Day 13- dead night, club was dead and had done no day game. So, the following day I'll refer to as day13 rather than day14.

Day 13

#1 out of office aftr work spotted a target whn she was walking infront of me. I walked up until I was by her side and then opened (without knowing the scale) taking a leap of faith tht it's gonna be a HB n it turned out to be an 8. We were walking side by side and talking fr a lil. while me. shortly before crossing the road she said she had to get a new phone, she lost hers. She was walking slowly n Frm her body language it looked like she expected me to follow her to cross the road to the phone shop jst ahead n continue the convo. Bt I didn't pursue, I wasn't sure if she wanted to get away frm me or not;.I jst said good luck and she looked bk whn I said tht as she was crossing the road. I regret nt finding out if she really wanted me to continue.


#2 improvised opener on her fancy nails in the train. The most fancy I've ever seen on a girl. An HB7, her English was not good and she seemed very shy; it was difficult to connect with her and as she seemed shy I did not use physical escalation except fr eye contact. Anyway convo was going well however she had to leave at a train stop and before I realised that it was coming I couldn't close a number. I was still in build phase of rapport.


#3 HB7.5 at train platform waiting fr same train as me. Improvised opener. Managed to build a good convo. Quickly and had strong eye contact right frm the start. asked her out jst whn the train arrived. Tgt had a bf apparently. I was gonna get off at the next train stop Station. Despite the rejection I spoke to her while we were in the train cz I was enjoying the process of building a good convo.


#4 approach similar to the first one in the day however, this one I could not build any rapport this time cz her English was really poor. It was hard to communicate. Surprisingly I still managed to close a number and we had arranged to meet up the next day at a particular time fr drinks. I couldn't take time to build rapport and escalate cz she was going to meet her family at a place we stopped soon aftr I opened her. So this going to be a flake fr sure.


#5 tgt opened in the bar in a club(her back towards me) by asking her to do me a favour I.e. Jst get a glass of water fr me as she was being served along with her frnds and I had to queue jst fr a glass of water. There was nothing else really here she was focused on her frnds and didn't also manage to gt me a glass of water whn she gt served.


#6 HB8 opened in the bar next to me. We had a good shirt convo with a few laughs and a kino frm me whn I teased her. Aftr sue gt served her drinks she left wishing me a good night n tht she had to go bk to her mates. So, this was a blowout.


#7 non-verbal approach on danceflr with an HB8.5. We exchanged names right aftr Bt then she wasn't looking at me and looking fr someone. I knw frm experience this kinda move means the girl's mind/attention is somewhere else. So I asked her if she was looking fr her bf. She was looking fr her girlfrnd.
I offered to meet up fr drinks the next day and get a number close bt she took me by the hand and went around the club lounge area to find her frnd. The effort was futile. I understood frm the circumstance tht this wouldn't go anywhere with her if she couldn't find her frnd. I didn't wanna hang around. I was abt to leave the club fr work the next day and I tld her tht. So I wanted to exchange numbers and arrange a meet up the next day. But she didn't have a phone and she said she was leaving country two days latr. She had kissed me on the cheek and latr on tld me nt to wait.

I went out of the club and it was pouring rain. So, I decided to go back in and stay longer. Did a few more nonverbal approaches which were all rejections. I also saw the #7 target bt she seemed a tad too drunk. So, I didn't re-approach her.

What I learnt: I have rushed things and lost patience easily. I need to have more patience whn gaming targets.

Day 14

#1 HB7 target (a bit old) scenario: in the same train carriage standing opposite of her. As soon as a seat became empty I went fr it bt then stopped and let her sit as she was also going fr the seat.

Task: small-talk and gauge interest
Action:
Not much of a thank you frm her except fr a forced smile from her. I then opened her asking abt her day at work, how it went. She looked terribly tired. I kinda felt pity there fr her.
Result: no interest frm her and was probly best to leave it there, as she seemed too worked out frm work.

#2 HB7 scenario: waited in the train platform sat next to her in the bench. She was working with laptop going through email and stuff. I didn't open immediately. Waited fr a while and then My opener was abt internet if she had internet there cz I had no internet connection.

