Hay guys,
I'm new in this forum so ... hello my name is Kostadin I'm from Plovdiv - Bulgaria and have been practicing the art of pick-up for about 3-4 months. I'm looking for a long term relationship with a woman, I don't do one night stands and just want to be with a great girl
. But heres what happened this evening.
We were at a bar with some friends and one of the waitresses was clearly showing some IOIs. After they left I decided to go back. I pretendet I've lost my notebook and opened the topic of this how I just went to one of my friends to get my equipment, cos I played in a bar last saturday and left my equipment in them. Which is true
.
- What do you play on?
- Well electric guitar, all styles except flamenco
. I've even played in this bar too.
- Oh really? Great!
- Do you wanna see me?
-Yes.
- OK, look at the Facebook page of the bar.
Then I showed her some pictures and a clip and she was amazed. Then she said.
- Why don't you add me on facebook. I'd love to hand out with you some time. You're so energetic.
- OK here's my Facebook.
There was clearly some flirt there. You know, like wet eyes some kino from her and me.
Then when I looked at her facebook page, I saw she was married with a kid. WTF?!
After that I went to a fast food restaurant where I've been hitting on a girl, lets call her X, but to be honest she didn't really show me IOIs well ... I could give it a try. I go there and open her in front of a girl coleggue of her ... lets call her Y. And the minut I do this Y turns her head to a guy and says "Hay Peter, you wife is getting me pissed off here".
Now guys I'm very thankful to ms. X cos she saved me for a lot of trouble, i hope, but X never said I have a boyfriend.
Is that normal in the PUA world and how can I avoid situations like this?
Thanks guys
CHAT