Hey.So, i am a guy that women find attractive until i open my mouth..yeah i know this is a terrible thing to say but i think that saying it might help me improve myself instead of pretend it's not true.Anyway, somehow a super hot chick made eye contact with me in a bar, smiled at me and then bought me shots, after a few minutes she came and asked me where can she and her firends find some pizza and we talked for a while.When she was leaving she told me that she will be at the same bar in 3 days and i asked for her facebook.I didn't add her on facebook at the time because she is a fecabook superstar and my profile sucks.Three days later i went to the same bar and there she was, she came and said hi and then sometime later aksed me to dance and i said "i don't dance", from that point she started to lose interest on me.After a while i bought some shots we said a few more words and then she dissapeared.Today i decided to add her on facebook but her profile is full and i can't send her a friend request.Can someone please tell me how can i save this? i really like her and this is a very rare thing for me to say.

why Facebook n not phone number

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Never worry bout what I do
I'd be coming home back to you
Every night, doin' you right

I know, big mistake..and now it would be pathetic to message her to add me on facebook.She has an instagram account also but it's not under the same username so it would be weird to follow her since she never gave it to me.

Say that the other times you had stuff on your mind and were not interested but you will take some tequilas together. Alone.

you'll see her at the club again. maybe dont contact her on Facebook, but wait til you meet up in the club again

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If I was ya man, baby, you'd
Never worry bout what I do
I'd be coming home back to you
Every night, doin' you right

Don't try to save this. You aren't about to ruin it. You already ruined it.

Time and time again on the forum, we see guys that mess up attraction because they try to save escalation for later. You should have left with her and her friend to get pizza. You should have danced with her. Instead, you were a "do nothing". She lost interest and purposely left without saying goodbye.

Learn to take advantage of the moments presented to you. Not acting is why pretty boys like you lose women.

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Too late, managed to send a friend request after all and told her that something was bothering me the other day and she told me "yeah i figured it out".haha, so i look like something bad has happened to me lol.She seemed kind of interested after i said that but eventually my random talking made her lose interest again.Anyway this topic is about real field so maybe i'll write about it now somewhere else.JackZero, yeah you are 100% right and believe me i've worked hard to look good but turned out it doesn't matter at all, tact is everything.

if you didnt look good, tact wouldn't matter at all either

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If I was ya man, baby, you'd
Never worry bout what I do
I'd be coming home back to you
Every night, doin' you right

Bullshit, tact and personality matter a fuckton more than looks.

Looks help you, they matter, there is no way of denying it. If you are a very very attractive guy you can have lots of dates even if your game is mediocre. But as far as concluding well the dates, then the game matters a fuckton more than looks.

I can guarantee you, as somebody who has lots of female friends that they slept with a fuckton of ugly guys that they liked for some reason and refused lots of very good looking guys because they were shy and introvert and creepy.

Generally avoid any Galist suggestion, as he's a creep that sits home all time spamming lovoo and tinder.

Learned this the hard way. I consider myself a good looking man. I get the opportunities and I think the OP was wayyyy to use to being picked up that he forgets that he has to actually put in some effort. OP is used to having girls just spread open her labia and the girls being like "ok insert here". So he never really learns how to pickup.

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