Tasks: aim was to keep the convo. On as we'd go into the train and build rapport.

Action: I kept the convo. On and as the train came she was going fr platform exit not fr the train. To my surprise.

Result: target lost.

#3 HB7-8 hard to tell cz it was kinda dark in the club.

Scenario: wasn't a target initially but then she started making some nice dance moves that I found attractive. She was in a group I was standing next to the group with a drink and scoping out the dancefloor at the edge of the dancefloor next to the end of the bar. She was looking at me every now and then.

Tasks: make eye contact a few times if not solid to see her response. If there is an IOI then approach.

Action: made eye contact a few times and there was an IOI. I approached intro. Myself and asked fr her name. Used light touch on her shoulder and hip and kept eye contact as I leaned closer to her to speak. I pretended I didn't get her name a couple of times to escalate using the touches. She was fine with it. I didn't offer my hand to dance. For some reason I felt like it's too early in the night, I wanna give it some time and get familiar with everyone in the group. Thot this could make me more favourable to the target whn her frnds also knw me. And by the way There was also another HB in the group.

I intro. Myself to the HB from distance and there was no response which was surprising cz I wasn't gaming her.

Result: shortly afterwards the target starts dancing with a guy in the group and closed me off. I hung around fr a while not standing still though jst with little movements. There was no interest frm the target again and I lost it.

#4 HB7 forced a non verbal IOI while dancing and it was a negative response.

#5 HB6.5 scenario: I was approached by her. Her opener was that if I remember her and her name.
Tasks: go somewhere quieter to talk properly and start esc. Frm there aftr building a connection.

Action:
I was hesitant, bt then led her out of the club to speak to her there cz it starting to get too loud. I pretended I knew her bt admitted I didnt knw her name ; she was still role playing and then said she forgot my name.
I gave her my name and then gt her name. I pretended I didn't get her name to get closer and kino her and escalate. However I also stepped back and then forth again (stealth attraction frm gambler) to be unobtrusive to others passing by.

Used future pacing as well in convo. No k-close here. Suggested we to bk to dancing where I'd've esc. Further and I-closes. Led her bk into the club to dance with her.

Result: a guy she knws comes to her and I quickly intro. Myself to him instead of AMOGing. The guy didn't AMOG, we exchanged names and shook hands. He then asked the target that if I was with her. the target told the guy tht she doesn't knw me and they started dancing together and danced away!!
BY FAR to me it was The HARSHEST BLOWOUT Ever frm a target!!

#6 scenario: was frankly speaking to a Guy. He was in a scout group and his frnds weren't nearby. I kept on a good flowing convo with him until his scout group came and found him at the bar where we were. It was also in my plan something I anticipated hoping to see an HB or two in his scout group.

Tasks: quickly intro. Myself to the girls in the scout group removing the threat if coco lockers from the target in the group.

Action: had a friendly chat with a below avg. then intro myself to the target.

Result: it was a cold blowout, there was. No response frm her.

#7 Approached a few other targets around HB7 who had been looking at me every now and then. I took those fr IOI and approached all these targets but they were all blowouts.

What I learnt: I couldn't handle the blowout frm #5 approach at first; i was blaming her and it felt really bad. However, after a drink I composed myself and thought abt the steps I took with her. I shoulda k-closed the target #5 at the earliest opportunity available I.e. Whn we were talking to each other outside. Leave nothing to chance.
Dnt wait around fr too long On the dancefloor whn you realise a girl is looking at you while she is dancing with her friends. Approach and you'll find out if she is interested or not. It has saved me energy and time allowing me to come bk home earlier and write this, and also some sleep before work today.
I eventually ran out of HBs to approach and left the club. The music was getting crap too; I was sober so I couldn't dance to it at all.

Day 15
Day outdoors
#1 HB8-9 nt entirely sure cz she was wearing sunglasses
Blowout from improvised opener that was to initiate a small-talk.

Night out to party in a different city
Scenario : in a pub in the dance section
#2 HB8 non-verbal approach rejection
#3 ibid
#4 approached a group of two girls talking to each other outside pub where the target was 6; I was struggling to move away frm the topic related to my improvised opener. I kept eye contact as we conversed bt there was no sxl tension building up. The tgt politely ejected by wishing me a good night.

