This field report took place on Friday night, September 02, 2016 at a bar around the corner from my apartment. It was sometime between 11:30 pm and 12:00 am. Most bars and clubs where i live at, close at 2:00 am. So i decided to do a 2 hour night game session. I didn't particularly feel "in-state" that night, but whether i'm "in-state" or "out-of-state" it doesn't really matter to me anymore. Whenever i feel like this, i just tell myself; "You've been in the game for almost 3 years now. The training wheels have been off for a while now man, and it's time to put on your Fucking Big Boy Pants Bro!!!" So i go out. LOl


Btw..This is a bar that i got kicked out of a couple times in the past, because i asked for ice-water (i game sober) instead of purchasing their beer. But i don't think that was the only reason. They probably saw me hitting on their female customers and thought that i was a creep. But the bartender staff hasn't recognized me the past couple of times that i went back there. I don't take chances anymore. So i buy the fucking beer..only 1 bottle. And i take baby sips of the one bottle of beer to last me throughout the entire night. It's also less expensive to do it this way. I game sober so that i can recall and internalize the lessons that i learned that day or that night.


I take the calibrated approach and talk to a couple of dudes hanging out nearby me at the bar. As i knew that the bar-tending staff was probably watching my every move..which btw are all dudes. And no doubt..there are probably a couple of "White Knights" among them. In the past..i've dealt with "White Knight Bartenders" that have cocked blocked me from talking to one of their customers, that just so happened to be a cute or hot chick that i tried to hook. So that taught me a lesson.."To Be More Calibrated With My Approach". Especially if the bar is small, and the volume of customers isn't large enough to keep the bar staff preoccupied. I didn't want to make it obvious what i was doing there right away, by making a B-Line straight to the girls. So i chat and socialize with these drunken idiots for several minutes. I have a strategy that i sometimes employ to inconspicuously scope out the entire bar for potential sets, naturally..without coming across as a creeper. So i decide to go to the bathroom. On my way there..i don't make eye contact with anyone i pass. Since the bathroom is all the way at the end of the bar..when i walk back out of the bathroom, i can see the entire landscape of the bar's interior. I smoothly scan as i'm walking back to the front of the bar from the bathroom. I pass by a 2-set (1 girl - HB8.2 Brunette, and 1 guy) sitting at a table. Over the shoulder (old school over the shoulder pua tactic - showing active disinterest in the target) i compliment on how the HB8.2 Brunette had her hair in a bun on top of her head. Her eyes lit up. She smiled and said "Thank you". I smiled back and walked off. But hold on Lol..I only took a few steps when i walked off, turned back around to the girl again (body rock), and leaned forward to her. I extended my hand for hers and said "What was your name again?" She told me what her name was, and i told her my name. I also introduced myself to the guy at the table, who turned out to be her guy friend. I acknowledged the guy friend to reduce the possibility of him AMOGing me later. I said a couple of more words to the HB8.2 Brunette (brief fluff/introductory/stacking-rapport) while i smoothly dragged a chair to the table and sat down as i kept talking to her, while maintaining strong eye contact. Btw..the guy friend was looking at me with laser focus the whole time while i was opening LOL. But i remained cool, calm, collected, and non-reactive..Icy Motherfucker! LOL


The conversation between me and the HB8.2 Brunette continued as we both start asking each other investment questions; "What brings you out here tonight? Where are you from? What do you do for a living? Where did you get your education? blah blah blah. That's when i knew that the set hooked. At some point, another guy sits down at the table between the HB8.2 Brunette and the guy friend, turns out it was the HB8.2 Brunette's boyfriend...Dun Dun Dun! Lol The same as with the guy friend..i am very sociable, introduce myself to the boyfriend and acknowledge him as well, so that he doesn't see me as a threat. This is always my method for disarming guys in any mix-set that i approach, so they can just see me as just another cool, friendly guy, who is just being friendly with everyone. I'm presenting myself as a chode, for them to see me as a non-threat. Meanwhile, my intentions with my target is still clear and i'm gaming her under the radar.


