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7/7 Went to brussels shopping street and on my way to approached 2black big butted women.

1st one: I started talking her on the bus, just for getting out of my comfort zone (I was scared to approach in bus) and did it! hahah I'm so good I did it
She was quite boring and she wasn't interested in me at all. Was 17 years old.

2nd: Got out of the bus to take the metro and bingo I sit down and see this huge ass infront of me, I hesitated for a while but thought about how I feel about regret and went in (not literally . We had a very good (40minutes) conversation and I initiated kino, it felt quite strange and so did it for her. Anyways I kept doing it and I got a lil better..
I had good game here, I made clear I wanted to fuck her and got her to the point she wanted me to go back to her house, but I didn't.
I got a numberclose out of this one and yes ! Looked 25-30 old.

*I feel so much more connected with her by the kino, feels great !

3rd: This one was a woman giving out schweppes cans but had an empty container, so I talked with her for like 20minutes. got her number, was a HB6 to me so I wasn't that interested. btw was black too. 26 Years old

4th: a smoker, nufsaid

5th: 2 women and shit had God given them some forms , they were taking pictures so I offered them to take one of me. They can't shoot pics or I'm just buttshit at posing.. as a reward I photographed them and zoomed in one one's tits, shit was I funny
*These were black too, tfuck I normally don't get attracted to black people but today must've been a sign that they can please me too


I give myself a tap on the shoulders for what I did today !



*Work on language and face expressions: louder, lower voice. more emotion in face


EDIT: So this second woman wants me, she says she really likes me n stuff.. keeps texting, but what does she mean with being friends and getting to know eachother better gradually?

8/7 Went to gym and met a couple of people...

So I met this chinese woman from Paris and we talked about Brussels etc. I'm really getting into kino, as it's not normal not to (which is) and I started caressing her hand at a particular moment while we were looking at the view of the city on top of a spot there. Else than that I approached a 5-8ish people with direct openers or something along the line of 'shit I lost my bus so I gonna sit here and get to know you'.
Last approach was one that thaught me alot, it was a black woman (having a child with her) and I made clear I just want sex with her, she agreed... I was like is this real? Now it got confirmed to me that women just want to fuck as bad as we do, if not more. I'm not gonna do it with her though, I'd like to lose my virginity to someone I genuinely like. I number-closed her anyway for the sake of learning how to close. (had a strange name btw, Fanta lmao)

*Remember to smile
*Work on voice, tonality, loudness..

9/7 AM approaches: 6-7 approaches and went direct with 3sec rule in most cases.

I notice myself less struggeling to go in, where I'd approach 3/10 of the beauties I see, I now go for 6/10... aiming for 10/10 don't worry
First approach was in the bus just for dong it sake, once in town oh yeah I started. A blond with a huge ass walks by, I follow and open but see she isn't that good looking at the front so I just left.
In the middle of the shopping street I wait for those 2 japanese girls as I saw them before and they looked cute, they didn't even answer to my opener which was something like this
'Hey girls, I saw you walking and I decided to stop to meet you guys' as I reach out my hand they walk away and laugh (yeah this means I should've continue) but I have this fear of looking like a creep.
I see another huge ass going by and my hormones were like TALALALALALA, I went...

Me: Hey
HB8:
Me: You with the bag, yes you!
HB8: Oh I didn't know you meant me
Me: I saw you walking and you looked gorgeous, I have to get to know you
*Handshake*
Me: What's your name?
HB8: Sara
Me: I'm ***, so you went shopping (it's sales) but you don't have anything with you?
HB8: I didn't go for shopping
Me: Or dad doesn't give you any money anymore
HB8: I'm going to my work
Me: What do you work as?
I forgot everything from here on, she told me she had a BF and said 'cmon 2months, this isn't a serious relation' and I gave her my fb as she wouldn't exchange numbers.
I actually thought she was scared of me, she would always stay a meter away from me, gave me her phone to put in my name so she trusted me?

After this I approached a couple of others, included a big brasilian ass which I shoul've put more effort in, she liked me imo.

**One of my problems when I go or go not for an approach is that I want to see her face before and that way walk infront of her, I can't return and open after that, or do I without looking a creep?



