that it is not right to be making out with different girls right after the next. The dtf girl went home mad. The day was ending and all the other girls had to go back home to tend to boyfriends, kids, etc.

I finally met up with my roommate at the end. We opened sets but we weren't getting anywhere. We hit up the strip club and called it a night.

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TAMED THE CLUB GIRL.


Well sort of


I have this HB 8 who struts around like a HB 10. She is good company when it is one to one, but when she is out and about she turns into a club snob. Thinking she is better than everyone, and using guys to buy her drinks. The last few times I went out with her she always disappeared. I was going to cut my losses but after 6 months of no contact she contacted me again. I assumed the power position, i have been improving myself for those 6 months and I was ready. I didn't want to fuck her. I don't care about her anymore, I saw her like she saw everyone else: someone to use.


We went out to ladies night at a bar Tuesday night. She invited me out and I accepted. The game plan was to piggy off her and use her as social proof to open other chicks easier. She does that with me to get other dudes jealous. She sometimes calls me her gay friend because she insists them to , and you know I play that shit up because, why not take advantage of some chumps. I don't care anymore.


Lady luck was on my side though, she said her friends were here! And they were all chicks! I befriended the shit out of all of them and negged the club girl. She tried shit testing me in front of these chicks, calling me gay again...and I blew that shit out of the water. I just smirked and winked like, yeah of course . My game was tight now. I gamed two of them by myself for awhile, one was sober and the other was drunk but she wasn't that hot. As the night went on, all the dudes were wondering why 4 girls were around me. I found myself a new social group. At the end of the night I Facebook closed two of the girls, the third girl claimed that she had a boyfriend so I let that go, but she was definitely attracted to me...twirling her hair and even complied when I asked her to go dance....and she was the sober one.

Unfortunately, I didn't escalate to the kiss close or anything. Maybe because I valued the social group more or maybe I didn't want to sleep late for work the next day. Who knows, the wheels are in motion. I will solidify my player persona.

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