Wht I learnt: despite eye contact failing to move away frm the topic related to opener can seriously affect the chances of building rapport and any sxl tension.

Scenario: in a club
#5 approached hb7.5 aftr getting eye contact frm her. It was a rejection and approached her again sometime latr in the club n k-closed her. However, she then lost her friend and I was with her fr a while to try find her frnd bt to no avail. She decided to go home aftr she couldn't find her frnd. I it was too early in the night and I had frnds too I didn't wanna leave the club fr the girl. We exchanged numbers and I kissed her goodbye before she parted.
I texted her latr in the night saying hope she gt bk home safe bt there was no reply frm her.

#6 non verbal approach to an hb7.5 and then k-closed her. Then she parted away n gt bk to her frnds, I didn't pursue the target.

#7 approached a couple of more targets which were rejections.

Day 16
Hb 8.5 - scenario: target in a cardboard box promoting a pizza company.
Tasks: build rapport and get a date with her the same day or the next day.
Action:
I opened by saying can I squeeze inTo that, im cold. She replied that it doesn't t keep warm. Then in the convo. Where I was mostly investing, I asked her qualifying questions such as if she was good at her subject tht she studied. she was hesitant bt then she said yes. I wasn't convinced bt released the pressure on her changing up tone. She was wearing very reflective sunglasses so there was no chance of eye contact to escalate. The only way was verbally. However, her supervisor came and told her that she'd have to move to a different place.
Then I Suggsted meeting up latr tht day or the next day.
Result: she declined saying she would be busy working.

#2 HB8.5 scenario: in a pub enjoying live music, spotted target on the first floor looking down to the music performers on the ground floor where I was.
Tasks: approach, rapport build, isolate and k-close
Action: I opened up telling her how cute she was. We exchanged names and the convo. Flow was coming along well. I used several kino to escalate like light touch on the back as I used gestures while talking and light touch on shoulder whenever I leaned in close whn I couldn't hear her. She was fine with these kino.

Result: when I started futurepacing telling her abt a cool bar I knw tht we should go to she tld me she had a bf. I stayed composed to my own surprise and asked her where is her bf. Apparently her bf was jst behind us with her frnds. She courteously ejected rejoining her frnds.

Scenario club:

#3#4#5 made numerous non verbal approaches bt they were all rejections on the danceflr.

great work man! your dedication is admirable!

Thanks man, appreciate it.

I was off fr the last few days due to lack of sleep taking toll on work. Bt I am determined nw to continue this and without any more breaks to complete the objective.
Day 17
#hb7 scenario: gave me IOI
Task: approach, dance and k-close
Action: I walked upto her and intro. Myself, both my hands touching one of her hands and also asked fr her name.
Then I started dancing facing her. A min aftr we met I offered my hands and she was jst going to leave fr drinks with her frnd. However, As she went past she took my hand and pressed it so another IOI.
I jst stood there in tht place hoping fr her to come bk soon. Aftr a while I went to the toilet and saw her returning to the danceflr then. I tld her That and I would see her on the danceflr soon, and held her hand as i spoke to her.

Result: I didn't see her again until much latr and she was dancing with another guy fr a while Which she then lost. I re-approached the HB again offering y hands to dance bt she pretended not to see it.
Then I tried to bring the guy back tht she lost bt the guy apparently had a gf and wasn't interested though he appreciated me fr the concern. The HB saw me interacting with and handshaking with the guy, however I didn't get any more IOI frm the HB.

# HB8 - scenario: came up by my side dancing and with an evil glint in her eye tht I mistook fr an IOI.
Tasks: sarge
Action: ran my fingers across her hand as I danced side by side to her without facing her. There was no response to that and then I intro myself to her and aftr we exchanged named it went cold again. I then offered my hands to her to dance with me.
Result: she didn't take it Nd continued to dance close by me.

#hb 5.5 - aftr a short intro I took her hand and danced, gave her a wee spin and then Let go of her hand to give her some space. There was no sxl tension or attraction of her towards me yet. Danced close to her and then intended to offer to dance together again.
Result: she was leaving with her friend by the time I intended to offer to dance together again.