FIRST DATE

So I went on a date with this woman (she's 32yo old btw) I met 7/7. I went to her town and went for a lil walk, sitting down talking for like 2hours (comfort-stage), throwing in a couple of teases... kino was through the roof. The beginning was a bit strange but after a 15ish minuts I went further and after just an hour or so I was touching her breasts, having my hand between her legs. She was putting her hand on my leg, rubbing towards my cock. Lots of handholding too, that's it about kino.
Kissing... we had a little kiss and it was awkward for me, I didn't bother trying later again even that there were moments we wanted it both.
Worse than that is that I cummed in my pants lmfao, seriously but it's OK. I feel like finally getting my life on the rails, kissing after 13years and having badass kino !

I feel like having done a GREAT job attracting her as she's still texting, wanted me to come over etc (I couldn't stay long).

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Today was the first time I really used direct openers and even if it wasn't that succesfull at getting numbers (it will, I improve quickly) it is a good thing.


*learn to cum later, how?
*learn kissing

10/7 A new mentality

Gym-day, on my way to gym I approach this chick infront of all the people at the perron, I got the boyfriend line and quit.. should've stayed longer but hey INFRONT OF ALL THE PEOPLE, byebye lil demon in my head ! I felt king.
Okay next one must be the quickest one ever, I saw a Matala (is her name) and went for it, she was SHOCKED and 2 black huge men looking like 'tfuck did he just do', again I'm king here.
Next one is on my way to the perron to go back home, approach, I talk some and even tell her to suck my finger (I let a dumbell fall on in), she denied.. anyway we had a good talk.

I decide not to go home and do a little walk in the shopping street...

I approach so many people after this I can't even remember how much, one of the funny troll approaches being something like this..
(I approach the guy)
Me: Hey, those 2 girls with you?
He: yea
Me: HEY 2 GIRLS !
*They stop and wait for us*
Me: Take a picture of me, all at the same time... 3D effect
Girls and guy: Hahahaha
HB6: But huh what? lol

Talked with them for a bit and left, I see another girls standing on the other side of the street and go

Me: Hey, you're so cute, I had to meet you
HB7: oh thanks
Me: My name is ***
HB7: *forgot her name* but I have a BF
Me: Oh he's like a big muscled guy like me? In that case I just run away now
HB7: No he's normal, actually I'm waiting him here
Me: Shit we could've had such a passionate relationship. I hope he treates you well, cause you don't know what you just lose here
HB7: haha, cya

I go down to take the subway again and meet someone a friend of me knows. We talked like 15minuts and told me she had a kid and was married but was attracted as hell though.

Back out of the subway I see a hottie on a bench waiting for the bus. I approach the old woman next to her..
Me: Excuse me woman, don't you think that girls next to you looks beautifull?
HB8.5: *Looks with desire*
Me: Hey what's your name
HB8.5: I'm LISA
Me: .... I go as my bus comes

Could numberclose this easily


*Approach all the beauties, I still thought like 'hmmm, she's entering a shop, so not I don't go this time', it's only in 3/10 I don't approach.
! I DID A FUCKING AMAZING JOB TODAY, I have this mindset of 'Oh I like this girl, I'm going', feels good and thanks to all the effort I put in expanding my comfort zone.

To do:

Stop saying euhh when thinking
Keep talking

11/7 1st part of the day I went to the city

First chick seen, approached but asked number after just saying hi (no wonder she said no). Once in town I feel a little nervous and didn't approach some people. I got rejected a 3ish times before it changed. Anyway after 30minuts or so I said fuck it and started approaching tourists and on my way back I was surprisingly good, I saw a girl, approach, a set approach... I guess I got a little fucked by the first rejection which is no reason to chicken out !
In the crowded street, literally a thousand-2000 and I approach this married woman, next is a black woman with hot legs

Me: Hey, excuse me but you really had hot legs
HB7: Thanks and walks
Me: So you're just gonna keep walking and not talk to me? cool

Next one... a set of 2 arabic girls

Me: Excuse me but you're so beautifull I have to get to know you
HB8(1): Oh thanks
Me: What are your names?
HB7.5(2): Laura
HB8(1): ***forgot lol**
HB7.5(2): You're out for the chicks
Me: Well I normally don't do this, but I couldn't just keep walking seeing you guys
HB8(1): But I have a boyfriend...
Me: Are you really happy with him? I mean I'm better, there's noone better than me !
HB7.5 and HB8: Laughing

She didn't take my number but I told her my name to add me on fb once it's over with her bf, other girl cockblocked me a lil.

