I'm new to the community and the forum so hello, today I decided to actually start taking my love life seriously. My friends dad handed me The Game when I was still in high school, so my confidence was threw the roof and some girls threw themselves at me but obviously I know that having manipulative powers over women won't fulfill you with happiness but I still was not able to close when I wanted to. Fast forward till I'm a 20 year old junior in college and not having much success with women, I finaly went out to a nightclub, that I had been to with friends a couple of times, solo after no one I asked would go with me. I used the opener "I'm so embarrassed I almost wore the exact same thing" a couple of times and just found myself with a laugh from the girls and then I walked away out of anxiety. This led to me just kind of standing around listening to the music while contemplating making a forum account and thinking of a name. After a while I sat down and a group of 3 girls hb8s came and sat next to me. I used the opener again they laughed asked how they knew each other and they said" "high school" so after the fluff one of them exclaimed about her dip being left in the car so I asked what kind and she said molly. We talked about how I thought she meant tobacco they left and while they were leaving I caught the girl I opened and told her that she should take my number down. She said I don't think so. Later I was standing, back against the wall and I noticed I was being approached by a cute girl, but I wasn't able to muster up anything except a no and a smile after she asked her question. She asked with a smile then walked off after into the crowd "didn't you work at Kroger"