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It's refreshing to see someone starting at the beginner beginner level, where you're just getting into cold approach pickup and you're just offering value to girls - giving out compliments, indirect approaches like asking for the time. It's refreshing to me because that's the position i started from as a hard case newbie. I'm about 2 full years in the game now at intermediate status.
But as you become acclimated to that, doing what you're doing now; with the compliments and indirect approaches..after a couple more months of that i really recommend adding polarity to your game. That means challenging girls (with teasing, negging, disqualifyers, false time constraints, multi-threading - talking endlessly by means of smoothly transitioning from topic to topic, and kinoing - touching girls, plowing - persisting, strong eye contact and vocal tonality). These polarity based pickup skills/techniques will skyrocket your game to intermediate level pretty fast. It did for me, so i'm speaking from experience and about stuff that helped me to get laid by several different girls throught my pickup journey. Let me know if you want me to give you some examples of those techniques that i use. I'm here to help a brother in need.
Hey man thank you so much for your kind words and also your advise!!!
I've been doing something with my approach anxiety for couple of weeks. About 100 trails and errors I learned and I grew more confident. I am learning some techniques now. I wasn't able to apply technique at all because a lot of my first impression is friendly based on innocent topics such as asking for time and some survey questions. When I am with my date. I can sexually escalate and take them to bed no problem. But NOT with girls I just met on the street.
I'd like to you buy you a drink if you happened to live in new york as well!!