I keep walking and at the busstop I see this chinese HB8, I chicken a little but decide to go anyway...
Me: Hey, you're like the cutest thing I've ever seen... today
HB8: Ohh merci
Me: What's your name?
HB8: I'm Hilda
Me: I'm ***, handshake
while I let go my hand she does the same by stroking it a little, she was into me but I had to get my bus. Next time I numberclose this kind of situation.


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2nd part:

I went to another shopping center and approached 2 sets, just talked with them, was a lil stressed to make things more steamy. I took the subway to somewhere else as I didn't approach some hotties I seen (I got pressure from the people around) and I got pissed of, same happens in the metro. I got out of the metro (few people where around at the moment) and approached an HB7, went OK she asked my number as we were both in a hurry.
Once in the rue neuve, shopping street I approached 2 sets of black girls and asked which one of the 4 had the best but, just for having the guts asking it in a group sake. They were SHOCKED that I was so confident and cool asking it, they left though lol. 2nd group was with 2 guys cockblocking me, at the beginning I ignored him and then trolled him and his friend about some perfume tester he had with him. On the bus back home I said fuck it (some people on the bus) and go with a direct opener, she has a boyfriend for 2 years so I just keep talking but she didn't want to? Anyway I ask her wheter I looked stressed opening, she said: a little... so this is a working point for me.

*Point here is that I have to get the fuck out of my comfort zone and SHOW MY INTEREST IN SOMEONE INFRONT OTHERS. I really don't mind talking or approaching, just when I have to use a direct opener I get all messed up sometimes. Tomorrow will be the direct-infront-of-others-day.

*I feel myself working hard against the demons and the more I keep going through my ups and downs, the better I will be, the better who I will be in life, the better I have to offer to those around me.

Working points:
-Talk slower and louder
-Talk infront of others
-Approach without thinking about it beforehand

/I do a good job always trying to close, props for that to myself

12/7 Went to the out for gym this morning and approached what got served on the menu... nahh here we go:

First approach is in the subway, I compliment an Arabic woman on her nice earrings, we talked a little, she was married and looked a 30ish years old. We had a good convo though. This was a good approach as I hesitated a little and went in eventually in a metro (public places being a working point), few people were on but still

Second one is after gym: There a bus stop just right before the gym and I see a HB7, I decide to the fuck go for it while people were sitting next to her.

Me: Hey, I though u were beautifull and I want to mee you *bring out my hand to shake*, she does not
Me: Oh you don't want to say hi, that hurts ! have a good day anyway
*I actually didn't care that much about the others talking to her, I was more thinking of them BEFORE the approach than WHILE I was doing it

Another approach, girl waiting for her bf.
Me: Hey I screamed for your attention and you made me come down here with my leg hurt
HB7: Ohhh
Me: You look beautifull so I came over, What's your name?
HB7: *forgot* but I have a boyfriend
Me: What's his name?
HB7: Gauthier
Me: Fast enough, you ain't lying, have a nice day

2more approaches, rejected and the other ignoring me, I pass by the shopping street and go:
I almost stumble while checking out a blonde..

*Looks at me*
Me: Oh that's because of you, you look so good
HB8: haha and ignores me

I approach 2 girls, wearing clothes that were pretty much asking me to approach, no matter how she looks..
Me: Tourists?
1: No lol
HB8: What do you want?
Me: Well you look pretty good and I want to get to know you.
HB8: Ignores and tells me to go away
*Other chick liked me, HB8 was serious when she told me to gtfo

another Arabic chick in the street
Me: Hey, I hurt my leg but I still want to get to know you, you look beautifull
HB7: Oh thanks, but I'm married
Me: Shit (funny way), too bad

In the metro I talk to a woman of 32years old, she liked me very much, IOI's etc, but she thought I was to young, well her loss

Out of the metro on my way home I approach an Arabic chick behind the counter to buy bus tickets
Me: Hey, are you alone here?
HB8: Yes, why do you come here?
Me: I though u looked beautifull so I come over, that's what I do
I forgot the rest but we had an OK talk, she was married so just asked for advice about her religion and dating non-muslims

/*/It was just like the other days, I think me being rejected a couple of times is because of the fact that I talk in a shy way when I talk french with someone I just met. I got to talk louder.
*In terms of approaching here in Brussels or approaching in public using direct openers this was THE BEST DAY EVER SINCE MY START. I get alot of rejections/ignores lately and that's something I can now start working on.