So the boyfriend and the guy friend are talking amongst themselves. I focus my attention back to the HB8.2 Brunette. Through our deep rapport with each other..we find out that we went to the same art school/college, have parallel career goals, and share alot of the same philosophies and beliefs about life and our current state of politics in the US (comfort & attraction spikes). While she's explaining what she's talking about..she make some hand gestures as if she wants me to give her a high five. So i randomly give her a few high fives in the middle of her talking LOl. She's like "WTF?", and i tease her by saying "I'm high-fiving you because your hand gestures seem like they want me to high-five them (negs). She laughs. In reality..i'm just setting her up for kino escalation. At some point i grab her high-five and she holds it (strong ioi). I keep her hand held on top of her crossed legs under the table, so that noone at the table could see what we both were doing. At this point..i knew that it was ON between me and her. But for good measure..i still look around the bar in an aloof type of way, self-amusing, and non-intense facial expressions and body language, to take away from what was actually going on under the table. I was massaging her hand with my other hand that wasn't being occupied by her hand. I also stroked her crossed legs repeatedly under the table. I can tell that she was loving it, because she did not resist my kino. She was wearing stockings underneath her skirt. I then asked her if she smoked. She said "No..why?" I said "Because i wanted to take a smoke break outside of the bar, while i still talk to you, plus i can hear you better outside. It will only take 2 minutes" (false time constraint). I lied, i don't even smoke. lol  I just used this as an excuse to bounce her outside of the bar. She complied, and said "Okay sure". So we both got up out of our seats and start leaving the table. Her boyfriend; who was still sitting at the table talking to the guy friend and some other chick that came into the set earlier, said to his girlfriend (the HB8.2 Brunette) "You okay, you good?" She replied "Yes, i'm okay". This was code for: "Is he bothering you?". But since he saw that she was 100% cool with me ..he didn't want to seem reactive. So he stayed seated at the table, as me and the HB8.2 Brunette walk out of the bar together. Now i walked a couple of feet ahead of her and..I Did Not Hold Her Hand AT ALL!! Because that would've been a mis-calibration on my part, and it would've been too obvious that i was trying to pick up his girl.


Outside of the bar..i post up against the wall (lock-in position) and i make my intent very clear to her. I reached for her hand again and tell her that "You're so adorable". I asked her has she ever had an Eskimo kiss before? She says "I know what an Eskimo kiss is" with a sarcastic smirk and giggle. She's not stupid, she knew exactly what was happening. So i rub my nose with her nose, and since her lips are in close proximity..i move in for the kiss. She says to me "Smoooooth". I look into her eyes with deep eye contact and i say to her "Your lips are so soft." She smiles, and we kiss again. This one was more of a make out. I said "One more" LOl. We make out again. We stop and go back to talking, and then i make out with her a couple more times in between our conversation. At some point i see her boyfriend coming out of the bar, and i let go of the HB8.2 Brunette's hand immediately! LOL  He looks at me with a skeptical look on his face, squares up in front of me (only inches away from my face), and says holding onto his chin as if he was thinking while pointing at me; "I don't know about you..It's something about you..I just can't put my finger on it". Even though he was a skinny hipster dude, weighed less than me, and shorter than me..i was still like "Oh Shit! Is He About To Fight Me?" thinking inside of my head. I didn't know if he was going to start swinging at me or what. But i usually go to my go-to strategy, the AMOG disarm method. I just remained friendly, non-reactive, cool, calm, and collected. I went into a multi-thread conversation with him and another dude that walked into the set (a friend of his)..and everything was chilled out again. The HB8.2 Brunette was now standing locked-in arm-and-arm with her boyfriend, posted up against the wall on his left side. I was posted up against the wall on his right side. So since she was back on him..the pressure was cooled off now. Some time had passed, and eventually the boyfriend went back inside of the bar. And the other dude walked home. We all parted each other on bro terms. By this time, it was real close to 2:00 am - probably more like 1:48 am. I saw the HB8.2 Brunette walking off in the distance to the street crosswalk, but she was still on the sidewalk. I ran up to her and was like "Hold up..wait one second!" There was a light post there, which i got behind it, and pulled her into me. I went back to the sweet talking and intentful frame that i had when we first walked out of the bar together earlier and saying things like "Isn't this romantic? Us holding each other late night by the street light?" With a naughty smile, she said "Yes it is".. We made out there a couple more times, and more heavily too. We parted ways. She walked to her car to wait there for her boyfriend, who was still inside of the bar. And i went home to my apartment around the corner. As i walked back..i was thinking to myself like; "Damn!!! What Just Happened Was Pretty Bad Ass!!"


-G

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LEARNING GAME IS LAME!..Right up until the point when you will eventually see a hot girl standing or sitting right in front of you. In that moment..you will wish that you had learned game!

Good read and good job.

I don't know if I would've had the balls.

Thank you bud, i appreciate it!