#hb8.5 scenario: whn I was dancing next to the hb5.5 this HB was Behind me with a guy. She suddenly leaned on me and intro herself to me.
Tasks: find out what's up as it's very uncommon fr targets to approach you.
Action: I tld her my name using one of the stealth attraction technique by gambler I.e. Outside leg cntct and hand behind her neck as I spoke in her ear. Very shortly following that her friend or perhaps partner came up closer and I intro myself to him.

Result: she then left tht place with the guy.

#hb 6.0 - non-verbal approach, rejection
#hb6.5 - short verbal intro followed by rejection.


#hb7 first ever time aroused an interest in an HB taller than meself. I mirrored some of her dance moves which was funny, brushed Across her bb lightly With my hands as I danced to arouse her. It was all ticking until a guy next to her closed me off. She was in a sizeable group with guys and other HBs bt this group was very conservative.

Day 18

#1 hb7 familiarised meself at the queue bt it was very brief, a guy frm their group came and intro. Himself to me soon aftr I opened the set. Latr on in the club on the danceflr I spotted her with another frnd. I jst danced closeby bt the response was negative frm the look she gave me.

#2 hb8 forced IOI on the danceflr and no response to that. However I felt the urge to approach directly and it was a negative.

#3 target below avg. gave me an IOI and I offered my hand then we started dancing. I slowed it down to escalate. Soon we started making out bt it was a mutually careful one, neither of us went full out. I also let to of her occasionally and jst danced to give some space/comfort. I wanted to change place and hence asked her fr drinks bt she refused saying she had to be with her mates. Then we still made out and aftr a while her mate came and they left together.

there were no more HBs to approach, I left.

What I learnt: forcing IOI ion the danceflr is quite a powerful technique from which you can know if an HB is interested or not without having to approach.

Day19

#hb7 scenario: sitting in a bus nxt to tgt. Shez in her earphones
Tasks: get rapport and number close
Action: asked her whre she was going? Cz it was a Friday night and she was dressed up. I could sense her attraction towards me whn we exchanged names. So I asked her questions abt she does and hobby to gt to knw her better and she asked me to knw a bit abt myself too. I took it as an IOI and before she got off the train I tried to number close suggesting a meet up on Monday possibly fr coffee.
Result: she didn't gimme her number But she took my number and said dnt forget the name(her name). So this might not be flake.

Went out to a club spending ridiculous amount on entry only to see the clubz full of different (unusual, nt the normal type of crowd) and totally rubbish music; was appalled by the situation there, danceflr was full of pple jst standing and there was no room. Bars were full of pple constantly walking in and out.
It was too late to go to another venue and also couldn't afford to go anywhere else. So, I left the place and went bk home.

Day 20

Numerous approaches to single sets in the day in city centre.

Wht I learnt: direct openers work best; it's not good to have too wide smiley face or grin when approaching cz it causes blowout.
Go to attraction building e.g. By guessing the origin of the woman (a bit of geography knowledge always helps here). N then use qualifiers to see of she ticks the boxes fr you once you see her attracted to you. If there is already attraction fr you frm the approach you can probably tell it frm her body language in which case you can go straight to qualifiers.
Try and go fr number close if logistics do not favour you.
Things are to really fast in the day game so have to keep eyes peeled.

A few approaches including groups in a couple of bar clubs.

What I learnt frm the night game: confidence, humour, positivity (talking abt positive things and nt thinking abt negative things let alone talk abt em)are some of the most attractive qualities girls find I a guys.
Nonverbal techniques you can use to demonstrate those attractive qualities is alpha male characteristics such
As strong body language e.g. Taking up space whn sitting or standing, speaking loudly frm the chest, eye contact are crucial.

In convo. Aftr openers, a statement followed by a question is a great way of building a good convo. It allows you to explore her without in a non-interrogation fashion and more importantly Is a more interesting way of building good convo. With any person.

In the same style qualifiers can be used and ought to be used in convo. such as I like ambitious persons. Are you an ambitious person?
If she says yes then reward her with a statement or good comment on that. If no, then it may not go well as she doesn't tick the boxes you find attractive in a girl.