13/7 a very good day that started with alot of rejections, let me tell you..

So after 2 full days of being rejected almost every approach, the same happens again today. In most cases they keep walking and ignore me, but this one is funnier !
I have hurt my feet with my new shoes and I ask 2 women (yes on purpose) about what I can do to make it less painly, they don't know. She just tells me to put off my shoes and I answer with 'You'd like that huh '... she starts walking faster and keeps looking back and even tells people on the street I look dangerous lmaooo c'mon.

After that I kept approach like 2-3 sets, complimented the cashier at the shop cuz she hot, the problem here is I told it with a light voice (big problem) and read on, I found a fix for my shy voice. Going to the shopping street I approach a group of 8-12 men, yes I was alone and I talk to them and ask if I have a dangerous-looking face, I felt king, which I am btw
In the shopping street I start approaching again and I get rejected, new?
However at a moment I saw this HB8.5, maybe 9 and I approached her too, she ended up being Dutch just like me, and guess what I got her number and she's already asking me to come over at the place she workes at. I don't want to brag, but IMO if I succeed in an approach they can't stay away from me. Anyway after those approaches I approach 2 or 3 other HB8's and again both cases I talk to them in Dutch and they open up, I had to go into french mode as they didn't understand. Else than that I just talk with LOTS of people on the bus etc, not to attract and in that case I'm confident as fuck. I like to give people a good time you know, I know how it feels to be bored.

Now I think it might be me sounding insecure in French as it's a language that I don't master. Talking in Dutch I have more confidence, don't have to start 'euuh, how do you say that in French' moments.
Also I give myself a start for not giving up on approaching after being rejected, ignored, ran away from for 20+ approaches.


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[FONT=Arial Black]*Start Dutch and go into French only if needed
*Approach more in metros and other places people are VERY CLOSE to eachother (from less than a meter I start being nervous a little)
*Working on conversation: I know I can as I did it in the past, talk attraction and qualification.[/FONT]
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GOOD JOB ***

I thought I was recording, but no it wasn't... sorry for not having any material uploaded, next time

So me and my the HB9 texted and we're meeting tuesday for a drink. I want to share this with you people as I couldn't imagine myself back in May when I was starting out I would date someone I met on the streets. I was this guy that got shy in places I had to talk, asking for a drink or a ticket was at the kiosk was too much, I got red and all blushing. I'm glad that 2 months further I feel more liberated from being imprisoned in my own body, I now realize that I mean something on this planet !
Each day I start I have the mission to be good, to be better than yesterday, try new ideas and not let the bad things happening bring me down. As Sylvester says in Rocky 'It ain't about how hard you hit, it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done'.

How did I find the power to make a change? I hate not being the best at something,
-I'm competitive which has both it's good and bad sides I feel everyday. You always have to find someone being at the top as your example and follow it with all your heart, believing in yourself. On the other side jealousy is one of my bad traits, I don't like it at all when someone does better than me, but there comes my power from.
-Power of visualizing.. I always see myself in the future being what I'd like to be and how people are like 'whaat, how did he do that?', I like to be successful and see myself being happy with the results I get from working hard.

My best friend and wing is in Cameroon btw and boy o boy.. they fuck like animals there. I believe that those people being less influeced by media and all that bad stuff know what life is about. It's not about being the richest, having an Iphone or w/e name it. They know life is about socializing, replicating and having to fight, work if you want something.

14/7 It's raining, but I went out after all (Mail3idplo fuck that haha )... less hot chicks though

I talked ALOT and did 5approaches in let's say 30-40 minuts... they listened ALL OF THEM but I came short on conversation today, don't ask me why
Voice recording will be included after some cutting here and there for y'all to listen, can't make those good full convos as I have a prehistoric memory and forget most of the conversations.