A couple of years ago, i wouldn't have had the balls to do this either. Back then..this feat would've been next to impossible for me to pull off, considering the skill level that i had at the time. Especially, to pull it off as smoothly as i did in this field report. But the longer and deeper you get into the game (the more experience you accumulate)..the skill set that you develop over time, eventually allows to feel comfortable enough for you to start taking greater risks in the field.


-G

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LEARNING GAME IS LAME!..Right up until the point when you will eventually see a hot girl standing or sitting right in front of you. In that moment..you will wish that you had learned game!

Hey dude you seem to know your stuff but I think you can lay off the rating women thing! Totally unnecessary. Good work but I am sure there were plenty of women without guys that night. Just because you have the ability to make out with another guy's girlfriend in the same bar as him doesn't make it a good idea.

Although my morals have changed over the years and I did fuck a sexy married woman, (her hubby was back in Poland)she wasn't in a happy marriage and I guess she needed some excitement. lol

Even though what you did was wrong. Imagine how hot it would have been if you had fucked her in the toilet!

By the way do you go out on your own a lot? I've been out a few times on my own to bars but still find it a bit of a challenge although one time I did go to a bar when the girl I was supposed to be meeting from bloody tinder flaked. So I decided to go to a bar. Got chatting to 2 sexy blondes and ended up chatting to them for half and hour and left the bar with them.

The rating thing is just for my reference to see how i'm doing with these hot girls, and if the girls in my field reports are getting hotter & hotter, etc. It's also easier for me to describe the girls by number ratings, without actually going into great detail about how they look like.


There were only 2 decent sets in that bar that night. The set that i made the field report about, and another set with 2 girls and a guy in it. The set i chose, started with just the girl and her guy friend. So after screening that particular logistic early on..i liked my chances and i just decided to go with that set. I don't think it was possible for me to fuck her in the bathroom since her boyfriend and her friends was in the same bar that we were in. The best move was to isolate her outside of the bar away from them. Now, i could've tried taking her home, but that probably would've been pushing it. The fact that i made out with her several different times that night, was pretty crazy. LOl What i was doing was pretty dicey already.


I do go out alone quite a bit. My first year in game was all solo. I didn't have the luxury of a wingman until my 2nd year in game. I still got laid by a few different girls before i got my first ever wingman. Most of my solo days/nights now is by choice..primarily because of the lack of pickup skill of the guys that i wing with (this one wingman in particular). But i find that i tend to do better alone, because i don't have to worry about my wingman fucking up the sets. He's very socially awkward, and always has excuses for not practicing. Even though i always hammer it home to him that to get good, it takes alot of practice. I know from personal experience.


But i have been on a few insta-dates with girls while with my wing(s). I do have a new wingman now, and his game seems pretty good. He also has great logistics. His pad is around the corner from the party street in my city. We will now be trying to pull girls from the bars & clubs, straight to his pad.


-G

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LEARNING GAME IS LAME!..Right up until the point when you will eventually see a hot girl standing or sitting right in front of you. In that moment..you will wish that you had learned game!

Hey dude I've been trying solo but its tough. Not such a problem on the street but I mainly do bars. I missed out on approaching this 2 set in a bar. 2 guys went to sit with them but they weren't with them and didn't even talk to the girls then they got up and left.

It is tough Tony77. Me doing my 1st year of pickup entirely solo was not by choice or design, but it was more by circumstance. The best part about it is..because i was so used to doing solo game for so long..my inner game in the field was so much more grounded than any of my wings once i started sarging with them. Yes, you will probably have your worst days/nights of game doing solo, but you will also probably have your best days/nights of game doing solo. Your greatest lessons will come from doing solo. Go out with wings too of course..but do solo game as well. A balance!


The other reason is because you will eventually come to the realization that most guys that come into pickup won't last that long. Some of the reasons are the following; They eventually will quit because their game has plateaued and they remain in the "chasing pussy" paradigm, as opposed to the "attracting pussy" paradigm, and they feel that the returns that they get is way less than the effort that they are putting in..so staying in the game is no longer worth it to them. They get tired of the game, come up with excuses for not going out, stop challenging themselves, get jealous of you if they see you progressing and they are stagnating, get a girlfriend, get married, or revert back to being a chode, etc. But if you never depended on any of them in the first place..none of their hangups in the game would ever effect you going out and taking action for yourself.


That's the main benefit of doing solo..self-reliance, despite your pickup peers falling out of the game and out of your life for whatever reason. Whatever they do or don't do won't affect you.


-G

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LEARNING GAME IS LAME!..Right up until the point when you will eventually see a hot girl standing or sitting right in front of you. In that moment..you will wish that you had learned game!