I would not use qualifiers too soon in convo. Cz I had made this mistake tonight and it ruined the convo. Flow with an hb8 in a bar. That set had to warm up more with me in the convo. before I could go to qualifiers.

Day 21

Numerous approaches
What I learnt: I have to speak louder to get anyonez attention when I am speaking after approach.
Anxiety in convo. during set was reduced massively by approaching more and more in the streets.

Day 22

5-6 approaches

What I learnt: law of reciprocity. It's abt give and take in a convo. Whn you give Some info yourself you get Some info. about the target frm her which you can use to play around with or keep the convo. Flow going.

Day 23

Single approach and got Facebook contact.

Wht I learnt: dnt get on a high with any promise from the girl or tel. Number or Facebook contact until you get to sleep with the girl.
At the same time positivity is crucial when gaming.



Day 24

7 approaches, all HB7 and up where the last one an HB7.5 could've been a potential f-close but as I escalated in convo. she objected, saying she had a bf and later on she was avoiding eye contact in convo. I then decided to drop it.

Day 25

Nightgame

Bar scenario

Numerous approaches:

2 set, HB7.5s : got some attraction built up quickly after opener but yet could not tell which one was more attracted to me. so kept eye contact and convo going with both em. I DHV a bit as well. Some time later, they were ejecting to join their friends for drinks, however, one of the HB was gesturing the other one to stay with me as they were leaving but the hb did not stay.

a set(HB7) in a group playing foosball: it was easy to open this, i just said to the guy in the group next to my target that, you look like you need an extra pair of hands and then i joined in. I warmed up to the whole group by playing a few games with them and it took a while.
Nonetheless, when i got the opportunity to converse properly with the target it was a good one, there was some escalation as i spoke, and it felt like there was attraction between us. i MUST admit, this HB7 became like an HB8 as i conversed more and more with her, just something in her i found more attractive after some time with her (all of this while i was sober). However, the whole group was leaving soon and i could not capitalise in the time i had. I learnt that she was visiting the city staying with a guy in the group but they did not look like couples and I failed to close this one before they left.

opened a set, an HB8 on the dancelfloor which had just 3 folks. There was no interest from her at all and the bar was closed shortly afterwards.

Different bar much busier:
numerous approaches to targets most of which were receptive but eventually resisted, and I believe it was due to them being under peer pressure from folks they came with.

What I learnt: Approaching a lot outside the dancefloor and making any conversation with HBs can boost confidence level during in-game set.

Since day 25 I have moved to a different continent and have not had a chance to game proplerly yet cz of sorting out stuff like bank account and orientation sessions for work in the new place. Its been hectic but

Managed to make two approaches today with number closes, one HB8, and another HB7.5

I will be back soon...

Day 26

2 approaches, one an HB9

First one found me to young for her and ejected politely with an excuse.

Second one was in a train, and I kinda walked away mid-set after she appreciated me for the second time which made me think like she wanted me to leave.

What i learnt: i have to be more persistent, and cannot walk away from mid-set unless the target directly says to leave or herself leaves. from the first approach, my confidence was boosted to a different level, i was really tired at that time of the day before the approach; letting the target know that/my state of mind that was not as good as usual helped me to be more natural in the set.

Day 27

numerous approaches in an orientation session for work, they were all hit and miss except for three which i am now trying to build into my social circle so that i can use em to game on others whn im going out with em.

HB7 - direct approach and then number closed. later on the day texted her, and was very sexual tht she found humourous. but failed to agree on a date

Day 28

#hb9.5

opened up asking fr direction and then realised its an HB9.5 in a team rugby jersey. after the opener i straight away asked fr her autograph, however, when i felt she was attracted to me i failed to challenge her by qualifying questions. NOnetheless, got a number-close that was not a flake.

She did reply to my first text and then stopped. i have no idea why

several other approaches but didnt get to close anyone.

then went onto a boat party later on at night, where i approached numerous sets, some in groups and including the hired guns in the bar and in most of these cases I was able to build attraction, some a lot more than others, but failed to take the momentum forward.