In a summary I approached when I saw them, directly limping towards them and telling them something along the lines of this: "Hey, I though u were cute and I'd be a dumb fuck if I wouldn't come and say hi".
Doing this in my motherlanguage I talk more conf and look them in the eyes, they MELT, I ask questions like 'do u have a boyfriend?' and come short on conversation today.
Anybody that can tell me wheter it's ok or not to ask for if they have a bf?

I don't feel bad for having a day that's less better than the other one, I feel confident now and know that it WILL go better by practicing. I guess it's kinda relaxed.
1#-close for practising it

I hear I still don't sound max confident and have to work on that.
Video is for them Nederlandstaligen out there !
[video=youtube_share;lNF5CTEP5uI]http://youtu.be/lNF5CTEP5uI[/video]

*Talk the fuck slower
*I find my voice monotone being
*Don't forget kino baby
=> Improved on it but still work needed, bodylanguage is good.

UPDATE: It's always cool when something unexpected happens . This women I met a week and half ago at the station in Paris added me on fb and we chat for like an hour, she's really nice. I told her we should meet here in Brussels some weekend and therefor exchanged number, which will hopefully lead to some kissing and sex. It's pretty cool that she's coming for me from Germany, oh lol to visit Brussels she said.
I liked her for the time we talked at the station, maybe because she gave me some chocolate to eat? hmm
She said I was a little young for her, I think it shouldn't come in between us. I could get the 32year old I talked about earlier to kiss me, so it's been proven lol. Oh and I guess I like older women because of them being more mature and having more money lol.
She's not the best looking, but I tell again I like her and shes cute.. HB6

I will keep you guys updated on this too.

15-7 Sunday, gymday too... I decided to do something good and went for a 2hour walk after Gym (bad for them legs).

On my way to gym: not a single approach, just talked to some woman for conversating. At the gym same story, just tried some conversating.
There was this woman on the tram, hot: didn't approach cause I was a bitch, same for counts for the metro after gym. BAD BAD BAD. Today I learned and admitted to myself that I'm not as confident as I thought: I'm gonna learn to express myself in public more, talk in public more than I do now.

However... I decided not to let the bitch in me ruin my day and I went out for a looong walk after gym... I approached LOTS of people for just asking questions, talking and approaching (which are included in the video I will post.). Now listening to what I said I'm laughing my ass off, literally so funny some of the things I do are. I asked told someone I'd masturebate, another guy I just didn't give a fuck and asked him if it really was his girlfriend, check the video. Kino was GOOD today, I touched people: I took their arm, touched one's legs, shoulder, good job.

Now listening to it I hear myself sounding more confident doing the approaches than before, however on some of the approach I get a little nervous and therefor lose the girl. Am I angry for that? no, I improved and that's what my goal is.


Video: No subs, however @TIMES are added in the description and used Language will be shown for those who understand English, Dutch or French.

[video=youtube_share;CYpdcBQXqFA]http://youtu.be/CYpdcBQXqFA[/video]
@0.00: FRENCH
@1.07: ENGLISH
@2.25: ENGLISH
@3.06: FRENCH
@3.51: DUTCH
@4.55: DUTCH
@6.36: ENGLISH
@6.59: ENGLISH
@7.27: ENGLISH
@7.57: ENGLISH
@11.13: ENGLISH
@12.34: FRENCH

Critiques on how I sound are welcome
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*Confidence: Use of voice
*Conversation

Update: facebook chatting with the +- 30-35year old from Germany I met in Paris.

