Hi I've meet for the first time fateflicke two days ago and we open sets in the city centre of Sydney.It was fun but without results also for my low english level..but I'm still learning.
I've almost done my first week in my english course and I'm sure that the situation will improve soon,even my game.(I hope)
Anyway the first approaches I try in direct way like:Ooh I like your hair(She has a blue hair)with a good body language and smile.She was asian so was shy and don't aspect my approach.We spoke for about two or three minutes including her friends and when at the final She explain that"I have to go"or"my friends waiting for me"I tried a instant date but she don't accept it.(Mistake:Never ask a instant date,the right way in a right situation is to conduct her,maybe by hands contact speaking like"I need a coffee,come with me,)
Another sets:I saw a girl walk-in towards me and after she passed me I turn off and I follow her,I touched in the arm,and the conversation have been like this:
Hi I was with a friend walking,and I see you,and I want to meet you(Mistake)
She smile and say like Oh Ok,I ask her name,where do you go,with hurry and simple questions to build a conversation.I say to her many times in the conversations a cause of my pauses when I don't found the right word, that my english is terrible but at the end are only 10 days that I arrived in Australia.
Before she leave the set I ask her the number but she don't give me..Obviously just for fun
Then I try the other sets starting with Indirect questions,like do you advice a club?or every kind of info.
The girls especially in the big city are super accustomed about this questions.
Apparently are normal,but they understand perfectly what are your intentions if you show them a little bit of interest. So I think the right way is to be a little bit funny and make them laugh in any case without lose your value.
I try another few sets but I understand that I miss and it's not something that I can change in ten minutes.
In summary I have to understand the right ways to conduct an interesting conversation in english,how to respond to a shit test,How to warm the conversation without to be rude or a classic dirty seducer.How to do a direct approach without seems needy or without value.
Probably I will try again in the weekend

Game on!