so this chick enters the room. I notice shes wearing running shorts.
i make a comment about racing her after class.

After class she gets my attention to say cheerio and i remind her about our "race" and
end up walking next to her .
she teases me by false starting a sprint and we get a good convo going.
Its time to take our separate ways and i ask her:

what are you doing this weekend?
she: im studying.
me: so you wont have time for one little rondezvous?(i give her a playful puppy dog face) why dont i get your number and we can go get coffee or something.


she: Tell you what, next time we have a test we can study together.

me: that sounds great, We can get a good headstart this weekend.

she: i cant give you my number(grinning shyly?)

me: (in a lighthearted/demanding voice)well, why not?

she: im dating someone(stil grinning faintly)

me: im not asking you for a date.(i hand her a business card and she writes it down).

My question is this: how can you tell theyre giving you a shit test? What things to look for/

Thanks guys

ciao,

Art

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A good situational opener about her attire, but hmmm very little detail on your good convo.
What she said here is so damn common for women to say to nice guys(afc). Even though it seems like there is hope, there is none at all, she is just trying to be nice. You can't blame her think about the other bunch of guys who talk to her and ask for her number so often. Though she could hold a conversation, its in her nature all social butterflies are good at TALKING BLAH BLAH BLAH. What DHV stories did you say in your conversation to her? Did you do any Bait-Hook-Reel-Release?

jacked, heres a lil more detail on the convo:

me:(as she sits down)what place did u get?
she:what?
me:yeah in your race(pointing to her shorts
she:(laughing) oh, first place of course
me: (grinning) ha, ok then ill race you after class

By this point other people sitting around joined the convo, and

at one point, she took my lecture notes in front of me when i was turned the other way and she quickly put them back when i turned around.


After class she got my attention as she was leaving and i caught up to her to "race" her and then we began talkin:

me: (ask her if he works out at the school gym)
she: blha blha do you? how is it?
me: yeah, its alright
me: what letter does your last name start with?
she: c
me: so you dont get Cs in school?
she: ha ha, A is my favorite marK (Demonstrating Higher value).

At this point things were going naturaly and i got a pos vibe from her.

I must point girls will intentionally give out vague signals,( eg. more talktive to you one day, the next they seem too preocupied to notice you, etc,) and certainly i had the faint feelin she was doing this.

thoughts?

Anyways, come goodbye time, she gives me the above mentioned excuses, but somehow, through constant reinforcemnt, i keep y cool and confident poture
and i notice i have her in a "corner"
(when you have blown up their efforts to turn you down and they grin cuz they dont know what do do)

and i just hand her a business card where i practice martial arts.

Anyways, hope that provides some dissection material.

Oh and jacked, id appreciate a little more in deph on the "relase-hook" mechanism you mentioned.

thanks

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