She
Hein! Do we have a relationship?:-)hey!I'm not an alcoholic,but?you know, you never drink with friends? I don't have much time so I profit from the time I have. I work 40hours, yea that's germany!
Me
Ofcourse I party, but I don't drink. I appreciate you working hard, you gained a point !
ahaa dancing, I'd like to see you dance once you come here in belgium
She
ah no,That's not how it works my boy,you called me alcoholic,excuse yourself atleast and after that we'll talk about meeting together and yes I can dance, you won't be dissapointed
Me
olalaa
Do you do exotic dancing?? just like shakira
She seduices just by dancing
She
I'm waiting!What do you say when you're wrong my boy?
Me
I'm not you boy lol
I'm not gonna make excuses for my humour, you can always punish me though : )
She
ah bon!ok!excuse me mister (my last name),you're right,you have to make fun of alcoholic people? :- )
Me
Depends.. I amuse myself with you, so why not?
Are you that boring?
She
oooh!!!!That's nice of you,and no, i'm not boring, don't worry. but if you're not nice I can be really bad, so be nice ok!:- )
Me
Gentle sex... I prefere the agressive kind
Ofcourse we start calm, until my engine is running
She
,you're really amusing !:-),It was really nice with you but I have to get up early tomorrow 5 heure 20,I'm gonna go to bed, cya, and we'll meet soon
good night
Me
good night babe
nice dreams (of me ofc)
She



I'm gonna get in that pussy imo. Once it got tense I started being more sexual and it turns out good.
-so this is for all thos in kind of the same situation.
-I'm 17, if you believe age isn't a problem, it won't be

Update:Date with the 15year old not going through. She says she's out with friends for the day which can be true, but I believe she's shy as she told me she's bad with relationships. I turned up the heat as I saw this as a test in some way to see how I react too.

16-7 I approached on the metro=subway (finally in public places, everybody was listening)

And it isn't that bad ! It is RAINING, literally only a few people on the streets. I approach one girl, runs away in a shop. I decide that it won't ruin my day and I take the subway to another shopping. Waiting on the perron I see 2 pakis, I hesitate a little and realize that these are the demons inside me trying to make sure I stay within my comfort zone. I say fuck it and go in (YOUTUBE VID ENGLISH). Later when they got of, almost have to go out I hesitate again when I see a girl with her sister, she has a re-examination... I was finding an excuse and decide to get up. At this moment I feel POWER within me, it was like the NEW me kicking out the OLD me and it's demons. I was nervous ofcourse and it didn't went that good... 3min conv. I don't see it that bad, I even asked a random guy in the metro to translate cute for me, obviously I knew and I was just putting feet out in what is now my new comfort zone.

Now 3rd approach, I'm on the escalator all behind with this HOT woman, I approach. She turned me on so bad, red upperdress, I can see her BH trough the dress... oh I forget she has like a D-cup, not a skinny fuck and a cute face. It turns out she's 35, yeaah I like older women and it's a challenge, I tell her I'm 21 as I don't want to freak her out though. Who cares? as long as I get laid. I number closed this HB8 (have in mind she's 35) and we'll meet soon.

After this I decided to approach in English, I'm tired of approaching in Dutch, going to French, approaching in French, not being conf blabla. English it is and I'm gonna stop using my fake accent (Back when I was 15 I was shy and socially awkward and always faked accents, dunno why).


[video=youtube_share;SQOtk9J9zWU]http://youtu.be/SQOtk9J9zWU[/video]
1: @0:00
2: @3:28
3: @7:20 (#close )

Work on:

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17-7 Went to Brussels city. Chickened out a little in the beginning and went crazy all over after starting

Well not much to say here, went great did 10-15 approach in just an hour and half which is not bad. Conversating went better than last days and that gave me such a confidence boost after the approach. I used kino, that way made deeper connection (got this girl now asking for a date, whou I'm GUUD). I still think I could do better on the use of my voice, I find it being high pitched and not sounding sure enough, the latter being a confidence issue obviously. I really had alot of fun out today, 'who's gonna be my next pray... ah gotcha'. I literally ran after girls, and believe me I hate running. I locked eye contact STRONG which made them more open to my sayings.

On a side of note though, sometimes I said complete shit like 'sorry, do you mind if I talk?' and being a fail, it shows how much showing confidence really does. The video posted below includes a compilation of 11 approaches, most spoken in English.

[video=youtube_share;wotB6W7HCFw]http://youtu.be/wotB6W7HCFw [/video]

Update:
1* The german girl and I are seeing eachother soon . We'll have a weekend together here in brussels from August 3-5.

2* The woman I met today wants to see me, and for the first time since I started I understand some woman flaking. I don't really feel a connection with her, she doesn't meet my standards and I doubt I'll say yes to her offer. That's no bad persé as I learned to understand one of the reasons they flake today, that's how I see it. Enough bigboobed girls around !